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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jul 08, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
so whats the difference exactly?
fanatism and an inability to think for oneself and find their truth
Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by MISEDUCATIONS: 12:51pm On Jul 08, 2018
funmisticqueen:
even sour cream is still delicious, whether wine or milk, both go through the fermentation process, remember that.
have you ever seen the well-off eat sour cream? thats a meal for the poor.

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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jul 08, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:

have you ever seen the well-off eat sour cream? thats a meal for the poor.
that is off topic. sourcream is still used in a lot of recipes and has a lot of health benefits
Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by MISEDUCATIONS: 12:54pm On Jul 08, 2018
funmisticqueen:
fanatism and an inability to think for oneself and find their truth
if she thinks for herself and her truth turns out different from yours?

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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by MISEDUCATIONS: 12:55pm On Jul 08, 2018
funmisticqueen:
that is off topic. sourcream is still used in a lot of recipes and has a lot of health benefits
are we discussing health benefits or class. the cheapest food for the poor is always healthiest anyways.
but still its for the poor

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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Ishilove: 12:56pm On Jul 08, 2018
Hanseel1:
Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage

You know what ? just ignore all this talk about submission and subordination. all of this is irrelevant when it comes to a happy union. You have to remember one thing, it is one thing to have a happy union based on respect and it is another thing to have a happy union based on commandering /dictatorship. The happy union based on respect will will always prosper while the one based on commandering/dictatorship will be filled with troubles.

All i am saying is that, look for a person whom you are both on each others level, you laugh together, you are like buddys, you joke together, you act silly together, you are best friends, you are like 2 peas in a pod, you feel extremely comfortable in each others company because once you have that ? issues like 'submission' will never arise. You dont have to submit to any human being.
No matter how you try to put it, being submissive is the same thing as being subservient (submission will always lead to subservience). Why should you be subservient to another human being in the name of marriage?
If you feel like you have to submit to your husband, then you are in the wrong marriage.
Are you married?
Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Nobody: 12:58pm On Jul 08, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:

are we discussing health benefits or class. the cheapest food for the poor is always healthiest anyways.
but still its for the poor
can you say the same for yoghurt. i think it is a thing of personal preference.fo. example in nigeria, garri is a food for the poor but a lot of wealthy people still like it in all its forms. anyway, our discussion was submission in marriage. let's not digress
Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Nobody: 1:01pm On Jul 08, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
if she thinks for herself and her truth turns out different from yours?
now that is a dufference in opinion, cos the person once shared another point of view and is hereby more objective in her arguments
Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by MISEDUCATIONS: 1:02pm On Jul 08, 2018
funmisticqueen:
can you say the same for yoghurt. i think it is a thing of personal preference.fo. example in nigeria, garri is a food for the poor but a lot of wealthy people still like it in all its forms. anyway, our discussion was submission in marriage. let's not digress
from Fresh Milk to Sour Cream to Yoghurt?? look at you run!

if you are a woman, you age like milk. hate it or love it. thats why any man who dates a woman younger than you gets called a pedophile. coz you're sensitive to ageing.

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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by MISEDUCATIONS: 1:03pm On Jul 08, 2018
funmisticqueen:
now that is a dufference in opinion, cos the person once shared another point of view and is hereby more objective in her arguments
what
Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jul 08, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
like which country has two presidents?
even your body has one brain to control it.
Lol... The OP is very funny, I can't imagine loving, feeding, clothing and providing for every need of a woman and The same woman will not see me as a leader in the house I built with my money. what he fails to understand is that in this case the submission will come in naturally and unconsciously. No man should force a woman to submit to him, when you do your duty as a husband to her and as a father to your kids they will submit to you.
Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by MISEDUCATIONS: 1:05pm On Jul 08, 2018
xoxo001:

Lol... The OP is very funny, I can't imagine loving, feeding, clothing and providing for every need of a woman and The same woman will not see me as a leader in the house I built with my money. what he fails to understand is that in this case the submission will come in naturally and unconsciously. No man should force a woman to submit to him, when you do your duty as a husband to her and as a father to your kids they will submit to you.
thats what happens when sex starved young men who look forward to marriage as Sex Paradise write on the internet

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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by pocohantas(f): 1:08pm On Jul 08, 2018
xoxo001:

Lol... The OP is very funny, I can't imagine loving, feeding, clothing and providing for every need of a woman and The same woman will not see me as a leader in the house I built with my money. what he fails to understand is that in this case the submission will come in naturally and unconsciously. No man should force a woman to submit to him, when you do your duty as a husband to her and as a father to your kids they will submit to you.

Chai! Naija women ntorr! grin grin

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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Nobody: 1:10pm On Jul 08, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
from Fresh Milk to Sour Cream to Yoghurt?? look at you run!

if you are a woman, you age like milk. hate it or love it. thats why any man who dates a woman younger than you gets called a pedophile. coz you're sensitive to ageing.
a girl not old enough to be called an adult, of course you are a paedophile. dont be distracted, if you are 50 and date a 25yr old, no one gives a flying fvck but date anyone less than 21 and eyebrows will be raised, yes we hate ageing but it is inevitable. even the men going for minors are seeking the thrill of youth
Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jul 08, 2018
xoxo001:

Lol... The OP is very funny, I can't imagine loving, feeding, clothing and providing for every need of a woman and The same woman will not see me as a leader in the house I built with my money. what he fails to understand is that in this case the submission will come in naturally and unconsciously. No man should force a woman to submit to him, when you do your duty as a husband to her and as a father to your kids they will submit to you.
your are definitely not attending to everyneed of a woman that is why she wont submit.
Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by MISEDUCATIONS: 1:12pm On Jul 08, 2018
funmisticqueen:
a girl not old enough to be called an adult, of course you are a paedophile. dont be distracted, if you are 50 and date a 25yr old, no one gives a flying fvck but date anyone less than 21 and eyebrows will be raised, yes we hate ageing but it is inevitable. even the men going for minors are seeking the thrill of youth
this is my age group. its sweet as hell:

ubunja:
19-22 years old. anything older is a living fossil that now has a sweet character just because the pvssy is no longer sweet.

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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Nobody: 1:13pm On Jul 08, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
thats what happens when sex starved young men who look forward to marriage as Sex Paradise write on the internet
miseducations
see the submission(control) i am talking about here
Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Nobody: 1:14pm On Jul 08, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
this is my age group. its sweet as hell:
so wait. i was talking to a child all along. Goodbye son

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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Nobody: 1:17pm On Jul 08, 2018
pocohantas:


Chai! Naija women ntorr! grin grin
lol... I had a girlfriend once who was actually taking goodcare of me, she dey give me money, buy me clothes , feed me when I was in school then, unconsciously sis, I was very submissive to her. I loved her so much that I could do anything for her.

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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Nobody: 1:20pm On Jul 08, 2018
funmisticqueen:
your are definitely not attending to everyneed of a woman that is why she wont submit.
Alright ma
Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by MISEDUCATIONS: 1:30pm On Jul 08, 2018
funmisticqueen:
so wait. i was talking to a child all along. Goodbye son
enough with the drama. you quoted me on that post before.
Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Nobody: 1:39pm On Jul 08, 2018
Ishilove:

Are you married?

I am. Since 2015.

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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Nobody: 1:40pm On Jul 08, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
thats what happens when sex starved young men who look forward to marriage as Sex Paradise write on the internet

Why should I be sex starved when I have a wife?

With a comprehension ability this shallow, I don't think you possess the basic cognitive requirements to participate in this debate. My elementary employment of satire should fall within the purview of your intellectual circumference.

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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Nobody: 1:43pm On Jul 08, 2018
xoxo001:

Lol... The OP is very funny, I can't imagine loving, feeding, clothing and providing for every need of a woman and The same woman will not see me as a leader in the house I built with my money. what he fails to understand is that in this case the submission will come in naturally and unconsciously. No man should force a woman to submit to him, when you do your duty as a husband to her and as a father to your kids they will submit to you.

My post isn't about dependent women. Even if your wife is dependent it shouldn't make you to see her as less. There are men who do everything for their full time housewives here in Thailand and they still cook for their wives.

Nobody forced you to build a house or acquire one with your money alone. Your ego did.
Don't subject your wife to slavery because of your ego driven decisions .
Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by MISEDUCATIONS: 1:56pm On Jul 08, 2018
Hanseel1:


Why should I be sex starved when I have a wife?

With a comprehension ability this shallow, I don't think you possess the basic cognitive requirements to participate in this debate. My elementary employment of satire should fall within the purview of your intellectual circumference.
the way you keep dismissing people as shallow and simple minded is laughable. in your world no one must disagree with you or they get labelled that what happens when you dont control your wife. YOU COMPENSATE BY TRYING TO CONTROL THE WORLD. too bad you cant see how controlling you are.

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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Nobody: 2:07pm On Jul 08, 2018
Hanseel1:


My post isn't about dependent women. Even if your wife is dependent it shouldn't make you to see her as less. There are men who do everything for their full time housewives here in Thailand and they still cook for their wives.

Nobody forced you to build a house or acquire one with your money alone. Your ego did.
Don't subject your wife to slavery because of your ego driven decisions .

�... cooking for your wife doesn't mean anything bro, she's your wife not a slave. I am a good cook, I love cooking. In fact I prefer to cook for my woman to her cooking for me. slavery has nothing to do with submission anyway, I don hear you

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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by KingTugreat: 2:08pm On Jul 08, 2018
MISEDUCATIONS:
Hanseel1 is more Feminist than the feminists themselves.
i wonder if they promised the man-hating man a pvssy of his own. niggah how can you betray your kind like this? and for what? a pat on the back : good boy!!
i spit
Hansel1 is just a typical nice guy and mama trained him to worship and idolise women for the rest of his life.He doesnt know he lives and die for womens approval.At the end of it all he always finish last,the girls he defends only see him as a friend and nothing more,he never smells their pants.He is just a typical nice guy like 80% of men today

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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by MISEDUCATIONS: 2:20pm On Jul 08, 2018
KingTugreat:

Hansel1 is just a typical nice guy and mama trained him to worship and idolise women for the rest of his life.He doesnt know he lives and die for womens approval.At the end of it all he always finish last,the girls he defends only see him as a friend and nothing more,he never smells their pants.He is just a typical nice guy like 80% of men today
he says he's married. which explains why he's so controlling. he's compensating for not being the head at home thats why he's so bossy on the internet and controlling and doesnt tolerate different opinions.

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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Nobody: 4:10pm On Jul 08, 2018
I wish I can like your post more than once, this is just the absolute truth which most women are scared to face



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IT AMAZES ME THAT IT IS MOSTLY WOMEN THAT CLING TO RELIGION WHICH HAS CONDEMNED AND STILL CONDEMNS THEM. THERE'S NOT A SINGLE RELIGION THAT VALUES WOMEN, OR HAVE ANYTHING IN THEIR INTEREST.
EVERY MAJOR WORLD RELIGION – WITHOUT EXCEPTION – IS INTENSELY PATRIARCHAL. EVERY ONE OF THEM ENGAGES IN THE SYSTEMATIC DEVALUATION OF WOMEN, IN THE SYSTEMATIC EXCLUSION OF WOMEN FROM POSITIONS OF AUTHORITY, AND IN THE SYSTEMATIC OPPRESSION AND EVEN ENSLAVEMENT OF WOMEN.

WOMEN ARE ALWAYS PRAYING, ALWAYS IN CHURCH, ALWAYS SUBMITTING TO ONE DADDY PASTOR OR WORSHIPPING A REVEREND FATHER. BUT THEIR RELIGION PLACES THEM NEXT TO USELESS.

THE SHARIA CODE DENIES WOMEN THEIR RIGHT TO AN EDUCATION, TO MEDICAL CARE, OR TO GO OUT IN PUBLIC UNACCOMPANIED BY A MALE RELATIVE, IN ADDITION TO MANY OTHER FORMS OF CRUELTY, AND PUNISHES TRANSGRESSIONS WITH BARBARIC ACTS SUCH AS FLOGGING AND STONING.

IN MANY MUSLIM COUNTRIES, THE PRACTICE OF “HONOR KILLING” – MURDERING FEMALE RELATIVES WHO HAVE BEEN RAPED, AS A WAY TO CLEANSE THE SHAME THEY HAVE BROUGHT ON THEIR FAMILY BY BEING THE VICTIM OF SUCH A CRIME – STILL OCCURS.
LIKE.. IF MY SISTER GETS RAPED (OR GETS PREGNANT OUT OF WEDLOCK), I'M SUPPOSED TO TIE HER DOWN IN A GATHERING OF OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS AND SLIT HER THROAT IN ORDER TO CLEANSE SHAME FROM OUR FAMILY. EVERYONE LOVES THIS IDEA.

AND THEN THERE IS THE BEST-KNOWN MANIFESTATION OF ISLAM’S INHUMANITY TO WOMEN: THE SUFFOCATING SHROUDS OF BLACK CLOTH DESIGNED TO STRIP THEM OF THEIR INDIVIDUALITY AND TO MAKE THEM FACELESS, INVISIBLE AND LESS THAN HUMAN.
WOMEN ARE MADE TO WALK AROUND DRESSED LIKE TURTLE NINJAS UNDER THIS SCORCHING AFRICAN SUN, WHILE MEN ARE FREE TO WEAR WHATEVER THEY WANT. WOMEN ARE NOT PERMITTED TO DRIVE CARS OR GIVE THEIR OPINION IN PUBLIC WHILE MEN CAN DO WHATEVER THEY WANT. REVEREND SISTERS MUST BE UNDER RULES AND SECURITY ALL THE TIME WHILE REVEREND FATHERS CAN ROAM LIKE A BIRD. THE CHURCH OF GOD, THEY SAY, BUT A WOMAN CAN NEVER BE POPE, CAN NEVER RULE OVER ALL CATHOLICS BECAUSE GOD'S PREFERRED GENDER IS MALE.

EVEN THE SUPPOSEDLY MORE ENLIGHTENED EASTERN RELIGIONS ARE NOT MUCH BETTER WHEN IT COMES TO TREATING WOMEN AS EQUALS AND AS HUMAN BEINGS.
IN HINDUISM, THE MOST INFAMOUS EXAMPLE IS PROBABLY THE PRACTICE OF "SATI" , IN WHICH WIDOWED WOMEN WERE EXPECTED TO BURN THEMSELVES TO DEATH ON THEIR HUSBAND’S FUNERAL PYRE. ALTHOUGH THIS WAS ALLEGEDLY A VOLUNTARY ACT, IN PRACTICE IT WAS OFTEN INVOLUNTARY, WITH WOMEN DRUGGED, BOUND OR OTHERWISE RESTRAINED BEFORE BEING COMMITTED ALIVE TO THE FLAMES.

RELIGIONS WERE DESIGNED TO PUT PEOPLE UNDER CONTROL. AND WOMEN ARE AT THE BOTTOM OF THE HIERARCHY.




"There is only one realistic way to end religion’s harm to women, and that is to cut it off at the source: every feminist should be an atheist."

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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by Jamie90(m): 4:25pm On Jul 08, 2018
Biglittlelois:



But how now? what he said is kind of true, or you want someone that will kneel down to greet you every morning, you want someone that will say yes to everything you do and say abi?

I really wish the bible gave specific kind of submission it meant so that men wont use that opportunity to ride on us

Since you are eager to know the kind of submission, I will help out.

Wife!, Always serve the food to your husband; then wait still he's done so you could take the dirty dishes away for proper washing.

Wife!, it is your duty to see to your husband's dirty clothes.

Wife!, greet your husband with astounding meekness every morning and when he returns from work.

Wife!, always sweep and clean up the toilet. This demeaning chore is your duty.

Wife!, do ensure you massage his shoulder when he complains of feeling pains there. Don't feel entitled to receive such treatment from him.

The list could go on and on dear...

Don't even form anything posh cause all the aforementioned is the normal married life of an average earner in Nigeria - and we know the masses are much bigger than the rich.
Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by pocohantas(f): 4:53pm On Jul 08, 2018
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IT AMAZES ME THAT IT IS MOSTLY WOMEN THAT CLING TO RELIGION WHICH HAS CONDEMNED AND STILL CONDEMNS THEM. THERE'S NOT A SINGLE RELIGION THAT VALUES WOMEN, OR HAVE ANYTHING IN THEIR INTEREST.
EVERY MAJOR WORLD RELIGION – WITHOUT EXCEPTION – IS INTENSELY PATRIARCHAL. EVERY ONE OF THEM ENGAGES IN THE SYSTEMATIC DEVALUATION OF WOMEN, IN THE SYSTEMATIC EXCLUSION OF WOMEN FROM POSITIONS OF AUTHORITY, AND IN THE SYSTEMATIC OPPRESSION AND EVEN ENSLAVEMENT OF WOMEN.

WOMEN ARE ALWAYS PRAYING, ALWAYS IN CHURCH, ALWAYS SUBMITTING TO ONE DADDY PASTOR OR WORSHIPPING A REVEREND FATHER. BUT THEIR RELIGION PLACES THEM NEXT TO USELESS.

THE SHARIA CODE DENIES WOMEN THEIR RIGHT TO AN EDUCATION, TO MEDICAL CARE, OR TO GO OUT IN PUBLIC UNACCOMPANIED BY A MALE RELATIVE, IN ADDITION TO MANY OTHER FORMS OF CRUELTY, AND PUNISHES TRANSGRESSIONS WITH BARBARIC ACTS SUCH AS FLOGGING AND STONING.

IN MANY MUSLIM COUNTRIES, THE PRACTICE OF “HONOR KILLING” – MURDERING FEMALE RELATIVES WHO HAVE BEEN RAPED, AS A WAY TO CLEANSE THE SHAME THEY HAVE BROUGHT ON THEIR FAMILY BY BEING THE VICTIM OF SUCH A CRIME – STILL OCCURS.
LIKE.. IF MY SISTER GETS RAPED (OR GETS PREGNANT OUT OF WEDLOCK), I'M SUPPOSED TO TIE HER DOWN IN A GATHERING OF OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS AND SLIT HER THROAT IN ORDER TO CLEANSE SHAME FROM OUR FAMILY. EVERYONE LOVES THIS IDEA.

AND THEN THERE IS THE BEST-KNOWN MANIFESTATION OF ISLAM’S INHUMANITY TO WOMEN: THE SUFFOCATING SHROUDS OF BLACK CLOTH DESIGNED TO STRIP THEM OF THEIR INDIVIDUALITY AND TO MAKE THEM FACELESS, INVISIBLE AND LESS THAN HUMAN.
WOMEN ARE MADE TO WALK AROUND DRESSED LIKE TURTLE NINJAS UNDER THIS SCORCHING AFRICAN SUN, WHILE MEN ARE FREE TO WEAR WHATEVER THEY WANT. WOMEN ARE NOT PERMITTED TO DRIVE CARS OR GIVE THEIR OPINION IN PUBLIC WHILE MEN CAN DO WHATEVER THEY WANT. REVEREND SISTERS MUST BE UNDER RULES AND SECURITY ALL THE TIME WHILE REVEREND FATHERS CAN ROAM LIKE A BIRD. THE CHURCH OF GOD, THEY SAY, BUT A WOMAN CAN NEVER BE POPE, CAN NEVER RULE OVER ALL CATHOLICS BECAUSE GOD'S PREFERRED GENDER IS MALE.

EVEN THE SUPPOSEDLY MORE ENLIGHTENED EASTERN RELIGIONS ARE NOT MUCH BETTER WHEN IT COMES TO TREATING WOMEN AS EQUALS AND AS HUMAN BEINGS.
IN HINDUISM, THE MOST INFAMOUS EXAMPLE IS PROBABLY THE PRACTICE OF "SATI" , IN WHICH WIDOWED WOMEN WERE EXPECTED TO BURN THEMSELVES TO DEATH ON THEIR HUSBAND’S FUNERAL PYRE. ALTHOUGH THIS WAS ALLEGEDLY A VOLUNTARY ACT, IN PRACTICE IT WAS OFTEN INVOLUNTARY, WITH WOMEN DRUGGED, BOUND OR OTHERWISE RESTRAINED BEFORE BEING COMMITTED ALIVE TO THE FLAMES.

RELIGIONS WERE DESIGNED TO PUT PEOPLE UNDER CONTROL. AND WOMEN ARE AT THE BOTTOM OF THE HIERARCHY.




"There is only one realistic way to end religion’s harm to women, and that is to cut it off at the source: every feminist should be an atheist."

No chill
No chill at all lipsrsealed

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Re: Don't Submit To Any Man Because Of Marriage by BabbanBura(m): 10:29pm On Jul 08, 2018
Hanseel1:


You're too dumb to participate in this debate.

Don't quote me next time, okay?

Sadly u are the dumb one and more pitiful because you seemed not to understand how you are the dumbass!

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