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|Family / Re: My Dad Breaks Me Down Everyday by Ranti Fadahunsi: 11:43pm On Apr 05|
I feel your pains. My father virtually told me I was ostracized when I was 15 years old. For years, I lived like a slave in my house. And yes, I am the first child. Today, I have bought cars (twice) for my father and mother, I pay my brothers school fees in US, I support another brother and his wife in the US, I gave my sister my former car, I made significant contributions to my sister and brothers wedding, I have paid rent countless times for my siblings, I have sponsored mu siblings on vacation trips to the UK etc. I can keep on counting what I have done for them. But it can never make the pain go away. For 7 years between 15 and 22 years, I did not have a friendly conversation with my siblings. Not one. One day, in my 300 level, I was just fed up and decided to start talking to them. And it has never been the same. They sometime talk to me anyhow, but this treatment has a terrible effect on the self esteem of a child. It is not about the money, or inheritance or all the rubbish some people are saying. But it can be hard and the pain will never go away. Except you locate yourself in a position where you find unconditional love or acceptance again (maybe from a wife, best actually from a wife). I am very comfortable and successful by many standards, but the pain of rejection never goes away. And I am still trying to find and locate myself in that unconditional love situation. People that have not gone through it can never understand. They will only say rubbish. I wish you the best bro. Pray and keep praying. U will overcome
jaystunt: I am the first born in a family of 6 but I hardly ever get the honour or respect that a first born is entitled to.
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|Romance / Re: Her Husband Is My Best Friend! Is Dat Wrong?!!! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 3:37pm On Jun 22, 2012|
There is something called emotional adultery....definitely applies here. And most physical adultery starts from here
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 3:00pm On Jun 19, 2012|
Pally, I am suprised you are calling some people sluts You of all people?? Very very funny. At the end of the day, to each his own. There are people that tell each other they are allowed to Be Intimate outside marriage. Just don't let me catch you. All that rubbish that is coming in to society due to civilisation. But in any society, organisation or group (excpet depraved groups), self control and discipline is celebrated. The higher the self control and discipline, the higher the celebration. VIRGINS, CONTROL YOURSELF. YOU MISS NOTHING. AND YOU ROCK. YOU ARE THE BEST.
And 12inches, you will know if your wife has been with more than 10 people. I wish you all the luck. If you are succcessful in the use of your pussiometer, please let me know oooo. We can market it and we will make money from it. We will be richer than Bill Gates I assure you. I am the first person to ask to be your partner in this business venture ooo (lol). VIRGINS ROCK BABY. THEY ARE THE BESTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTtt
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 2:37pm On Jun 19, 2012|
Ranti Fadahunsi: wa
And in addition to my post above, if you are a babe and u decide to Be Intimate before marriage, then be the best at it. You are either hot or cold. Bleep your life out. IT MAKES NO DIFFERENCE WHETHER YOU SLEPT WITH 1 GUY or 1000000 GUYS. NOBODY WILL EVER KNOW AND YOUR GUY WILL HAVE TO ACCEPT WHATEVER YOU SAY. EXCEPT HE IS GOING TO FIND OUT, JUST TELL HIM YOU HAVE BEEN WITH ONE GUY. No difference whatesoever. But if you are going to sleep around, maximise it and make sure u reap some financial benefits from doing so. Because the guy can leave you at any time. HE OWES YOU ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. But if you are a virgin. Keep yourself. You can never regret it. You are the best and you rock.......
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 1:32pm On Jun 19, 2012|
deavicky: and why is it that we talk about the virginity of the female only and nobody talk about the guys or our own is not important?
Read my post. I said I am currently keeping myself too. Not a virgin BUT i HONESTLY wish I had remained one. BUT BABES ARE AT THE GREATER RISK FROM SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. AND THE VIRGINITY OF A BABE IS RELATIVELY PROVABLE. FOR A GUY, YOU HAVE TO TAKE HIM AT HIS WORD.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 1:09pm On Jun 19, 2012|
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|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 1:01pm On Jun 19, 2012|
Ranti Fadahunsi: wa
And what is with Nairaland changing all my words to something else? That is so childish. Put a disclaimer that says that people should abide by some rules or something. I type something and read it after posting and it reads something else!!! That is so annoying. Relatively new to nairaland and this pisses me off.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 12:56pm On Jun 19, 2012|
I think you said it all. YOU WANT THE SEX. Fine. If you find a babe that wants the sex. Bleep her as many times as possible. You are lucky. I WANT THE SEX TOO. MORE THAN YOU WANT IT. But I have decided to keep myself till marriage. Hard. But doable. And any babe who has the self control to hold on till marriage is rare, and should be highly commended. SELF CONTROL. That is the message. Saying you have no self control before marriage makes me wonder how you will cope after marriage. What happens if you are in the USA for a two year program, your wife cannot go with you. WHAT WILL YOU DO? Self control. Sleep around and risk the well being of your family? If you cannot hold yourself before marriage, YOU CAN NEVER HOLD YOURSELF AFTER MARRIAGE if there is a long time separation. I have friends who are married, have lovely wives, BUT STILL CHEAT. So many of them. It is all about discipline.
Babes, if you are a virgin, zip up your pants until he rings up your finger. No better advice I can give you. If you are not a virgin, zip up your pants until he rings up your finger. The fact that you made a wrong turning on the way to Ibadan from Lagos does not mean you should keep on making wrong turnings till you make a catastrophic mistake. I am a guy. I Love Intimacy. I want sex. BUT, mu greatest passion is bringing out the best in people and telling people the truth. And the truth is if you are a virgin, YOU ROCK. Keep on improving yourself. If you are not a virgin and have decided to keep yourself. Good. You also rock in your own way. I will be praying for you. It is hard, I can testify to that, but very doable. And if you are not a virgin and you love regular sex. Good for you. Do as it pleases you. But be ready for the consequence and don't EVER GO ANYWHERE SAYING THAT YOU GAVE HIM ALL AND HE DUMPED YOU!!!! I hate it with a passion when a babe willingly opens her legs for a guy and claims the guy used her!!! I have had a babe say that to me before. She wanted the sex. Told me she wanted the sex. We had the sex. I realised I could not marry her. Wanted to break up with her. And she was asking me why I used her!!!!!
The guy did not ra..pe you, you suggested that you wanted to sleep with him. He slept with you. There are consequences and you cry and say the guy messed up your life!!! Any babe that says that is an ID.I.OT> It was your choice. If he did not ra..pe you, please never go anywhere saying a guy messed up your life. YOU HAD A CHOICE. So if you want to enjoy sex, please go ahead. But know that that is your CHOICE. Period. And finally, Virgins rock. Keep it up babes (if you are a virgin). YOU ROCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 9:52am On Jun 19, 2012|
Ranti Fadahunsi: The Bible states a true fact: The race is not to the swift, the battle is not to the strong, but time and chance happens to them all. TIME AND CHANCE. The most brilliant guy in the class may not be the riches in the class. But his hardwork will give him a better chance at success than the lazy guy stabbing classes. The most beautiful babe in the class may not marry the most handsome guy on earth. But her beauty gives her a better chance of guys chasing her than the ugly babe. There are no gurantees in Life. If you are the best in Maths and you are average in other subjects, what you should do is maintaining your performance in mathematics and improve in other areas.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 9:05am On Jun 19, 2012|
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 9:01am On Jun 19, 2012|
The Bible states a true fact: The race is not to the swift, the battle is not to the strong, but time and chance happens to them all. TIME AND CHANCE. The most brilliant guy in the class may not be the riches in the class. But his hardwork will give him a better chance at success than the lazy guy stabbing classes. The most beautiful babe in the class may not marry the most handsome guy on earth. But her beauty gives her a better chance of guys chasing her than the ugly babe. There are no gurantees in Life. If you are the best in Maths and you are average in other subjects, what you should do is maintaining your performance in mathematics and improve in other areas.
1) Virgins are the best in terms of intimate purity. A virgin is a babe that has decided to keep herself until marriage.
2) If you are a virgin and you are not a good cook, not doing well academically, etc. YOU CAN WORK ON THAT AND GET BETTER. BUT ONE YOU LOSE YOUR VITGINITY< YOU CAN NEVER GET THAT BACK.
3) If you are a virgin, you have absolute peace of mind. No STDs. No unwanted pregnancies (I know many single mothers. Was jisting with one yesterday and she lamented the mistakes of her past cos all the guys she has met run from her once they know she has a child!!!). No emotional damage from giving yourself wholly to a guy and you are at his mercy if he rejects you and you have to do everything to please him just to retain him. YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT!!! Place a VALUE on yourself and live true to the value.
4) Virginity is not about hymen. If your hymen is still intact, congratulations!!! But not all babes medically have hymen. Virginity is about the PRINCIPLE OF VALUING YOURSELF, KEEPING YOURSELF UNTIL A MAN WHO LOVES YOU ENOUGH TO WAIT FOR U PUTS A RING ON IT.
5) If a man loves you and truly loves you, HE WILL WAIT. If he wants sex now, HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU. Otherwise why are you disvirgined and not still dating the guy who disvirgined you. Sex as a proof of love is a lie from the pit of hell. If he loves you, he will wait.
6) There are no gurantees in life. The race is not to the swift, the batle is not to the strong. So being a virgin does not mean you will be a good accountant. In fact, there is no basis for comparism. Why compare the presecence of self control and discipline to being a good and successful career woman? that is bollocks. No basis for comparison. I know babes who want to be house wives, revrernd sisters, etc. No basis for comparison there. Pure bollocks. Please dont let any body fool you with that comparison. LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY DOES NOT GURANTEE THAT YOU WILL BE A SUCCESSFUL ACCOUNTANT EITHER!!!! THEIR IS NO CORRELATION BETWEEN THE TWO. While being disciplined will help you in all you do in life, if you don't want to be a career woman and you want to work in a charity organisation, do what gives your life purpose and meaning
7) There are some things we cannot control and somethings we can control in life. I know people that smoke indian hemp and are doing very well in their career. But I know many more that smoke indian hemp and their life is messed up. Why risk smoking indian hemp because you see one or two people doing it successfully. I know one aristo babe that is married (but the husband is a runs man). They are 'happily married' in a way. Some babes do it and get away with it. But if you are a babe, why take the risk? You may not survive it. You can control what goes on between your legs. EXERCISE THAT CONTROL. Self control is the only thing that separates humans from animals. A Virgin who keeps herself exercises self control. And she is the very best. If you have self control, you can succeed at anything. Because discipline is the fundamental requirement that any organisation, school, wants first. KEPP YOUR VIRGINITY. YOU CAN NEVER REGRET IT. AND YOU ARE THE BEST.
9) This is for the virgins out there. Guys that want to add to their number of babes they have slept with will tell you what is beneficial to them (your virginity is worthless). Babes that have messed up their life will tell you what will make you join them (virginity dey get person job for Shell??). Babes, never ever listen to them. Their arguement is worthless. They will never tell you about the risks you put yourself through if you lose your virginity. And let me tell you one truth - ONCE YOU DO IT, IT IS VERY VERY HARD TO STOP!!!! I AM TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE. IT IS ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO STOP AND TAKES THE GRACE OF GOD. DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!! If you have to change your friends, change them. Anybody giving you an advice that does not add value to your life should not be your friend. There are many good babes and guys out there who will look out for you. Look for them. Keep your virginity. Give it to your husband. Marry the RIGHT guy. You will never ever regret it.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 3:19pm On Jun 18, 2012|
I agree. Being a virgin does not mean that you are humble, nice, kind, etc etc. But means you respect yourself not to go about messing up your life, toying with unnecessary risks. When I say they are the best I mean it from the point of view that though they are not perfect and nobody is perfect, they have a solid foundation of discipline and self control (in spite of societal pressures that they can build on. Proverbs 16:32 says Better to be patient than powerful; better to have self-control than to conquer a city. A babe who has self control is the best because though she is not perfect, when she learns new habits, new approaches, new ideas, her self control and discipline will help her use them effectively. Nobody is perfect. But if you have the right potential, you can keep on growing. I still maintain virgins are the best. Give me a virgin and I will teach her new and biblical wisdom, and I guarantee you, she will be second to none. Keep your virginity babes till you marry . You will never regret it.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 1:20pm On Jun 18, 2012|
OILOFGLADNESS: my fellow babes, its a very good experience to marry as a virgin, i have heard 101 goodnews on that, your husband will give 100% respect and in turn you will ever give him 100% and love cos he is the only one that made you enjoy that which God designed for couples.
OLIOFGLADNESS, you are so on point and you hit the nail on the head. As in, everything you said is 100% correct. Keep your virginity babe. You are the very very best and I assure you, you are currently missing nothing. Cheers dear and be the best you can ever be.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 1:16pm On Jun 18, 2012|
While you have a point, it does not distract from my message. At the end of the day, there are different levels of purity. I am sure if you meet a babe who says she has slept with 1000 guys, YOU WILL NOT MARRY HER. But there are higher levels of purity too. From bleeping 1000 guys to bleeping 50 to bleeping 2. Choose your tolerance level. A virgin who has KEPT HERSELF is the best and is never ever overrated. She is actually underrated. You seem to be missing the point. This us not about hymen. THIS IS ABOUT KEEPING HERSELF IN TOTALITY. She is the best and can never ever be said to have been dominated by any guy in any way. Even if she has done one or two things, she has not overly exposed herself to what those sleeping around have. She is still LESS likely to have STDs, get pregnant and have multiple abortions and if she starts keeping herself in totality, she remains the very very best. And my advice to babes is simple. KEEP YASELF IN TOTALITY. SEX IS OVERRATED. IT TAKES FIVE MINUTES AND I GURANTEE YOU IT IS BETTER WITH YOUR HUSBAND THAN A RANDY GUY. When you do it with a randy guy, you have so much to worry about - and it just drains you emotionally and physically. BUT WHEN U DO IT WITH YOUR HUSBY, somebody that has acepted you enough to decide to spend the rest of your life with you, you have absolutely no fear of rejection. SO ZIP IT UP. VIRGINS, U ARE MISSING NOTHING. ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. And when you marry, I gurantee you, it is much sweeter, you have absolute peace of mind. VIRGINS ARE THE VERY VERY BEST. One of your fans signs this.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 11:46pm On Jun 17, 2012|
Pally, a pure virgin keeps herself until marriage (herself...HERSELF - not part of herself). The ones you see behind the curtains are not pure virgins. If you Be Intimate through the anus, you are technically no longer a virgin. In fact, that is freaking disgusting I dont want to think about it. A VIRGIN KEEPS HERSELF.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 11:38pm On Jun 17, 2012|
Thanks Itunu. Of course I will definitely prefer to marry a virgin. DEFINITELY. I rate virgins far above the promiscuous babes who don't know how to say no to a randy guy. There are so many issues that you have to deal with if you marry a non-virgin. Psychological, emotional, trust issues, etc. So many that I would prefer to spare myself the headache. But I BELIEVE EVERYBODY DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE. But I definitely prefer a Virgin. They are disciplined, I can easily trust them )if they can say no inspite of societal pressures, they are more likely to say no after marriage. My preference is VIRGIN. THEY ARE THE BEST. GIVE ME A GOD FEARING VIRGIN ANYTIME ANYDAY. ONE WHO LOVES AND SERVES GOD WITH ALL HER HEART. AND I AM IN HEAVEN (PUN INTENDED). VIRGINS ROCK. THEY ARE TOO MUCH. THEY ARE THE BEST. AND IF YOU ARE A VIRGIN, KEEP ON FLYING HIGH AND DON'T LET NO HATER TAKE YOU DOWN. YOU ARE APPRECIATED.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 9:41pm On Jun 17, 2012|
I have dated both virgins and non-virgins before. And I always encourage them not to open their legs until the man puts a ring on it. And I don't take advantage of them. I have made some mistakes in the past, and wish I did not. But I will not continue making mistakes. I have full self control. Only animals don't have self control. So the issues is not whether I can date virgins or not. The issue is babes need to wisen up and stop letting guys mess them up. But IF THE BABES insists that she wants it THEN BLEEP HER. But if a babe is a virgin, she is the best.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 9:32pm On Jun 17, 2012|
Shawl001: Ladies nd gentlemen, i only read d 1st page of dis article and i saw so many views, though contradicting. D main point is dah, VIRGINS ARE STILL DAH BEST. Always "most preferred" wereva dey fynd themselves in life. Girls, der are blessings attached to u keeping ur virginity. It always delight Gød. As 4me, I love to get married 2 a virgin one day. And am sure that is Gods plan 4 me too. So i want to encourage odas not to b discouraged with wat dis article is tryin to portray, i mean 2 dos who are stil virgins. Thanks nd God bless! Shalom.
God will answer you prayer sir. Be the best and stay focussed. Cheers
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 9:31pm On Jun 17, 2012|
itunu_07: @ Ranti fadahunsi
Thanks Itunnu. Happy and humbled to be able to inspire you. I also write and have a blog. Will send you the link to my blog sometime later. And please encourage as many babes as you can to hold on to this virtue. They can never regret it. Be the best you can be and stay focussed. The sky can't even limit you.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 9:27pm On Jun 17, 2012|
thanks itunu. you broke it down beta than i did. thanks jare.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 9:25pm On Jun 17, 2012|
abi ooooo. thanks jare.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 7:57pm On Jun 17, 2012|
The topic is on virginity. Why I reminded ( not chose) the dependent variable. If u read my note, I sad I don't give a rat what u like. I have a friend who is gay and I don't give a rat who h likes either. My bringing in dependen/independent variable is to stop the change of topic. I don't give a rat if u prefer prostitutes because they are better in bed or u prefer dogs because they are submissive. Like whatever u want to like. Teach ur daughters whatever u wanna teach them. U shouldn't give a rat what I like either. But my message is simple. A babe that can withstand peer and societal pressure and does not loose her virginity has proof that she isvavdisciplined babe. She respects herself. And she should be respected and celebrated. She is a jewel among women. Priceless and elevated. She never has to worry about STDS, pregnancies and no man can claimto have messed her up. Her husband can rest assured that he will never meet a man basting tha i bleeped ur wife nd she screamed like a slut. A babe that has lost her virginity may be disciplined and claim that she only slept with one man, but there is no proof. She may claim she never had stds but there is no proof. She may claim she never aborted but there is no proof. She may claim her womb is intact but there is no proof. U just have to believe her. U gat no choice. And my advice to babes is simple. Zip it up until he puts a ring on it. Don't let nobody mess u up before marriage. U lose more than u gain. BUT IF U Love Intimacy AND U ARE READY FOR THE CONSEQUENCES, THEN FINE. FU..CK AS MANY GUYS AS U WANT AND I ENCOURAGE U GUYS TO BLEEP THEM TOO AS MANY TIMES AS U WANT. IT IS UR LIFE. DO WHATEVER U WANT WITH IT. BUT IF U ARE STILL A VIRGIN, THINK ABOUT WHAT U ARE LOSING TO GAIN 5 minutes of pleasure and ask ur self if it is worth it? A VIRGIN IS A RESPECTABLE LADY. U CAN NEVER BE LOOKED DOWN ON AND U ARE ROLe MODELS TO YOUNG LADIES WHO WANT TO KEEP THEMSELVES TILL MARRIAGE. AND THER ARE MANY OF US GUYS OUT THERE THAT ARE UR FANS, PRAYING FOR U AND CHEERING FOR U. U ARE THE BEST.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 2:53pm On Jun 17, 2012|
How good were you at maths? Okay in mathematics, when you have an equation, there are independent variable and dependent variables. The independent variables are fixed. You cannot change them. But you solve for the dependent variable which can change. ALL INDEPENDENT VARIABLE ARE FIXED. In this discussion, all other vaiables e.g. good cook, humility, hardwork are independent variables and are FIXED. The only dependent variable in this discussion is intimate purity. The mistake you people are making is making the indenpendent variable dependent variables. That is why you keep on bringing humility, good cook, etc into this discussion. FIX THEM, MAKE SE.XUAL PURITY THE ONLY DEPENDENT VARIABLE AND THINK!!!!!! PHEW!!!!! This is so simple I wonder why you guys keep replying and saying the same thing all over and over again. Virgin but silly. Virgin but lazy. Virgin but not humble. Pleaseeeeeee. FIX THE INDEPENDENT VARIABLES AND THINK. This is very easy. Discussion is on virginity - only independent variable. SMH!!!!!!
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 2:34pm On Jun 17, 2012|
Good. We agree for once. Virgins should be respected and celebrated. I don't care if you prefer virgins or not. And I guess you dont give a damn if I prefer virgins or not. But my message is clear - virgins should be respected and celebrated. Not made to feel inferior to people that cant hold themselves and expose themselves to foolish risks. That is what the current media propagates. Arrant nonsense. It is not easy to hold on in the face of all these pressures. Check out life, the hardest course is always the best - it is not easy to work hard, it is easier to be lazy, but hard work yields the best result. Check out exams - everything in life. The difficult route yields the best results. It is not easy to be a virgin in these times. But they have the most peace of mind from what babes active in sex are worried about. STDs, pregnancy, emotional damage and co. I expect you would encourage babes you love to respect themselves and hold on till their guy puts a ring on it. And if they have allowed guys to mess them up before, forget the past, and hold on till the future. (of course there are babes that enjoy Being Intimate with different guys. I have no respect for them. And I encourage you to take the most advantage of them and bleep them as many times as possible because THAT IS WHAT THEY WANT. To each his own)
I am a guy. Been active before. But I have decided that the next woman I sleep with is my wife. She deserves that respect. And I deserve that respect for myself. It is hard, but it yields the best result. I have more time for my self and endeavours. I can relax after my last medical test. I am clean and want to remain clean. Nobody can give me heart attack telling me she is pregnant. I spend less money on babes. This is absolute bliss and better than 5 minutes on top of a girl I dont give a shi.t about. But I can tell you, it is very very hard. Hope the ladies are reading this. Zip it up until he puts a ring on it. Not worth it. It takes 5 minutes and after that you wonder what the whole fuss was about. Not worth it. Simples.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 11:41am On Jun 17, 2012|
ivee22: Ranti Fadahunsi: Abegi, what is with the virgin, non-virgin thingy? Virgins are people who have placed a value on themselves and will not allow just any silly guy to deposit their Fluid inside them, put them at risk of contracting STDs, or spending the last 2 days before their period wondering if one silly guy has gotten them pregnant and they have to go for abortions because the silly guy will either deny the pregnancy or deny his responsibility. Virgins are people who VALUE their body and peace of mind ABOVE 5 minutes of pleasure. If you have a problem with that, then please don't go near them. There are many of us guys who respect such ladies that respect themselves (we know that they most probably have no STDs, have not done any abortions and they are disciplined people that can withstand peer pressure and remain principled. Sleeping with a virgin is not a difficult thing of done at the right time (after you have put a ring on it). And it is a wonderful thing for the guy and the babe. Afterall, non-virgins were once virgins!!!! Please, if you have any inferiority complex because you cannot discipline yourself (only animals have no ability to discipline themselves and want to Be Intimate every time they are in the mood), then go find girls/guys that fit into your shoes and stop disrespecting virtuous virgins!!!! Pshewwwww!!!!
Many guys out there still do. But they are the silent ones. Don't let the noise of the foolish guys drown the songs from the silent guys. Keep you virginity. Look for and find good and God fearing guys. They will appreciate you. All the best dear and be the best you can ever be.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 11:01am On Jun 17, 2012|
There is no new definition of virgin. A pure virgin is the real virgin. But every body deserves a second chance. A born again virgin is some one that has repented from her old promiscuous ways and has decided to discipline herself going forward. And stop ranting about virgins that have done BJs, or handling or whatever pleaseeee. There are disciplined babes at different levels. While some girls have done one or two things, it does not distract from their value. They may be lower on the order of discipline to those who have not done anything, but they are far better than those opening their legs up for every Tom, Joystick and Harry. If you disagree, then promise me that you will marry a slut and a prostitute. If you do not and you go and marry one decent girl (maybe she has slept with just one/two) then you are a bloody hypocrite!!!!!
And for your information, a Virgin is a very good girl. Her parents are proud of her, society EVERYWHERE is proud of her. There is no society in the world where promiscuity is celebrated. But decency is celebrated and respected everywhere. Virginity is the hallmark of discipline and decency. A virgin cannot have STDs, abortions, emotional damage from silly guys messing her up. But is u prefer prostitutes to virgins, so be it. I have a friend who is gay. I think he is sick and mad!!!!. But that is what he prefers. So no arguement here. Prefer what you prefer. But any smart girl out there will zip it up until marriage. It is the best thing she can do to protect her life on the intimate plane.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 11:02pm On Jun 16, 2012|
ayosmiles: u keep mentionin my daughters thinking it will make me change my mind. Virginity is not and will never be a way of measuring virtue nd sorry, got no apology 4 not allowin society mess with my head. That does not mean i don't respect anybody's decision to b virgin just like anybody could be gay if they want but am not gay. When u talk about happines, it is relative. Wht i said abt clinton nd co has to do with success nd prosperity which can b seen but u are not sure if they r happy cos u cant c them, even d chelsea. Prince harry lived with kate b4 they got married, has anybody in england called her a slut? I know of a sis that married as a virgin nd is yet to give birth while a cousin that got preg b4 weddin had her bouncin baby boy. Infact my mom was already pregnant with my brother b4 d weddin to my father. She was not a slut nd they r still 2gether 30yrs later. Want more?
Pally, to each his own. You keep on changing the subject, we are talking about virginity and a lady respecting herself - you keep on changing the subject to success and and career. And you bring isolated cased of virgins who don't have kids and sluts who have kids as if the virgin would have had kids if she had been a prostitute and the slut would not have had kids if she wass a virgin. You sound very confused to be honest and deserve no more response from me. When you start putting together intelligent and sensible logics together, I will answer you.
Your mum is lucky your father did not reject the pregnancy. So many ladies out there are not that lucky. And if I am a babe, why would I want to risk a guy putting me in the family way only for him to say he is no longer interested, or I should abort, or he does not think he is the father. Why would I want to take the risk if there is a better way? WHy settle for good when there is best? Your mum was lucky. Do the statistics my guy, at least 90% of babes out there are not that lucky after they get impregnated by silly guys. And to correct you ' VIRGINITY IS A SOLID PROOF OF THE DISCIPLINE, VIRTUE AND RESPECT OF A LADY'. Go to any tradition, religion or culture. It is solidly universal. Civilisation is making people do justify what htey want including homosexuality and bestiality. Just make sure you aggressively pass your message to your daughters. You can say whatever you want to say on nairaland for your selfish reasons (maybe beacuse you are looking for babes you want to sleep with and dump and add to your count of bleeped babes). I hope you will encourage your daughters to do what you preach irrespective of the risks out there. If you don't you are a bloody hypocrite!!!
The message is simple and clear - if you are a babe, zip it up until he puts a ring on it. Dont risk unwanted pregnancies, abortions, STDS, emotional damage, disrespect from useless guys. And if you are a christian, dont risk the separation from your God. Zip it up. Be decent. Protect your future and the future of your unborn kids. Flee from guy lying to you that Being Intimate before marriage is no big deal. this same guys are the ones that will be talking behind your back that you are useless. Be wise. Wisen up. It is your choice. Your decision today determines your destiny tomorrow.
As for you ayo, not replying to you again. Silence is sometimes the best answer for some people. The wise babes reading this have taken note and are learning from this. Chikena
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 9:44pm On Jun 16, 2012|
werthy: i think u are just dumb ayusmile
Most people don't like to face reality until it confronts them in the face. May he have his desires granted concerning his prayer for his daughters.
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 9:43pm On Jun 16, 2012|
dani1luv: Am a virgin
Keep it up babe and give it to your husband. Marry the right man and he will appreciate you for it. Well done and kudos good girl
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 9:40pm On Jun 16, 2012|
|Romance / Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Ranti Fadahunsi: 9:39pm On Jun 16, 2012|
ayosmiles: U just won't get it. Virginity is not what makes u successful in life. Look at d most successful women in d world. Havin pleasure does not mean u are not responsible. Do hilary nd merkel have to be virgins b4 they got there. Stay there and don't live life 2 d fullest. Gals keep self servicin in ur closet while more socialy conscious folks enjoy their lives with wisdom nd live good lives. The world is changin, pls stay yoked to tradition. Just don't wake up 2morow nd say u have missed nd ur life is borin
Pally, what is your definition of success? Wealth is different from happiness. Happiness occurs when expectation = acquisition. Simple mathematics. The fact that Clinton and co are world leaders does not mean they are happy? Jeez, do you know what Bill put Hillary through with his philandering? Do you know if they are just together because of a political compromise? Do you know a lot of babes think Hillary is silly for staying with a serial cheater And who told you she si happy? Do you know that Chelsea (Hillary's daughter married a very young, focussed, disciplined hardworking guy (I don't know about their sex life so I will not comment about that). It shows that everybody wants the best for themselves and their family. There has been no news of Chelsea sleeping all over the place and no news of her husby sleeping all over the place. Pally, being a virgin and waiting for the right man who values you, will wait for you and put a ring on it before he starts asking for sex gives the babe complete peace of mind. Freedom from unwanted emergencies. And peace of mind helps your happiness. To each his own jare. Just preach your message to your daughter. I pray they take after their father. Chikena.
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