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Sports / Re: Nigeria Lists Lookman, Amoo, 30 Others To Battle Ghana by remedick: 3:57pm On Mar 04, 2022
gentleguy1975:
Paul onuachu and Taiwo Awoniyi on standby?And Amoo is called up while Ejuke is on standby? Something isn't adding up here
Have you watched Amoo play?

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Sports / Re: Nigeria Lists Lookman, Amoo, 30 Others To Battle Ghana by remedick: 3:55pm On Mar 04, 2022
Help2020:

If you want to see baller pls go and watch Akinkunmi Amoo. That guy nan bomb. Danm
I swear....that guy na beast. my jaw dropped few around January when I stumbled on his video... I was just screaming, this is Nigerian Messi version... I was mad with excitement. shocked shocked shocked

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NYSC / Re: Corper Obinna Gabriel Fixed Bad Road In Ayegbami, Ilorin (Before & After Photos) by remedick: 1:39pm On Mar 04, 2022
thatsleepboy1:
Go back to that village to ask for their daughter's hand in marriage, they'll use juju to pursue and you won't remember the road that leads to that place again. No be ilorin pple? Ndị uchụ
Short up.. no dey use your experience the carpet other people. If the community was bad to him, he wouldn't do that project. I served in Ondo as an Igbo boy along with other igbos, we left our mark there. Apart from poor internet, I really enjoyed my time there.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Russian Troops Attack Zaporizhzhia Nuclear Power Plant In Ukraine, Sparking Fire by remedick: 10:21am On Mar 04, 2022
sagitariusbaby:
Russia will destroy this country and the people will forever hate them whether Russia wins this war or not the people of Ukraine will never forgive Russia.

You want people to be loyal to you yet you are destroying all they and their fore fathers have worked for. Russia will gain nothing but a long-term enemy after destroying Ukraine.
In this age and time, nobody wants to be slave to anyone.. we see it here in Nigeria. At the end of the day, what you say is what will happen. There are better ways to go about this.
Romance / Re: I've Missed Dating Life by remedick: 12:09am On Mar 04, 2022
pocohantas:


It is normal, not just with online dating, even physical. In the first few weeks, the fire is high, there are too many things to catch up on.

-How many are you in your family?
-Do you eat ogbono?
-Where did you school?
-What is your favourite colour?
-I am an Arsenal fan so I am used to disappointments…etc

When you guys have exhausted the dating past questions, then the real work starts.

I think if we women put in as much work as men do. You know, they are most times the ones calling, asking that you guys meet physically, initiating video calls and you just turn these things down because you don’t want to see his face that day. Maybe we should try doing the work sometimes. What do you think?

God bless you. To be candid, an average Nigerian lady doesn't know these things and some of them miss out on great men. That's how a girl killed something that was going on well and I kept the convo going, even when she was not initiating chats anymore.

I would call, I would chat... not that I wasn't aware but I kept on until the day I decided to stop it all simply because I SMS her, she saw it but never replied until I buzzed her on WhatsApp. That's when she mentioned that she saw my SMS. That drove me mad, really mad.

At the peak of my anger, I told her to delete all my numbers from her phone cos I couldn't withstand her ghosting attitude anymore, though she refused to delete and told me to calm down. I couldn't bring myself to communicate with her as I would love to so that it does not look like I don't have self-worth.

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Sports / Re: Insigne Rubbishes Talks Of Him Angry At Osimhen For "Stealing" His Goal by remedick: 8:42am On Sep 22, 2021
Pidginwhisper:
This is laughable. Ball control is one of Osimhen major attributes. He does it with ease. I no know the Osimhen you dey talk.
Omo, me sef dey here dey shock for that guy... Osimeh wey dey control ball on the run if no one tackles him? someone that a keeper would be scared of seeing him coming with the ball?
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by remedick: 11:16pm On Sep 21, 2021
pocohantas:
All these big and royal furnitures Nigerians put in their houses sets me off. Especially when it is in a rented property. Small space, big furniture. You won’t get to see the beauty of the so called royal furniture. Worse is, they are hardly ever comfortable. You can’t even dose off on those chairs grin.

Na una know wetin una dey see for am sha.

Grey and mustard combination is kiss
I thought you posted something for sale....

mschwwwwww...

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Business / Re: How FG Will Tax Profits Made By Global Tech/Digital Giants In Nigeria — Osinbajo by remedick: 10:00pm On Jun 27, 2021
TheRareGem1:
Big tech companies need to start paying tax seriously, especially those that have huge and massive presence in Nigeria and the financial act is crystal clear. It's high time.
una. Go. Just open mouth WA...

They are on the internet, they are not in Nigeria...

They will not make the mistake of opening office in Nigeria.

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Sports / Re: Update On The New 18,000 All Seater, All Covered Eket Stadium In Akwa Ibom by remedick: 6:16pm On Jun 27, 2021
Tinubuadvocate:
No wonder ipob are claiming Niger delta people land.
you are an idiot.

There are Igbos in other parts of today's SS. Asaba people are Igbos for example.

There are Igbos, though small in population, in Benue.

Igbos on the edges of SE were cut off and Joined to other regions.

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Politics / Re: Anambra 2021: Peter Obi Congratulates PDP Candidate, Valentine Ozigbo by remedick: 9:28am On Jun 27, 2021
Blakpot:


grin grin
Be calming down na
it is annoying to see this people bring God into such terrain bro.

Hian..

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Politics / Re: Andy Uba Wins Anambra APC Primary Election by remedick: 9:25am On Jun 27, 2021
TheStranger:
Congratulations to him.
Is he the chronic debtor?
they are brothers I think.
Romance / Re: Why Do Men Lose Interest In Women After Sleeping With Them? by remedick: 7:50am On Jun 27, 2021
officialmario:
Some ladies may be having an affair with their lover, they had great time together, but he is no longer answering his phones and looks to be unable to meet your demands. You may have fallen in love with him, but he vanished that night after having a taste of you, it happens to me at times whenever I have sex with a woman I don't have much feelings for, the love disappears after having a taste of her, but I always try to make myself available for her, even after the whole scenario.

I had love the whole house to shed more light on this.

Why do men lose interest in women after sleeping with them?

over to you.

Bros that was not love. It was just infatuation.

Love does not vanish after sex cos her body was not what attracted you to her.

Simple.

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Politics / Re: Anambra 2021: Peter Obi Congratulates PDP Candidate, Valentine Ozigbo by remedick: 7:47am On Jun 27, 2021
orohbiro:
maduka gave out cars just to get 5 votes my guy no go try this nonsense called politics again

Nigerians don't like foreign based guys coming to contest.

They prefer those in Nigeria.

It is a historical fact.

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Politics / Re: Anambra 2021: Peter Obi Congratulates PDP Candidate, Valentine Ozigbo by remedick: 7:45am On Jun 27, 2021
Philipxxxx0:
Bro everything in this life has been programmed by God, it is time for Soludo to be governor, that is why he put PDP in the state of confusion , maduka is the best candidate for PDP but they choose another person, it is lord's doing
leave God out of this kind of thing so that thunder will not strike you dead.

You people don't even respect God and you will bring him into discussion were fraudulent activities such as Nigeria politics is rive.

Are u mad?

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Politics / Re: Anambra 2021: Peter Obi Congratulates PDP Candidate, Valentine Ozigbo by remedick: 7:43am On Jun 27, 2021
BosseJ:


As in, I'm in a state of shock. After all the media hype. The guy must have spent so much on his campaign.
Nigerians don't like foreign based people coming home fore elections.

I don't think any of them have ever won any election in Nigeria based on my knowledge.

I might be wrong but they rarely get the supports.
Politics / Re: ECOWAS Court: Government Can’t Arrest Anybody For Using Twitter by remedick: 4:59pm On Jun 22, 2021
sigiyaya112:
This people dont know Buhari grin grin
Abeg help me tell them again lol... Baba will not reverse anything. Let's just wait for him to finish the useless tenure and go.
Politics / Re: Dot In A Circle: Enyinnaya Abaribe Wearing 'The Dot Nation' T-Shirt (Photos) by remedick: 4:55pm On Jun 22, 2021
Juliusmalema:
Let the dot effect good governance in Abia state.

and not prioritising every words someone said.

Dot or no Dot, the peoples need good governance..


If he pursues governance this way he expends so much energy on this, I think by now all these agitations will be a thing of the past

Aba-ri-be

is he the governor of Abia state?

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Sports / Re: UFC: Israel Adesanya Was Paid $500,000 For Defeating Marvin Vettori by remedick: 2:04pm On Jun 22, 2021
Julianaa:
200 million naira just for one fight lipsrsealed

Champ
don't forget he also has staff that he will pay. His coacher, sparing partners, medical doctors etc
Politics / Re: APC Orders 3m Bunches Of Brooms For New Members In Cross River by remedick: 7:38pm On Jun 21, 2021
angry grin grin these people are lies.

Dem think say na 2014 we still dey

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Career / Re: Please Advice If I Should Go For Cisco Certification by remedick: 4:38pm On Jun 21, 2021
signz:


There are job opportunities for cloud certs holders in Nigeria?

Is it in high demand abroad and can cloud certs holders in Nigeria work remotely for companies abroad?

Thank you

When you are targeting this kind of tech certs., don't think of just Nigeria but global. Think remote jobs so that u can escape Nigeria's naira inflation

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Politics / Re: Tinubu’s Probe Ongoing — Abdulrasheed Bawa, EFCC Chairman by remedick: 9:17am On Jun 21, 2021
Tvibes001:
Caging him before the primaries, truly the north knows how to use power.
I swear man! I swear. You have to give it to them.
Romance / Re: RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 7:43am On Jun 21, 2021
stanliwise:

No problem
Hi, thanks. I just did. Please do let me know when you reply. i don't have a notification on the email.
Romance / Re: RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 8:52pm On Jun 20, 2021
stanliwise:

Stop mixing playboy tricks with quality relationship bro.
I know when I see a gurl and the next thing I want is to get her on my bed. It’s straight to sex talk after we connect.
But when I want something serious. Dirty talks gets on the conversation time to time but it is quite different.
When a girl see a guy she like all round. She is not caught up because the guy sparked a sexual conversation all the time
Okay, I understand what you mean here. Do you mind if I DM you?
Sports / Re: Deontay Wilder Is From Edo, Nigeria by remedick: 6:37pm On Jun 20, 2021
WowSweetGuy:
Na fight full Nigeria dna
grin grin grin grin grin i swear ooo

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Sports / Re: Deontay Wilder Is From Edo, Nigeria by remedick: 6:36pm On Jun 20, 2021
obiekunie01:
funny s i read the title i just said he is likely from benin.

only to open the thread and it confirmed my guess. grin
true. The face says it all.
Romance / Re: RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 6:02pm On Jun 20, 2021
Ishilove:

Lol. Congrats. cheesy

Kids. Smh
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Romance / Re: RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 6:02pm On Jun 20, 2021
stanliwise:
A gurl yes is not so straight forward o. Don’t be carried away by ordinary yes. Learn to understand when their yes are communicated by their actions.
It is very important
I understand and that is why I said I have to see it in her action before I would make move and even that, I wouldn't be available like I used to.
Romance / Re: RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 3:55pm On Jun 20, 2021
stanliwise:

I understand clearly. But don’t give women promises only except if those promises are also your own promises.
Some women uses promises to play games and tie you to their rules, be careful how you approach your promises on girls you truely care about. For the ones you don’t it’s just a matter to time and both of you would do away with time.
Keep staying calm and keep your options open, now she is not responding does not mean you throw useful time and attention to her. Other things of life still dey. The moment she shows more seriousness, the moment you too become more serious.

Exactly, the moment she shows more seriousness, the moment I do same. But unless she does that, I won't make any contact with her. And even if she makes move, I will have to sit it out and be sure is really serious.

However, even if that happens, the usual over availability would not be there any more cos she didn't appreciate it.
Romance / Re: RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 3:20pm On Jun 20, 2021
stanliwise:

There is a twist to it. If you appear too strong about relationship she may feel that you want to just take advantage of the situation. What do most people do in relationship?
Sex and spend money, nothing more. So she may feel that way.
Stating your point clear and just fading away is a more mature approach. While you fade, look more calm, collected and happy. Talk if you have to, laugh if you have to
But all will fade slowly while you keep the room temperature about relationship and not friendship.
Infact it should be more in your approach than words, treat her like someone you’re romantically attracted to rather than someone who is a friend.
thanks so much. Yeah, I really like her for real and despite how it made me feel, I still tried to make give her the impression that It wasn't about the sex or her body that I am after but how we communicated when we started.

There was no room for mind games or second guessing the other person.

The babe is fun to be with to be honest. She got mad vibes and i love it. So I kinda bonded with her just because of that.

And I happen to be communication person. We clicked right from the first day, talked like we had known for long. You get?

It is sad

I will do as you have said and be more actionable or proactive by my approach than words but then, I left the ball in her court. If she makes the move, I will proceed. But for now, I don't want to be around trying to chat her up after all I have said. It would look like i am not a man of my words.

So except she reaches out to me, I am not gonna make any move.
Romance / Re: RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 12:41pm On Jun 20, 2021
stanliwise:

Yeah it’s cool you told her you don’t want just friendship but don’t show aggression towards it.
Yeah, I wasn't showing aggression in a way, Though it might seem that way but the truth is, I was just trying as much as possible to make her see that I wasn't playing games grin
Romance / Re: RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 12:16pm On Jun 20, 2021
Executer:

The delusion...you won't fit into everybody's ideal.deal with it
Even the world richest man would still have a lot of ladies who won't fancy him.quit all this chest beating all because a lady told you no
But he is already dealing with it he knows how to na...

You don't know the reason for her rejecting him. It could have been on financial grounds. I have been there before so I know why the OP felt that way. grin

Has girl ever stopped picking your call after the first meeting/outing? That was my situation... years later, she tried to reconnect but I just played her left and right but never truly accepted her.
Romance / Re: RANT: She Said Don't You Think We Should Just Be Friend? by remedick: 12:12pm On Jun 20, 2021
Jack005:
it depends on the level of her pride, you know women always want to be on the winning side when it comes to matters like this. In furtherance to that, you went straight to the point, you hit the nail on the head by letting how know what you really want from her.. In my own case I just let my actions do the talking...Lets see how it pans out.
In that case, ONLY make her do the work in this case. Let her chase you to a certain extent before you make any move and when you make such move NEVER verbally ask her out again.

Yes, a friend actually said I shouldn't have announced my exit and that I should do it your way--let my silence do the talking and that it works better.

However, in my own case, I knew that she was already feeling that I am too available (quite the contrary at the beginning) and her perception of me has waned, which wasn't the case when we started.

Me being outspoken is a plus because I would want to wipe that image in her mind.

Firstly, I outrightly rejected her offer. secondly, I stated what I want from her BOLDLY and that I want nothing more or less.

Thirdly, I made it clear that I have to respect her wish as I do not want to be perceived as a pest. Meaning, I am not gonna be available anymore and I would not be asking again, else she would think I am pestering her. This also means: "girl, even if I was being overly present, I can still discard you and do away with you."

Fourthly, I gave her a condition on reaching out only if she changes her mind so as to prevent any stupid mind game....

All these will be uselessly wasted IF I still reach out to her after saying all that because I have spoken so confidently and boldly and the best thing to do now is never reaching out to her EXCEPT she does it herself.

In my own case, it is very important that I do not reach out because, for some time, I had been the one initiating chats, which was not the case when we started... Do you get it?

Now, I have to sit back and prove that I really MEAN my words by STICKING to them, which is why even a week is not sure that she will reach out based on the circumstance. She would want to really see IF i mean those words.

It is not a case of being arrogant because a girl offered me just friends. It is about the image/perception which led to that.

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