I will not split bills. However, my partner is an amazing man and a selfless giver; I will assist with bills here and there but you see that sharing formula? No, supporting financially is the right term.
I can go way and above for my partner because he takes my personal need as his problem. This doesn’t change the fact that he is the main breadwinner while I am his support system. Thankfully, he understands this and that’s how we will run our home. I will contribute but never on sharing formula.

Verokeena:



This your comment is really unfair...

This has nothing to do with his financial status.. for two years i tried everything within my strength to make him not feel like he was jobless.. at a point i connected him to a job but he turned it down cos he feels that position is too low for him..



But thanks for your contributions

dont take what many dish out here. You know your partner better than anyone else and you also know the truth. They will always put the blame on you, so ignore them. I hope and pray you both reconcile your differences amicably.

reading through the first page (comments), i am indeed amazed or rather shocked. Some guys here are more worried about the fact that she locked him up forgetting that there was an action that prompted it(laying his hands on her). Life can happen, you can loose your job or even health, thats why the marriage vows says for better for worse. No matter what, depression or whatever, its not enough for him to beat her up. Most of you will lock him up too if it were your sisters, you would not tolerate such actions. Stop trying to hide from the truth just because you feel he is a man so therefore, he did no wrong. Address the problem from its root rather than apportioning all the blames to the OP.

I believe this is a very sensitive topic.

Village people fit dy here

Ammishaddai:
Nice one. Shebi all these worthless hungry girls like rolling with the rich bad guys because they thought the good guys were broke , boring and quiet . Now see where it has led to. All the suya ,recharge cards, 150k allowance ,and Brazilian hair all led to this painful exit. Anyway, RIP to dead

So poor men don’t batter and beat up their wives? Was osinachi’s husband rich?
What about the other women who are bread winners of their families?
Domestic violence has nothing to do with being rich or being able to collect money and stuffs.

this one is just looking for rich customer

My omo is omo-ed
wahala be like buhari's advice.

He deserves more slaps.
The day an asshole touched my ass when I was coming down from a bus, aside from shouting I should have given him three hot slaps.
This I still regret not doing till date.

Olonitola:

The first month I was paid #47K because I didn't work for the full month and there's no commission yet.
Second month, I was paid #126K.
Third month #174k and last month 171K.
Totalled 518K. How is it impossible to save #315K and footed bills and responsibilities with the remaining #200+K?

Waoo
That’s a lot
Kudos to you

where and how can 35k salary buy a piece of land.
before you try to discredit a person, ensure your story adds up.

Kaycee54321:
Being "rich" is a question of location...

If you reside in Banana Island, Lagos, your living expenses will piss on your monthly 500K...

If you reside in Ikeja, you're a "big boy" and if you don't allow those runs girls at Ikeja City Mall to milk you dry, you may afford to buy a Nigerian used small sedan without Police case...

If you reside in Mowe, Ogun State, you can talk about acquiring a manageable size of land and maybe have an uncompleted building to your name in like a year...

If you decide to live in Baruten, Kwara State (near Benin Republic), with your 500K, you can easily be crowned a King.

you are right

I am only perplexed at how you are able to save N315,000 in 3 months. How did you do it if you have been paying bills biko.

Some Chronic loan defaulters are already disguising here, claiming that they receive calls from loan sharks because of people in their contact list. If you receive messages all the time because of people on your contact list, then change your circle of friends.
It’s only a loan defaulter that will go to any extent to read up about a loan company or find their address.
If you’re not oweing, what will be your business if not to pass or call the defaulter if you’re sent such messages.

We Nigerians only know how to talk and talk yet this loan sharks keep expanding their operations because Nigerians have made it very profitable for them.
Learn to live within your means, learn to act like this loan sharks don’t exist and manage your life.
I know the economy is not smiling at a lot of people. It’s really sad especially for a lot of people that are struggling to survive… but borrowing from a loan sharks should be the least option unless you’re completely sure that you won’t be addicted and ensure you will pay up as at when due. With all this in mind, you wouldn’t need to be looking for a loan company to fight upandan.
I do not blame them for their extremities, ordinarily We know how terrible people are when it’s time to return a loaned money.

Chronicles of some jobless corpers

sarang60:


I don't know much about movies because I haven't seen many but if you mean dramas, the ones with episodes that is............

King of pigs
Our blues
Our beloved summer
My liberation notes
Mr Queen
100 days my prince
Tomorrow
Hospital playlist
Sweet Home

Just a short mix of everything because I am not sure what you like

Thank you

Please recommend very good interesting current Korean movies I can download.
Thank you

God1000:
why none of the above?

My reasons may not be valid to you

None of the above
Thank you

Misogynistic Teachings
After being a godly wife according to you, what does she get in return? What value and godliness are you also giving her? You live the important part of the Bible where faithfulness to your wife, loving your wife is and focus on submission. Submission k.ill all of you.
The moment you guys realize that women no longer live to bruise the egos of men, the better for you.

Marriage is for the two parties and not for the woman alone.

brighttech95:




How do you transfer from wallet to card using the app?

Have you gotten an answer?

Wahala be like bicycle

hotwax:
She really deserves more.

Awwww
This is so beautiful

Prechgold1180:
Before u post ur family problem on social media

Note that the internet is filled with frustrated people who really don’t send you any good


Dey would give u worst advise

Most especially nairaland

ElMurtadha:

Hi! Can I pls have ur what'sapp num or email ad? I am suppose to take the cognitive test by 26th, Jan, 22. This is urgent.
What is it like pls
MyEmail: haneeff125@gmail.com

It should be "PLI" I am guessing