Nubian999 i remember ur mom warn you not to play with fire!!!! Now u are here oya turn ur *ss let me spank u out of here

Prodigee help me ask her o....

Medunna are u saying u would have become a better option to Tosyne2much?

Abeg who nairaland don't help get a serious relationship? Got few crushes here but dam eem let me comment my reserve first........ Am going to be dropping my female crushes here. Pls if i call your name answer present Sir.
Charlene Refiner Ivy Naughtynaughty Tosyne2much HateU2 Estharfabian......... I wanna date one among this crushes guys pls who among this crushes would suggest i should take home to meet my parents?

Buharisbae kashybaby is stealing ur show just lyk she'd always done

@ buharisbae I don't wanna fight i just wanna feel u, u don't have to try u don't have to change i just want the real u....am going in circles trying hard 2 get to where u are. Remember there's a war on nairaland so come prepared to fight.

Tnx @ H20 even if dem talk say water pass garri myself aand Buharisbae go take am say garri fall inside water.....if Buharisbae wouldn't mind i know say 9months from now i go follow her go maternity.

I thought ur mama warned you not to play with fire..@ Kashybaby

Kashybaby na u know o lol howz ur 9ja crush doing?

Analysis corner i ain't crushing on her dp am crushing on her 4 real......dis ain't titanic am not a sinking ship. Buharisbae my Angel 08181244208 u can reach me via my contact

Am not into social media dating but like they always said " there's always a first time" got this gal i'd been crushing on for a while now she's none other person but BUHARISBAE. i really hope we get along well and connects too...... She got the body of a goddess wonderful and so matured, she could be the Queen of my heart my Annie Macaulay. I see d fire in her eyes, kai walahi her looks can melt ice....team #iwannatakeitveryphysical#. I guess those lines are the best line to help convey my message to you.

livinghopealoysius@gmail.com

Livinghopealoysius@gmail.com

Had crush on her back then

We finished from the same school here in Creative Mind Sec School...dis gal is really rep us she was a beauty to behold bck then and am happy She made it to the top

Download this Spirit lifting gospel Song by "IT's ALL ABOUT YOU" D.P Tafson ft Livinghope & Loveth Daniel you it's powerful and Inspiring

Back2Back was the hit song Testimoney, Ifunanya Onyinye etc were is the love I used to see as a young lad growing up to love music cos I love everything u both sing. Me saw super stars on a 16bar and I know you both has gone deeper than that But Mr P i don't intend to come to subtly on u but when i look into your eyes now me want yarn you wetin me see, i see ur freak mood and i just sit and imagine how sudden did it came to happen? What happen to the love of fans and family? pple wish you end like Plantashun boiz? and you just prove to them dat money fame is thicker than blood at the long run family is all we got.
I wish to look into your eyes just as your recent solo wish me to but no, i rather choose to look into ur late parents and their utmost wishes is all i see cos it goes deeper than trying to prove everyone wrong. Bro come let me show you how the things go cos i sabi say money the rain but when the fan refuse to enjoy everything u sing now, when they fan refuse to show the love, when Lagos clubs refuse to feel you and endorsements deals frown at ur illusion that's famine Bro.
I respect you Bro P but me no trust your judgement cos me no sabi wetin you dey find like say you want discover mungo park, at this point looking from my window me understand all you've been through even though you dey drive 4 limo today but dats not enuf reason to let bonds go. Psquare is sexy to fans am yet to fathom what Mr P or RudeBoy turn out to be, now wey you don go solo rudeboy come follow i been dey reason say engees jude go mellow.
I remember mom has been of great support and you must have made Promises to her telling her 'Anything for her' oya Mr P now is the right moment to fulfill your promises tnx. Love from Psquare Fan

Did I just say stay away?

Yes!

Seriously, the business is
not for everybody 

lazy people, bench warmers, folks that
thinks everything online is scam

should please stay away from the site cos am selling it.

Just like 
Jack Ma, founder of Alibaba said
Bill Gate was once asked "what is the secret of success?" And he replied saying "i was at the right place at the right time" "I wasn't the only person who got the info that got me running, some people just sit and wish i love wishes but i don't wish......"
"The worst people to serve are the Poor people.

Give them free, they think it's a trap.

Tell them it's a small investment,
they'll say can't earn much.

Tell them to come in big,
they'll say no money.

Tell them try new things,
they'll say no experience.

Tell them it's traditional business,
they'll say hard to do.

Tell them it's a new business model,
they'll say it's MLM.

Tell them to run a shop,
they'll say no freedom.

Tell them run new business,
they'll say no expertise.

They do have some things in common:

They love to ask google,

listen to friends who are as hopeless as them,

they think more than an university professor
and do less than a blind man.

Just ask them, what can they do.

They won't be able to answer you.

Not just poor people, lazy people does!

If you belong to any of these category,

please stay away from these Change not APC kind of change lol

My conclusion:

Instead of your heart beats faster,
why not you just act faster a bit;

instead of just thinking about it,
why not do something about it.

These people fail because of one common behaviour:

Their Whole Life is About Waiting.

They wait and wait until all
opportunities by pass them

 lets go here for something real... www.make250kpermonth.com/uzoh/

Did I just say stay away?

Yes!

Seriously, the business is
not for everybody 

lazy people, bench warmers, folks that
thinks everything online is scam

should please stay away from the site cos am selling it.

Just like 
Jack Ma, founder of Alibaba said

"The worst people to serve are the Poor people.

Give them free, they think it's a trap.

Tell them it's a small investment,
they'll say can't earn much.

Tell them to come in big,
they'll say no money.

Tell them try new things,
they'll say no experience.

Tell them it's traditional business,
they'll say hard to do.

Tell them it's a new business model,
they'll say it's MLM.

Tell them to run a shop,
they'll say no freedom.

Tell them run new business,
they'll say no expertise.

They do have some things in common:

They love to ask google,

listen to friends who are as hopeless as them,

they think more than an university professor
and do less than a blind man.

Just ask them, what can they do.

They won't be able to answer you.

Not just poor people, lazy people does!

If you belong to any of these category,

please stay away from these Change not APC kind of change lol

My conclusion:

Instead of your heart beats faster,
why not you just act faster a bit;

instead of just thinking about it,
why not do something about it.

These people fail because of one common behaviour:

Their Whole Life is About Waiting.

They wait and wait until all
opportunities by pass them

 lets go here for something real... www.make250kpermonth.com/uzoh/

See Why The Naira May Fall To The Dollar At N1000 Per Dollar (Must Read)
It is either I do not understand economics and how exchange rates work or a vast majority of us Nigerians still don’t get how we have wrecked our country with our own curious choices.
Just this morning I was listening to the radio and the lady on air went on and on about how she thought CBN governor Godwin Emefiele was incompetent and should be sacked because the naira was now exchanging at 309 or so to the USD.
That view pretty much echoes the sentiments expressed by many people I know and it amazes me that there are Nigerians who actually think there is some magic POLICY that can make the Naira strong in the near term.
If my economics and my understanding of the way the world works are right, then that is as far from the truth as Jesus Christ is black.
The simple fact of the matter is that apart from oil that accounts for over 90% of our revenues, we really don’t have much of an economy. We hardly produce anything, we import even toothpicks, so exactly what policy is going to be implemented that will turn Nigeria into a top exporting economy in the near term? Where are our Apples, IBMs, Disneys, GMs, General Electrics, Coca Colas, Empire State buildings, Statues of Liberties, Lockheeds, Citibanks, JP Morgans, ExxonMobils, NBAs, Super Bowls etc? Let me bring that closer home.
There was a time long ago when Nigeria had a truly strong economy and the naira was one to the dollar – even exchanged for higher than the USD, but that Nigeria is not this Nigeria.
Sadly that Nigeria was laid by the British, and this Nigeria (if you don’t believe in the nonsensical imperialist conspiracies like me) – fueled by the DAMAGING Indigenisation Decree, has been the creation of us Nigerians.Back then we had a booming economy.
We were either the top, or among the top exporters, of timbre, cocoa, groundnuts, rubber, palm oil, etc, in the world. Nigerians not only holidayed at home in their villages, at Yankari Games Reserve, at Obudu Cattle Ranch, at Oguta Lake, at Ikogosi springs, at Gurara Falls, at Mambilla Platueau, etc, we attracted international tourists who brought in loads of foreign exchange.
Even Nigerian schools were foreign exchange earners because they attracted foreign students.
We had different car assembly plants – Peugeot, Volkswagen, Anamco etc. Nigerian government officials only bought vehicles assembled in Nigeria for official cars. We had a thriving sports industry.
We were not Man United or Chelsea fans, we were Rangers or IICC fans. We had the Nduka Odizors, people made money from sports. We also had companies like Lennards and Bata producing school shoes in their thousands, we had the thriving Nigerian Airways and the Aviation School in the north that produced some of the best pilots in the world. In those days if you were brilliant you were respected much more than the crass money-miss-road contractors of today.
Most of the Aje Butters I knew had fathers who were university dons. Back then it meant something to ‘know book’. Our textile industry was alive and well.
Just recently I watched a news report on the textile industry in Nigeria on CCTV News. Though the main focus was on the comatose status of the industry, I was stunned by the gigantic Kaduna Textile Mill built in 1957. I could go on and on.
Today however, no thanks to our parents (and we must call them out the way Wole Soyinka did his generation) and many of us (and we should be remembered for failing our children if we continue like this), we have destroyed everything.
Today for instance Nigerian football (which comes easy to me obviously) doesn’t appeal to us, we have to fly across thousands of miles to watch ‘our’ clubs play.
Every year we collectively burn billions of Naira being fans of clubs that give us nothing back, but some ‘entertainment value’ – simple pleasures for which we are ready to destroy the future of our children.
Well people, payback time is here. Even with our ta-she-re money we all want to wear designer clothes and carry designer bags, Armani, Givenchy, Louis Vuitton etc.
We all want to drive jeeps with American specs, our children must now school overseas and acquire the necessary accents to come back home and bamboozle their ‘bush and crass’ contemporaries that they left behind. Who holidays in Nigeria anymore, is there Disneyland here? No one buys made-in-Nigeria school bags for their children, after all no Superman or Incredible Hulk or Cinderella on them.
We are no longer top exporters of anything and the demise of oil means we have zilch… zero. A country of 170m fashion-conscious people has no textile industry.
We take delight in showing how our made-in-Switzerland Aso Ebi is different class to everyone else’s. When we help our musicians grow and pay them millions, they repay us by immediately shipping the monies overseas to produce their “i-don-dey-different-level”music videos. It makes no difference that distinctly Zulu dancers are dancing to a Nigerian highlife song.
As stars concerned they also wed and holiday overseas to impress us all. All the musicians who acknowledge their Ajegunle roots now speak in a cocktail of strange accents to symbolise how much they have blown their monies overseas.
Were we a more serious people, the highly popular Kingsway Stores of the past would probably have a thousand outlets pan Nigeria today supporting a massive agriculture industry among others, but today we have the likes of SPAR, Shoprite, dominating the retail industry while Kingsway is dead.
And we Nigerians make it a special point to shop from the Oyinbos who have ‘cleaner shops’, ‘better this and better that’. For our personal pleasure we don’t mind them dominating us in our own backyard and shipping proceeds overseas.
I could go on and on, but I don tire. Even as you are reading this, stop for a moment and look around you. What you see will probably explain why we are lucky it is not N1000 to the USD yet.
And don’t think for a moment that it cannot get there. Just continue to wear your Armani gear and Swiss-made lace, continue to spend your money on Man United, Arsenal, Chelsea and Barca and encourage your children to do same. (My article tomorrow in my Saturday column in This Day is on the Nigerian champions Enyimba FC – Nigeria’s most successful club – not having a sponsor, yet Nigerian brands pay over N600m to Man United and Arsenal for sponsorship to impress us.) Ehhh, no problem, continue to tell me the NPFL is rubbish or the clubs should clean up their act if they want sponsorship, mo gbo .
Don’t curtail your interest in choice wines ( we were the number one champagne consumers in the world in 2015), continue to love your American specs, cheer the education ministry for letting schools sink to pitiable levels, don’t fight them to improve our schools, don’t chide them for letting schools drop Nigerian history and embrace British, America and whatever else curricula.
Carry on with your love of French wines and Chinese silk, don’t bother about Jamiu Alli when there is Roger Federer. Stock up on your Italian, American, British products which you cannot live without, including the ‘baby soft’ toilet rolls produced only in that small unique village in England – the days are long gone since you were a broke student who used wet newspapers to wipe your butt.
Don’t even consider holidaying in Nigeria, it’s too dangerous – you have to fulfill your dream of being Nigeria’s Henry Ford. Don’t listen to people like me who have a wardrobe full of only cheap adire that is actually cheaper than just one of your Tom Ford blazers. Please keep dressing in fine silk made in some exotic place so you can be addressed accordingly.
Finally keep letting corrupt leaders who have looted your commonwealth and shipped all the monies overseas get away because to attack them does not fit your political narrative. Let us continue with the fine life, let us all continue to work for Oyinbo.
But don’t forget that there is payback time and Emefiele is not your problem. Time for us all to look in the mirror and take responsibility. Culled from a writer

Phase Three: Transition Text
There are a ton of positive
aspects about text messaging
but there are also some limiting
aspects. For example, attraction
can only be built so far via text
messages. Which is why I
recommend that eventually you
will have to move from text
messages to phone calls.
So when that inevitable time
comes how do you do it?
Well that’s when I like to use the
transition text message which
just so happens to be our third
secret text message!
This is a really easy text
message to grasp.
Basically you are going to tell a
story so interesting that it has to
be finished over the phone and
much like the story method that
I was teaching you in the
previous phase, the attraction
phase, you want to build a story
that is so interesting that she will
have no choice but to finish it on
the phone.
So you need to understand her
interests.
What does she like?
What are some of the things that
she will love to talk about?
For my wife it would be hot air
balloons and Paris.
So lets pretend that I’m talking
to my wife and I sent her this
text message,
Notice how hot air balloons and
Paris are mentioned in it. And
then also notice how I stopped
midway through telling the story
and said,
Hey, do you want to finish this
over the phone?
This is an ideal text message to
send because it acts as a test to
see if your ex girlfriend is ready
to transition to the next phase of
attraction building, phone calls
or if she’s just comfortable
texting.
In that case you still have more
attraction to build.
And that’s it… That is the
transition text message

Phase Two: Attraction
building Phase
We’re talking about the
attraction phase here so lets just
get right to it. The name of the
game is to build attraction with
your ex through text messages.
So how do you do that? Well the
first part is to emphasize the
positive parts of your previous
relationship. And anything
negative you do not want to talk
about. Anything positive you do.
The only kind of advice I’m going
to give you here is to not bring
sex into it. Just keep it PG13.
Now building attraction there’s a
lot of ways to do it but I’m just
going to give you my favorite
way and I like to call this the
story telling method. Have you
every noticed when someone
tells an amazing story it just
draws you in? Think of your
favorite TV shows, Game Of
Thrones for example. Have you
ever noticed when something
shocking happens or your really
into the story you cannot wait to
see the next episode. Binge
watching on Netflix is really
popular for this. The idea behind
Netflix releasing every single
episode at once like House of
Cards or any of the other original
series is that viewers like to
binge watch. When they really
get into a show they watch one
episode after the other after the
other.
Well, I want you to do something
similar with your ex. I want you
to build attraction like that. Treat
every interaction that you have
with him through text messages
like a TV show.
End on a good note…
End on a cliffhanger…
Leave open loops…
Do everything you can to be
mysterious or make her want
more. That’s the name of the
game. So I am going to teach
you a text message right now
that can accomplish this.
I want you to take a minute to
look at the text message
right here. ( The craziest thing happened to me. my friend and his girl friend played the prank of the century on me. They were on my vacation and I lent my camera to them. well, when he got back and give it to me, curiosity got the better of me and.....) Then add (you are still with me?) This is a perfect
example of something I like to
call a funny text message.
Basically the premise of this text
message, even though it may
not look like it right here, is to be
funny.
But it’s going to tell a story
through multiple texts and you
will notice that I started the text
here with an imaginary girl and
the story is not over yet. You’ll
notice that in the middle of the
story I sent a text message that
said,
“Hey are you still with me?”
This is what I like to call the
check in text message. One of
the big problems of telling a
story though text is that you can
kind of lose the girl if she is not
really engaged.
So this check in text message,
sort of saying,
“Hey are you still with me?”
Is check to see if she’s still
listening or to keep her engaged.
So the story goes that I had a
friend and his girlfriend and him
tricked me into thinking they
were doing it when they really
weren’t. That story may not be
complete in there because I
didn’t have enough room but the
idea here is to continue the
story.
Build attraction through this.
Interest her.
Interest = Attraction
Always remember that.
To Be Continued.....

The second guideline I want you
to follow is the fact that you need
to be ending the conversations
first. Now my recommendation
is not to just end conversations
whenever you want. Try to find
the high point of that
conversation. The point in the
conversation where you think in
your mind, wow I don’t want this
to end. Well the second you
think that thought, it’s pretty
much the high point of the
conversation where you end the
conversation.
And finally the third guideline
that you need to follow is build
attraction. Build as much
attraction as possible. But don’t
do it all at once. Take your time
with it. Slow and steady wins the
race. Tortoise and the hare.
Alright I’ve never tried
something like this before. And
now I’m going to give it a shot.
And now we’ve reached the
moment you’ve all been waiting
for. The 3 secret text messages
you can send to your ex
girlfriend to drive her crazy.
Yeaaaah.
Dude Flames that was lame.
Hey don’t judge.
Alright we’ve reached the
moment where we will be talking
about the three secret text
messages that you can send to
your ex girlfriend.
But really the three text
messages fall into three phases
of text messaging. Basically with
one phase you get first secret
text message, with the second
text message you get the second
secret text message, and finally
as I’m sure you know with the
third phase you will get the third
secret text message.

TO BE CONTINUED

This is what I like to call the
value chain. This is your overall
strategy to get your ex girlfriend
back. The number 2 part after
the no contact rule is texting and
after text messaging is phone
calls. Basically we are trying to
move from no contact rule to
text messages to phone calls.
What is the purpose of text
messaging? The purpose of text
messaging is simply to build
attraction. The second purpose is
to move from text messaging
portion to phone call portion.
Basically transitioning. Now how
do you go about doing that?
I’m going to try to keep this as
simple as possible for you. You
have two goals with text
messaging. Number one: Build
as much attraction as possible.
Number 2: transition from the
text messaging phase to the
phone call phase.
Ok so now that you have a firm
grasp on the goal of text
messaging. I’d like to talk about
the ideal conversation you’d like
to have with her. In a perfect
world, what would a conversation
look like if things are working.
Let’s pretend that I’m your ex
girlfriend and I’m going to text
message you. “Oh Hi Baby.”
“Ugghhh, god that scared the
crap out me.”
Anyways the ideal texting
conversation with your ex
girlfriend is relatively simple.
Here is a few of the guidelines I
want you to follow. There should
be a 50/50 split on who should
starts the conversation. You
should start the conversation
one day and then she should
another day. Your a man so
theres this idea that women
have that you have to initiate
things. And that’s ok. I’m going
to allow you some leniency here.
It’s kind of impossible 100% of
the time to have an exact 50/50
split. But get as close as you can
to it.

1. Finding The High Point Of The
Conversation
2. Ending At The High Point Of
The Conversation
Lets start with idea number one.
Finding The High Point Of The
Conversation
Forget texting for a moment.
Lets just say that you are talking
to one of your good friends about
an interesting topic. Well, when
you think about this interaction I
am betting that you can pinpoint
a time in the conversation when
you stop and think to yourself,
“Wow, this is actually really
interesting. I am so glad I am
talking to him/her about this.”
This would be the high point of
the conversation.
High Point = The
conversation can’t get any
better than this.
Believe it or not but it is actually
VITALLY important that you learn
to pinpoint the high point
because it is going to really come
in handy when it comes to your
ex.
Lets talk a little about that now.
Just like with talking, texting has
a high point of a conversation as
well.
Let me give you an example.
Lets say that I am texting your
ex girlfriend and we are having a
really interesting conversation
about relationships. Well, this is
a topic that both of us find
stimulating and we end up
talking for two hours. We are
both humans and both of us
have short attention spans. So,
around the one and a half hour
mark the conversation quality
begins to drop off slowly.
Notice how after this point the
quality of the conversation
begins to dip pretty drastically.
What constitutes a conversation
quality dip?
Long periods of time for her to
respond.
Short responses from her.
No substance to her
responses.
Most men end up wearing out
there welcome when it comes to
texting.
What do I mean by that?
It’s simple really, they wait until
the conversation quality dips
before the end the conversation
and this leads me to my next
point.
Ending At The High Point Of
The Conversation
There is nothing memorable
about ending a texting
conversation after the quality of
the conversation drops.
There is nothing for her to
regret…
You don’t make an impression
on her…
Oh, AND you are going to be just
like every other guy out there
talking to her.
Don’t live your life as an
uninteresting sheep. When the
world zigs I want you to zag.
When you are texting your ex
girlfriend MAKE SURE you end
the conversation right at the
high point. Right at the point
where things can’t get any
better for her (or you for that
matter.)

What this will do to your ex is
really mess with her mind.
You see, to her, if you are having
a good conversation then the
conversation will most likely
continue. However, if you end
the conversation right at the
high point it is going to mess
with her mind because not only
will you leave her wanting more
she is going to constantly ask
herself,
“Wait, why would he end the
conversation there?”
There is a psychological principle
that I like to cite a lot called the
Ziegnerik Effect.
The ZE (Ziegnerik Effect)
basically states that human
beings remember uncompleted
tasks better than completed
ones. Well, a conversation that is
cut off right at the high point
isn’t technically a “closed”
conversation. Thus, your ex
girlfriend is going to remember
that conversation above
anything else.
This works wonders for getting
her to respond to your future
text messages and it will also
raise your value in her eyes.
Oh, and in case you didn’t know,
raised value in an ex correlates
directly to regret.
YOUR MINDSET WHEN
YOU SEE HER IN
PERSON
Seeing your ex girlfriend in
person is always a tricky subject
because often times it goes so
fast.
What do I mean by that?
Lets say that you are with your
ex girlfriend at a Starbucks and
she asks you a question.
Well, you are expected to
respond to her question in a
timely manner and some guys
get so caught up with
extracurricular things that they
really struggle to focus and they
stumble with their answers. After
all, it is hard to answer in a good
manner when you have this
staring back at you,
Ok, I highly doubt you will be
faced with that situation but
what I am trying to get at here is
that you are highly attracted to
this woman, you clearly want her
back and if she is FINALLY sitting
across from you it can be easy to
be caught up in the moment and
lose track of why you are seeing
her in the first place, to make her
regret letting you go.
(Your still looking at the picture
aren’t you?)
“SNAP OUT OF IT AND
CONCENTRATE”
So, what I would like to do now is
give you my best tip for seeing
your ex girlfriend in person.
Now, I don’t want to overload
you with too much so I am just
going to give you this one tip.
My Best Tip For An In Person
Encounter
It’s probably the easiest tip you
have ever heard.
SMILE!
Seriously, smile a lot when you
see your ex in person.
Smiling can do a lot for you.
It can make you less stressed.
It’s a universal sign of
happiness (which you really
want your ex to think even if
your not.)
It’s contagious (which can
make your ex smile and then
your both in good moods.)
Women find smiling men more
attractive than non-smiling
men.
So, SMILE!!!

THE GRASS IS
GREENER SYNDROME
I would feel bad if I didn’t at least
mention the connection between
the GIGS (Grass Is Greener
Syndrome) and regret because
without a doubt their connection
is deeply intertwined.
First though, lets talk a little bit
about what the GIGS actually is.
GIGS- The Grass Is
Greener Syndrome occurs
when a girl breaks up with
a guy with the thought
that she can do better than
him. Of course, over time
she determines whether or
not her decision was
correct. Sometimes she will
find that the grass is not
greener on the other side
(meaning it was a mistake
to leave you) and other
times she will find that the
grass is greener on the
other side (meaning it was
the right decision to leave
you.)
So, where does the regret come
in?
Simple, if your ex girlfriend
leaves you with the thought that
she can do better and she
determines that she can’t then
she is going to regret her
decision to leave you.
I actually have had some
personal experience with this.
In fact, my very first girlfriend
way back in High School (a long
time ago but bear with me) had
a bit of the grass is greener
syndrome.
Our relationship was pretty
tainted with fights and
arguments so after we went our
separate ways I completely
ignored her and didn’t talk to her
on purpose.
She of course tried to move on
but the new guy she started
dating couldn’t live up to the
standard I had set with her.
I didn’t know any of this until she
called my best friend (who I
happened to be standing right
next to) looking to see if he could
convince me to give her a call.
Regret rears it’s head in many
forms…
RE-SHAPING YOUR
“TEXT GAME”
Texting…
There is all sorts of interesting
things you can do with these
little messages that go to your
ex partners phone and that is
what I am going to talk about
right now.
Now, I don’t want to mislead
anyone here.
This article is going to talk about
the strategies that go behind
texting which I imagine is going
to prove to be extremely
valuable to the readers of this
article. What this article will not
go over is the actual text
messages to send in a situation.
Alright, so with this section I am
going to be talking about two
BIG ideas that you need to
implement if you want your ex to
regret the breakup with you.
1. Finding The High Point Of The
Conversation
2. Ending At The High Point Of
The Conversation
To Be Continued.........

Tnx bro will do that in my next write up

Nothing is going right…
You thought you met someone
special…
You thought you had something
that would last a long time…
And then, just when you thought
things were going great she
drops a bombshell on you…
“We need to breakup…”
Ah, its a story I have heard far
too often from friends and folks around
Boy meets girl…
Boy gets girl to fall in love with
him…
Girl rips out guys heart and
stomps on it half a million
times…
Anyways, men who get their
hearts stomped on by their ex
girlfriends often come to this site
trying to make sense of the
events that have just turned
their lives upside down and that
is where I come in.
I have been called a lot of things
in my time…
Amazing..
Awesome…
Incredible…
Future world leader…
But without a doubt the thing
that I take the most pride in is
being called an “EX”- pert.
What is an “EX”- pert?
I am so glad you asked!
An “EX”- pert basically
specializes in helping people
repair their broken relationships.
In other words, I help ex get
back together.
And I am going to help you right
here right now by teaching you
to use one of the most powerful
emotions to your advantage,
regret!
WHAT THIS GUIDE IS
GOING TO DO FOR YOU
Those of you who are loyal fans
of this article know that when it
comes to my kind of “advice” I go above
and beyond for you.
Well, this guide is going to be no
different.
In this section I am basically
going to sum up exactly what
this guide is going to cover and
how it can help you with your ex
girlfriend.
Before I get started here I want
to make two big assumptions
about you and your ex…
Assumption One = You
want your ex girlfriend
back.
Assumption Two = SHE
broke up with you.
If I am assuming these things
then it is pretty much common
sense that in order for her to
want you back you are going to
have to make her regret letting
you go.
But how do we do that?
How do we make your ex
girlfriend hurt so bad without
you that she wants you back?
Well, below I have put together a
game plan outlining exactly how
we are going to go about this
process.
Does this make sense to you?
If it did I’d be shocked…
(Don’t worry, by the end of this
guide I promise this will all make
perfect sense.)
Basically this guide is going to be
covering the following topics,
The NC Rule
The Frank Sinatra Effect
The GIGS
How To Make Her Regret
Leaving Through Text
Messages
How To Approach Seeing Her
In Person
Of course, before I really start
tackling these subjects one by
one lets talk a little about the
power of regret.
THE POWER OF
REGRET (AKA: WHY
YOU NEED IT)
Have you ever heard someone
use this phrase before?
“He was the one that got
away…”
or
“She was the one that got
away…”
What does someone really mean
when they say this?
Well, before I give you the
answer to that I want to tell you
a little story.
A few years ago I met a fellow
who I actually became very good
friends with.
Lets call him Caleb… (that is not
his real name but bear with me.)
Caleb had a pretty interesting life
story.
He was in his early thirties, had
been in the army and he was
divorced.
One day we got to talking about
Caleb’s past…
(I am a nosy person and I know a
thing or two about relationships.)
He told me about what went
wrong with his ex wife and how
she had cheated on him, how he
thought he didn’t deserve that
and how he hardly ever thinks
about her anymore…
Me: “How long ago did you two
get divorced?”
Caleb: “It’ll be about five years
next Tuesday..”
Me: “Oh, I am really sorry to
hear about that… Divorce is
really tough…”
Caleb: “You know, it’s funny… I
don’t really think about her all
that much anymore.”
Me: “Why not?”
Caleb: “I guess I felt I was right
to let her go. I don’t really have
any regrets with her but with my
ex Sandra… I still think about
her to this day…”
Me: “Who is Sandra?”
Caleb: “She is my ex girlfriend
from College. She was the one
that got away. I think she is
married and has two kids now
but if I could go back in time I
would marry her. She was
perfect. I really regret letting her
go.”
You know, most people when
they go through a divorce they
really struggle with it.
Many people get caught up in
their failed marriage and do
everything they can to fix it.
Yet here was Caleb… He was still
caught up on an old girlfriend
from college.
A girl he dated a DECADE ago!
All because she was the one that
got away…
When I first started this section I
posed an interesting question.
What does someone mean when
they say,
“He/She was the one that got
away?”
Simple, it means that if humans
had the ability to time travel
they would turn back time and
NOT break up with that person.
Time and experience teaches
them that they made a mistake
in leaving the relationship with
that person.
It is basically an admission that
they want to get back together
with that person.
For example, lets pretend for a
moment that I was dating your
ex girlfriend back.
Well, if I was dating your ex and
in my mind I dubbed her as the
one that got away then given the
opportunity I would get back
with her.
Now, imagine if you could do this
to your own ex girlfriend in your
real life situation right now?
Imagine the power of that?
Imagine the power of being
dubbed,
“The One That Got Away…”
That is the power of regret.
And this guide is going to teach
you all about HOW you can make
that happen.
Let’s begin!
REGRET & THE NO
CONTACT RULE
Have you ever wondered why I
constantly go on and on about
the no contact rule?
I imagine it must be pretty
annoying.
At times I probably sound like a
broken record.
“Do NC in this situation..”
“Do NC in that situation…”
“JUST DO NC!!!”
Well, there is a reason for this.
When you look at getting an ex
girlfriend back from a birds eye
view it makes sense that in order
for her to want to take you back
she is going to have to regret
letting you go. Well, the no
contact rule is an excellent way
to expedite that process.
How The NC Rule Can
Expedite The Process?
I want to tell you two stories.
One is about a man who ended
up getting his ex girlfriend back
and the other is about a men
who didn’t.
Lets start with the man who
didn’t succeed.
(For examples sake we are going
to call him Joe.)
So, Joe ended up finding my article read
through it and thought my
advice was brilliant.
(I am brilliant I know .)
He really wanted his girlfriend
back and thought my strategies
were his best shot to do that.
There was just one problem…
When it actually came time to
implement my strategies he
didn’t have the strength of mind
to follow through. For example,
Joe thought the idea of a no
contact rule was brilliant but
found that when push came to
shove he couldn’t actually cut
his ex off.
He was too infatuated with her.
I don’t think its too shocking that
Joe ended up being a little too
clingy with his ex by contacting
her and she ended up moving on
and finding some other guy.
Ok, now lets turn our attention to
Max, the man who got his
girlfriend back.
Max and Joe have very similar
stories.
They both hid to my advice on my articles and it worked
(Again, I am brilliant .)
Both of them wanted to
implement my strategies but the
one difference between Joe and
Max was the fact that Max
actually implemented the no
contact rule.
As a result, his ex was the one
who became infatuated with HIM
and not the other way around.
All of a sudden Max was looked
at in a new light.
But perhaps most importantly,
she began to regret her decision
to let him go.
But why?
Why The No Contact Rule
Makes Your Ex Regret
Lets stereotype a breakup for a
second here.
When you think of a breakup
what do you typically think of?
I’ll tell you what I think of.
Arguments
Anger
Ultimatums
Begging
Neediness
Depression
(Just to name a few things.)
Notice how I bolded “begging.”
Why?
Well, because after a breakup
(especially if your girlfriend broke
up with you) then on some level
she is probably expecting you for
her to beg her back.
Seriously, this is probably what
she is imagining that you are
going to do in her head after the
breakup,
So, subconsciously this is what
she is expecting out of you.
In other words, its not very
shocking when you do this to an
ex.
Take a look at our story of Joe
above.
All Joe did was reaffirm his ex
belief that he was still into her
and as a result he did nothing to
make her regret her decision in
breaking up with him.
The no contact rule is effective
because it goes completely
against the grain.
Remember, your ex girlfriend is
probably expecting you to beg
for her back. So, when you do
the exact opposite of what she is
expecting it kind of catches her
by surprise and she doesn’t
know how to handle it.
In other words, where other
people zig you are going to have
to zag.
“But Mr Flames… you still haven’t told
us how the no contact rule works
to make your ex girlfriend regret
the breakup?”
Ok, lets talk about that now.
Before I get started I am going to
make a pretty big assumption
about you and your girlfriend.
I am going to assume that your
girlfriend relies on you for a lot of
things emotionally.
After years of relying on you for
emotional support it is quite easy
to take things for granted.
Have you ever noticed that
women have this constant need
to remain friends with their exes
after a breakup?
Have you ever asked yourself
why?
It’s because it leaves the door
open for them to rely on their
ex emotionally.
So, what we have here (if you
remain friends with your ex after
the breakup) is a situation where
your ex girlfriend has no way of
missing you or regretting the
breakup.
The no contact rule breaks that
barrier.
It takes the ability for her to rely
on you emotionally out of the
equation and completely
reshapes her thinking.
Instead of thinking,
“Oh, he is someone I can rely on
for emotional support.”
She is going to think,
“I kind of miss talking to him…
maybe I made a mistake.”
Once she thinks that then you
have her!
THE FRANK SINATRA
EFFECT
I like Frank Sinatra (as you are
about to find out.)
Believe it or not but Frank
Sinatra is going to help you in
your quest to make your
girlfriend regret the breakup with
you.
How?
That’s an excellent question.
One of Sinatra’s most famous
quotes had to do with revenge.
“The Best Revenge Is
Massive Success…”
What does this mean?
Well, it means that improving
your situation is often the best
way to “get back at someone.”
For example, if I had a girlfriend
that broke up with me because I
didn’t make enough money and
the very next day I created a
business that earned me millions
a year then that girlfriend would
be felling pretty bad about her
decision.
In fact, some would say that she
would REGRET it…
See what I did there?
This is an example of something
I like to call “The Frank Sinatra
Effect.”
The idea goes like this.
If you can improve yourself
enough to be considered a
“massive success” then your ex
girlfriend won’t just regret the
breakup with you, she will want
you back.
But how?
And when?
Lets start with the “when”
portion of the FS Effect (Frank
Sinatra effect.)
When To Implement The
Frank Sinatra Effect
Above I talked about the
important of a no contact rule
and how it can almost single-
handily work to make your ex
have feelings of regret.
Well, if you truly want a double
whammy of regret (yes, I did just
say that) then you should start
implementing the FS Effect
immediately when you start the
no contact rule.
In other words, you are going to
working to bring out regret on
two fronts.
Front One- No Contact
Front Two- The FS Effect
The “when” is really the easy
question to answer.
The “how” is the hard one…
How To Implement The Frank
Sinatra Effect
Massive success and success are
two different things.
Lets use money as an example
here.
Someone who earns $100,000 a
year is considered successful.
On the other hand, someone
who earns $500,000 or half a
million a year (for those of you
can’t count) is considered
MASSIVELY successful.
If you really want to have an
impact on your ex girlfriend then
you need to raise the bar of what
you are trying to accomplish in
your life. In other words, it’s not
enough to be “successful” you
have to be “MASSIVELY
successful.”
Got it?
Yes?
Ok, lets talk a little bit about how
to raise the bar in your life so
you are considered massively
successful.
You should know that there are really
three major areas of life that I
like to focus on.
1. Health
2. Wealth
3. Relationships
These three aspects of life are
intimately intertwined and if one
aspect of them lags a little bit
then the others suffer as well.
For example, when you go
through a breakup (the
relationships aspect) then the
two other legs of the stool start
to falter as well as you can’t eat
or concentrate at work (health
and wealth respectively.)
So, what I am going to do for you
here is talk about each one of
these aspects of life and what
you should be striving for to be
“massively successful.”
Lets start with health.
Frank Sinatra Effect Health
The thing I want to focus in on
health is your looks.
More specifically the way your
body looks.
Here is a fun question.
Now-a-days what is considered a
successful physique to have?
Well, America is fat so I would
say this would be successful for
most people out there,
(It’s sad I have so little faith in
America isn’t it? In basketmouth voice, give it up to Nigerians we are blessed, you know)
While I am sure that most girls
would find a guy attractive if he
had the body above something
tells me they would prefer the
body below over the body
above…
So, if you are a bit overweight
and you know you should be
hitting the gym more then don’t
just go there with the intent of
losing weight. Go there with the
intent of looking like a greek god
when its all said in done.
That’s how you really make an
ex regret leaving you.
Lets turn our attention to wealth.
Frank Sinatra Effect Wealth
Above I gave a pretty interesting
example about money and
success.
Do you remember the example?
I said that if you earned six
figures a year you are considered
successful.
If you earned half a million a year
you are considered massively
successful.
Success isn’t enough.
You need to be massively
successful when it comes to
wealth.
Heck, be greedy.
Be like Gordon Gekko from Wall
Street.
Seriously, I know that may sound
a little crazy but here is my
mindset.
If the epitome of financial
success for you is to make six
figures a year then that is all you
will ever strive for.
However, if you change your
paradigm and shoot for half a
million a year then amazing
things are going to happen for
you.
While you may not reach that
half a million mark you are
probably going to make more
than six figures shooting for half
a million…
That’s a win in my next article
Frank Sinatra Effect
Relationships
What defines massive success in
relationships?
Well, that is completely up to
you really.
You want my opinion though?
Getting your ex girlfriend back
isn’t enough to be a massive
success…
A success, yes.
But a massive success?
No.
Getting her back and ending up
together long term (maybe
permanently) is what I would call
a MASSIVE success.
So, what are you doing to make
this a reality?
Well, you are obviously reading
this article and you like what I
am talking about but do you
really buy in to what I am
saying?
You need to because I may be
your best shot at making this
happen for you.
JEALOUSY CERTAINLY
DOESN’T HURT
Women are interesting creatures.
Sometimes it takes a little push
(from you) for them to realize
that they made a mistake in
letting you go. And that little
push can come in the form of
jealousy.

Now, I know what you are saying,
“Flames… This is a cop out. You
are just pawning us on to some
other fictional article and trying to
expedite the learning process.”
Well… Ya.
No, I am not going to leave you
empty handed.
Actually what I would like to do is
give you an example of one of
my favorite jealousy methods
that I think would really work well
for your situation.
What is this jealousy method?
I like to call it the “movie text
jealousy method.”
Movie Text Jealousy Method
Now, before I really get into the
meat of this method I feel I need
to give you a few disclaimers.
The movie text jealousy method
should ONLY be used AFTER the
no contact rule is completed. In
other words, you are not allowed
to use this during your NC period
or when you are working on
yourself via the Frank Sinatra
Effect.
Also, I would like to do
something a little unique with
this section.
Instead of just teaching you the
method (which I plan on doing) I
would like to explain the effect it
has on a woman and how it can
work to make her regret the
breakup.
Lets get to it!
Movie Text
Think of a romantic movie…
A chick flick…
A movie that only a woman
would go to.
Off the top of my head, a movie
that just came out (and this
might date the article a bit for
future readers but I don’t care I
am trying to make a point here)
that meets this criteria is Fifty
Shades Of Grey.
A guy would definitely NOT take
another guy to that movie.
I am sure there are some
exceptions to that but for the
sake of making a point here I am
stereotyping.
Realistically, a guy would take
his girlfriend or two friends who
are girls would want to go see
that movie.
Subconsciously I think everyone
knows this.
This is important because you
are going to use this stereotype
to your advantage when it comes
to your ex girlfriend.
What do I mean by that?
Simple, send her a text message
like this,
(You: hey, Jenny did u remember the movie "Pyaar impossible" or any other movie u could think of....we both watched over the weekend? Jenny: No i don't remember doing that with you....YOU: oh sorry it was with another friend....) This text is effective for a
number of reasons.
First off, no two guys are going
to see Fifty Shades of Grey
together.
That is just common sense.
Oh, and we can’t forget that we
have the double whammy of that
particular movie being over a
pretty sexual topic…
So, when your ex girlfriend
receives this text from you she is
going to think a couple of things,
1. “Oh my god… He went on a
date with a girl.”
2. “AND he took her to see THAT
movie. I can’t believe him…”
The greatest part of the whole
thing is you get to stay in the
clear because the text is so
general it looks like your not
trying to make her jealous.
It’s subtle and that’s why its
effective.
It allows your ex to face her own
worst enemy, her mind.
Now, you may still be wondering
what this has to do with making
an ex girlfriend regret letting you
go.
Glad you asked!
How Jealousy Makes Your Ex
Regret
The whole point of trying to
make your ex girlfriend jealous is
that you are trying to illicit a
reaction from her.
Why?
Because if she is having a
reaction like jealousy then that
means on some level she still
cares about you.
Even if she won’t verbalize the
words she will know deep down
that she still has feelings for you
and that is exactly what you
want.
Oftentimes a woman who still
has feelings for an ex will regret
letting him go.
Now, I am not saying that
guarantees you a shot of winning
her back but it is a step in the
right direction because you will
hold sway over her.

To be continued.....