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Move on my dear and thank God its not too late. Being strong is part of being a lady. Ignore him and pretend u are happy cos honestly its not easy. Pls dnt resign its not easy to get a job.

A friend is about getting married and she told me she's not in love with the guy buh she have to cos she's not young, she's tired of staying in her parent's house and she can't move out except if she's married and more so she has committed herself. I feel she's making a mistake buh she said she doesn't av a choice except leaving the country buh she can't leave her job. Guys wat do u think, I am her only confidant n I dnt knw wat else to say. Pls help!

Can't be resolve cos he's compelled to marry the lady he's with buh he's still in love with me. We had a serious fight & we didn't comminicate for a month and I was @ fault buh he came back to tell me he's sorry & dat he loves me n he can't stop thinking abt me. Am confused cos I feel d same way too.

Omolola1: Why did you break up with him?
Can it be resolved?
Do you know still having the urge to sleep with him or even sleeping with him makes him see u as a desperate loner?

God bleSs u I can see he's not serious at all. Tell us when u r ready *runaway*

Brown_eyes: Your question itself is quite confusing,make up your mind and give back formidable reasons why you know/think yhu can't marry her and we'll get back to you.

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Naija girlz ti suffer baje baje. Kilo fa gbogbo eleyi?

no be small thing o, after 6yrs bro u r wicked o. Pls stop wasting her time cos u don't know wat u want.

I love my Ex so much & he's the only guy am sexually attracted to and each time I see him I can't help buh sleep with him despite all the pain he caused me. Pls wat do I do cos am about starting another relationship and I don't want to cheat on the guy.[color=#000099][/color]

Hi peeps! How long does heartbreak last? Its been 6months I broke up wit my guy n I find it difficult to move on n most especially every guy I meet complans dat I nag. Pls wat do I do?

woodcook: @op seems u r in deep poo! First u r lucky he was even honest with you. The bottom line is a times out of unexplainable reason we get "twisted" inside and call it love. This inner "twist" some times could be intense that you could loss your mind and all that you ever stood for just to feel better inside. My advise to you; you had better start pulling out. Asking you never to see him again, is something I know that given your lever if "inner twist" that might be like telling to go commit suicide. The best you could do is to look for something else and focus on it, maybe a mini-project, that will help in unwinding your "twisted inner self". Please if you ever managed to "untwist" yourself from this never again should you allow yourself to be in such situation even in marriage. You just have to see every union like an agreement, where you do what is required of you at all time, so that by the end of the day if the agreement fails you wont be held responsible and or feel hurt.

thanks, God bless u

Almost 2 years now dat i've been dating this guy and I love him so much and I can do anything 4 him. I was with him last weekend and I ask if he truly love him and he said he didn't knw dt I shld not be angry is just dat he's not sure that he need time to figure it out. Am hurting pls advise me.