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Phones / Re: With A Budget Of 120k, Which Phone Is Best To Go For? by SLIDEwaxie(m): 9:57am On Mar 07
Nwachacho:
I intend getting a new phone and my budget is 120k. Please I need advise on the best option to go for with regards to my budget.
iPhone 7. You go collect like 20k change sha
Politics / Re: Julius Malema Is In Nigeria. by SLIDEwaxie(m): 11:42am On Mar 06
Make we come hug am?
Business / Re: Why Are Bank Accounts Called 'aza' In Nigeria? by SLIDEwaxie(m): 9:30pm On Feb 14
leksbore:
Only strong men will relate and understand this,,,,, I will say the only artist who brought this language out to be used is burna boy
you're sick, try slimcase and Larry gaga

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Religion / Re: "I Want To Marry A Rich Nigerian Man" - Black American Female Pastor Says by SLIDEwaxie(m): 3:54pm On Feb 03
Supremos:

Me thinks though she's an old lady, but at heart, she belongs to Gen Z.

Love isn't a principal thing in marriage to our women this days.

Money determines their choice
what do you knw?
I don't believe in love but believe me, without any iota of likeness, you'll eff it up. It will crumble with time, especially with a woke man who is not a simple man. Only a SIMP will not detect a lady who's acting for money.

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Business / Re: Tope Awotona: Meet Nigeria's Richest Man In The US by SLIDEwaxie(m): 10:55am On Jan 20
BreconHills:


Richer than Bayo Ogunlesi?
Ogunlesi is in UK and not US

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Crime / Re: Airport Official Arrested Over Attempt To Smuggle Suspected Drug Onboard Ibom Ai by SLIDEwaxie(m): 10:37am On Jan 19
CameroonPepper:
Most drugs busts against Igbos were orchestrated by Tinubu's boys controlling the airport luggage systems that's why he moved FAAN to Lagos. Expect more.
you're the most useless person in the whole world 😂😂😂
Politics / Re: Emefiele Impersonated SGF To Illegally Obtain $6.2m – EFCC by SLIDEwaxie(m): 7:54am On Jan 19
Guy_man
But to be honest, eventually, everyone would do the same- but maybe some of us, not to that level of his choice of greed and some of us would do worse. Nobody knows until we're handed such power and position to use

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Politics / Re: Emefiele Impersonated SGF To Illegally Obtain $6.2m – EFCC by SLIDEwaxie(m): 7:54am On Jan 19
Guy_man

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Crime / Re: NDLEA Intercepts Consignment Of Canadian Loud In Lagos, UK, Italy-bound Opioids by SLIDEwaxie(m): 4:43pm On Jan 14
Wahala for smokers

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Lets Discus Payrolls In Nigeria. What Is Your Monthly Salary? by SLIDEwaxie(m): 10:44am On Jan 11
queenfav:
Wow..I don't doubt the salaries quoted here because as a lawyer duly called to bar,i was getting N10k salary at my first job.I quit law practice some years later to face my business.

Today i can afford to pay my ssce/OND shop assistant more than that(20-25k) including other bonuses like 13th month salary when the year ends.

I tell people getting educated in Nigeria is just for the sake of having a degree and bragging rights of "I am a graduate".There are not enough good paying jobs to go round the large number of graduates being churned out yearly by our universities and polytechnics.

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I will definitely ensure my daughter learns a skill or trade, in addition to going to school.It's those artisans and workmen we look down on that are making good money.A POP installer charged us N36000 as his workmanship fee for screeding and skirting done on our living room wall,2 door panels and our passage.While he was doing our job,he had 2 other jobs at hand that he sent his boys to do, of which one was a big job of doing POP on the ceiling of a duplex.
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Now calculate how much he makes in a month.This is someone from Togo who isn't even an ssce holder.He is married,living well and has kids that are all well cared for.
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If a good paying job isn't forthcoming,It is wise to dump that your certificate for some time and hit the streets.Its far better than collecting 15k after graduating from a university.

Learn fashion design, welding, Painting, Electric fence installation, Hair dressing , Catering etc They are the big men in town o,forget suit and tie jobs for a while,many can only pay peanuts.

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As you Hustle, you can still be applying for jobs that pay well.Maybe one day,luck may smile on you.
education is not just a scam. If you understand how you make your money now, you applied education, unlike the Togo guy that had to work hard to earn. So, it's not if you use it. Your course of study might not be what you're using to make money but you'll realise that it's application is still there for everyday use and interaction

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Investment / Re: SEC Authorises NASD To List Crypto, Other Digital Assets by SLIDEwaxie(m): 6:17pm On Jan 10
E don dey set

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Family / Re: Why Do Rich Men Deceive We Poor Men Like This??? (PICTURES) by SLIDEwaxie(m): 6:34pm On Dec 10, 2023
Geovanni412:


You've been looking for a loan from one man for two years

What happened to all the other options within your circle?

He has been dribbling you with the hope that you will understand that he cannot give you the loan,

Perhaps, he doesn't know how to firmly say NO to such requests, hence, the indirect means, he has been using on you.

funn thing is, a long of 600k two years ago, with inflation and depreciation, it won't be ore than a value of 300k. Which even makes it impossible for your feasibility study to be the same. Hence, i would have avoided giving him the loan too because he's clearly lying because it won't even work again

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Travel / Re: Can 1m Really Take Someone Out Of This Country. by SLIDEwaxie(m): 3:51pm On Dec 10, 2023
cybernaut:
that he'll you think is better than the Nigeria you think. Even ordinary benin republic is far more better than Nigeria as am talking to you now
trash talk always.
Phones / Re: Recommend A Decent Device For 250k by SLIDEwaxie(m): 1:46pm On Dec 01, 2023
Llyodsjids:
I do know the current exchange rate is terrible and so the prices of everything especially gadgets have increased significantly
But I'll need recommendations for a smartphone of 250k
I'm a power user so I want a decent battery life, a fast processor, 5G and a decent camera
Samsung note 10 plus (UK used)
Samsung note 20 ultra (add 50k for a UK used)
Google pixel 6a (new one is 280k)
Google pixel 7 (UK used 300k)
Phones / Re: Telecom Operators Plan Increase In Tariffs by SLIDEwaxie(m): 8:26pm On Nov 17, 2023
Kizyte:
Yes of course, my dad no have sense ... you're right! 👍
correct!!
Phones / Re: Telecom Operators Plan Increase In Tariffs by SLIDEwaxie(m): 7:51pm On Nov 17, 2023
Kizyte:
One of the brains that have been programmed not to have sense forever spotted!
if your papa has sense, he will use condom grin grin
Phones / Re: Telecom Operators Plan Increase In Tariffs by SLIDEwaxie(m): 12:44pm On Nov 17, 2023
Kizyte:
Effect of Tinubunation! Nigeria is now completely destroyed, not by Tinubu, but by those who voted him and are still supporting him and his government, even though the election was rigged.
Arindin. Na tinubu dey govern the rest of the world too. Your people wey japa no tell you? Even if you're too lazy to understand what's going on around the world, u no fit ask around? Arindin omo
Phones / Re: Telecom Operators Plan Increase In Tariffs by SLIDEwaxie(m): 12:43pm On Nov 17, 2023
Something that has been hiked before the announcement. Dey there dey play
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Where in the world is anything cheap anymore?

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Nairaland / General / Re: Jaan Roose Takes Daring Walk Across Lagos Bridge by SLIDEwaxie(m): 3:27pm On Nov 16, 2023
Na garri me I dey carry go funeral to eat with akara o

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Politics / Re: Deported Nigerians Submitted ‘Incorrect Information’ - Saudi Embassy by SLIDEwaxie(m): 5:22am On Nov 16, 2023
I won't say you lie. We can do anything.

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Politics / Re: Obi: Supreme Court Ignored Rigging, Forgery, That Isn't Part Of Our Constitution by SLIDEwaxie(m): 3:17pm On Nov 06, 2023
This crying won't stop?

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Properties / Re: Danger! Anambra Man Builds Two-storey Building With Bamboo, Says Iron Expensive by SLIDEwaxie(m): 7:41pm On Oct 21, 2023
KosiGee:


So you depend on google for all these trash you and your mates are vomiting here??
You are all confused.

What do you understand by ‘tensile strength’? Do you know what that means or you just crammed something but have no clue what you crammed.

Go and google the meaning of reinforcement bar(building rods)
What sizes of reinforcement bars are used for columns and beam of a building? Have you ever built a house before? What sort of house? Have you ever been to a construction site?

Compare the tensile strength of bamboo and 8mm or 10mm reinforcement bar.

Do that and come back….

By the way…bamboo tensile strength varies depending on location and area it grows. Bamboo in some swamp in Lagos will have different tensile strength to one found in some forest in Ondo. Do you agree?

Tensile strength…maximum load a material like bamboo or rods will carry before they give way and break.

Compare the tensile strengths and come back.

Btw bamboos have tensile strengths of 50-150MPa
you're the most dumbest individual. I told you it was practicalized in school... what nonsense are u talking? You come.gk Google come dey talk trash
Properties / Re: Danger! Anambra Man Builds Two-storey Building With Bamboo, Says Iron Expensive by SLIDEwaxie(m): 4:40pm On Oct 20, 2023
KosiGee:


You are the one with no insights about what you are saying.

Bamboo have higher tensile strength than iron rods?? You should be arrested for this? Your certificate if you’ve got one need to be withdrawn. The man constructing this building should be banned from building sites.
as a building technologist, just take it. He's told you the truth. You can Google it. It is a practical we did in school way back. Yes, bamboo can be used instead of steel reinforcement because it has higher tensile strength than steel rods. Get your facts right

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Travel / Re: Visa Alone No Longer Guarantees Entry - Uk Announces Travel Requirements by SLIDEwaxie(m): 1:10pm On Sep 05, 2023
Your wahala. E no concern me. Na those who wan travel get the wahala

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Politics / Re: Nigeria Did Not Apply To Join BRICS, Says Shettima by SLIDEwaxie(m): 9:04am On Aug 26, 2023
Austineva:
grin grin grin. Butterfly calling itself eagle 😂😂😂. Keep brainwashing urself
that's why you hold no water. It'll be hard for you to actually make it through leverage. As Haggard and Dirty as Niger and Mali is, why do you think the West are fidgeting? You're too dunce to understand, too stupid to be smart and maybe, too blind to see
Politics / Re: Nigeria Did Not Apply To Join BRICS, Says Shettima by SLIDEwaxie(m): 8:28am On Aug 26, 2023
Most people are stupid. Nigeria is one of the most populous nation and would always be exploited. You need them to come and not you running to them. They need you, be calm and make demands.
Politics / Re: Nigeria Did Not Apply To Join BRICS, Says Shettima by SLIDEwaxie(m): 8:26am On Aug 26, 2023
Ww
Foreign Affairs / Re: He Was A Talented Person: Putin mourns former caterer, Prigozhin by SLIDEwaxie(m): 9:03pm On Aug 24, 2023
crossfm:


You see that book is really powerful. Sometimes I even feel afraid when I meditate on the choice of diction used.
true that
Foreign Affairs / Re: He Was A Talented Person: Putin mourns former caterer, Prigozhin by SLIDEwaxie(m): 7:41pm On Aug 24, 2023
crossfm:
Hehehe.

Bad guy grin.

Putin made use of law number 15 from the famous book,The 48 laws of power. If you know you know.
Law 1 and Law 15 played out, actually smiley

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Romance / Re: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by SLIDEwaxie(m): 6:15pm On Aug 24, 2023
addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.
just cheat and be happy. You're wasting your time thinking it's a sin. It's not. Having a mistress if your wife is crazy is allowed. Do it quietly sha. because she will kill you grin
Romance / Re: True Or False : Men Don't Generally Like Women With Tattoos. by SLIDEwaxie(m): 5:03am On Aug 24, 2023
Dybala11:

Omo, I watched a video in which a tattoo artist was drawing a tattoo in between the two breasts of a particular woman, comman see how the guy was dragging/squeezing the breasts anyhow. Chai. 😌😌😌
shocked shocked shocked

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