The school administrators need to be questioned and arrested as a matter of fact. They are either directly involved or they are covering for someone. Bones after just two weeks? People need to pull their children from that school. The administrators are murderers

MymothersKeeper:


Your son will end up like my ex , spoilt pompous & always right in his mind ! Everybody hates him & knows he wasn't taught well from home

This is true. As adults you can still spot those ones who were not given rules and boundaries at home. It's almost embarrassing to be out with them in public. The sad thing is they usually are not aware that their behavior is atrocious.

Nonsense

Make sure he is not hurt then make him clean up the mess. He might lose some privileges too. Poor baby lol

OmoAlata1:


Honey, you have a lot to learn, you will be surprised what people do behind closed door. Especially innocent looking people

I don't need to learn anything. I don't knock what anybody does as long as it is not criminal. Urinating on each other during sex is not common. In fact I don't even think it should be put on more than 2 on a freak scale of 1-10. There are a million other things more freaky. I am not saying that people don't do weird things but it is not common. Common means something is prevalent. MouthAction is common and most people will attempt anal sex but urinating on each other during sex is not prevalent. Stop watching porn if you're the kind of person who watches it and then think that's how real life works. Porn is a fantasy and of you cannot watch it for what it is then don't watch it. Next thing people will start saying that fisting and men with 11 inch cocks are common

Fawklicant:



My dear, this is a serious issue. The trauma associated with raising an SS child is not what any parent would want to relive. It is just too much. The frequent trips to the hospital in the middle of the night, the sleepless nights, the agony of watching the child suffer for the sins of the parents, living in constant fear that all your love and care for the child could all be in vain, the anxiety, all the physical and emotional toll it takes on all involved, not forgetting the money that would be expended, trust me it is not 'beans'. No child should have to suffer for their parents' indiscretion. In the end, the happiness the parents seek by being together in union would have been annulled by the trauma of seeing their seed go in and out of crisis.

The couple got lucky with the first child, let them leave it at that. If they happen to get back together, they should consider adopting.

You've focused on the suffering of the parents and not even the child. The pain and suffering that child will suffer because their father consciously made that choice.

I feel sorry for the one that said pray that the next child does not end up being SS. You are everything that is wrong with this world.

OmoAlata1:


Golden Shower is pretty common. you just find it disgusting cos it is new to you. He can pee on her legs or belly. and she can take a shower afterward. it is just pee, kini big deal?

You are a liar. That's just the truth. It is not a new thing but it is certainly not common. How many men have you taken a piss on and how many have taken a piss on you. Like seriously people just talk crap simply because they can. You are either not married or are with a man who has no respect for your relationship if you truly feel that a woman who does not let her husband take a piss on her freaking body has the right to step out. Grow up little girl.


OP the next time he asks to urinate on you tell him that the house comes with a toilet and he should go use it. Next he might ask to do the #2 on you because he dreamed about it last night. Nonsense.

Love suffereth all things. So touched.

Silly drunk of a man. He gets drunk and cannot perform and then blame all his wives.

bjbukzy:

No matter how mad someone is, he or she will run when he sees death..... Will she have breastfed a baby in public if she killed the baby? The woman is innocent...
She ran towards policestation n not inside.... She might even know dat police provides safety as been mad does not mean 100% stupidity

I think people just conclude that people who have a severe mental illness have no moments of clarity or that they are sonehow developmentally challenged. They are no less intelligent than the ones who think they are normal and yet try to kill a woman who was showing emotional connection to a baby. She's more human than any of those animals will ever be. How many times have we seen people post pictures here of dead babies with people standing around and looking and snapping pictures. This woman had a dead baby and she tried to feed it. It's just unfortunate to live in nigeria sometimes. The weakest in that country don't have a chance.

Joel3:
since they are still too young to really knw what they were doing. So You cannot compare the guy now and when he was a kid? Can you.


Not forgetting that I and my friends use to have sex with girls when I was around 10years old. But the truth is that is not sex, as our dick did not enter the hole we only wined waist ontop girls.

Not until we started watching blue firm from one chair man window.

Before I learnt that the dick need to enter the hole where urine is coming out from. I was like put my dick in that hole?

then We don't really knw how to sex.

Beside some girls also romance me when I was 3 to 5 years old. they kiss and press me to their breast. Although they are older but still young to really knw the consequence. Those girls can't do that again now since they are married and have kids of their own now.

Its all part of kids play and drama. You cant tell me you don't have sex as a kid. Don't lie.

For starters, the hole you penetrate is not where you urinate from. As for the rest of your post, there's never ever any justification or rationalization of child molestation. There simply is none.

The man should be in jail with the woman. It seems he just passes the girl around to whomever asks to take care of her. If indeed her mother suffered from past partum depression why does he not focus on her getting better. So far he has two baby mamas and still no direction in life.

TVTKOKO:
This has been bothering me for sometimes now.
I'm the eldest child in my house and seriously can't stand it amidst of my junior brother and sister seeing our dad stark unclad. He does not read any meaning to this but i do feel disturbed wen dis happens especially knowing my younger sister of over 9 years is around.

Please wat can i do to stop him or should i keep quiet because he is in his house and around his family?

I mean no disrespect but is your dad an alcoholic or maybe he might suffer from a mental illness that is not diagnosed? Also where is your mother in all of this? Is she honestly not saying anything when your 9 year old sister is being exposed to such unthinkable things? You need to have a frank adult conversation with both of your parents. You get to a stage in your life when you might need to talk to your parents as just another adult at your level. Most people will have to do that at some point in their lives and this is your turn.

There's nothing you can do. I wouldnt recommend plastic surgery. You need to have this conversation with your husband. He needs to get over it.

So they beat up a mentally challenged woman who either found a dead baby or probably lost her own child because she could not properly care for it. I wonder about the mental state of the ignorant bastards who assaulted her. I can't even begin to tell you the hell I would unleash on these animals if I had the power. These low grade animals shouldnot be allowed to go free

bloodred:



I'm sure this pap smears is not common here in Nigeria. Cos I've never had one and I use one of the biggest hospitals here in Ph. It wasn't even mentioned. Maybe my medical insurance didn't cover it. But I'm just saying maybe cos it was never even mentioned at all.

Thanks for the information but honestly I am shocked to hear that a woman of child bearing age has never been told that she should get yearly exams. This is standard. What exactly is the job of doctors if they're not even educating women on their health. It is inexcusable in my opinion. My doctors office sends me a text to remind me because I almost always forget until late in the year. Seriously, for your reproductive and General health get a pap smear yearly and if you are sexually active get tested for STDs as well. Yearly!!! Things like cervical cancer are usually treatable in the early stages. That's one of the biggest reasons for a Pap smear. Next time you see your doctor you need to ask him or her why they do not make this standard. Prevention is better than cure and yearly Pap smears save millions of lives.

I'm confused. Isn't the next step be to call the police? Someone was digging a hole at night and then you saw blood and you're here asking questions.

johnnobles:
Am in serious need of house maid
Anybody that can be of assistant should indicate. Between 12 to 15.

SMH. Why don't you ask for a new born baby. You can use it as an alarm clock

You need to make things right before you ruin your relationship. You honestly cannot compare what it takes to raise a new born baby to what it takes to raise an 8 year old. This is just a bad time to buy a piece f land and it seems you spend money without thinking of where it is going. She's your wife for all intents and purposes so you really should be sitting with her and discussing your future together and that ncludes were you guys put your money. It seems you're the one dragging your feet. You're full of excuses. It'll be crazy to have children scattered in 3 different homes. Please consider the children

falconey:
It was a shock I couldn't believe my eyes, I went to visit her parent this past weekend to drop a message for her father. I couldn't believe what I saw when I entered her room( it is a 3bedroom flat, she has her own room and only her and her 9 years old younger brother were around), I saw her touching her private part with earpiece on her ear. I guess thatz why she didn't hear me knock. The masturbation is not the shock but knowing she is young in SS1, I can't remember her actual age but I can still recall when and where she was born. I can't stop thinking of that incident. part of me want to tell her mum to give her lessons about her body and the other part says don't. I don't know what to do

Go get busy doing something and leave that child alone

And what is considered reasonable grounds. Seems like a blank check to invade people's privacy.

I apologize for her. Women marched, fought, were jailed and killed so a twit like this can actually brag about a man affording her. She's obviously born to be a slave. If this is the mental level of females Scales can get then Whizkid would have to be the winner. How possible is it to be anymore stupid?

The mother is an absolute id10t and so is the neighbor.

pretydiva:
This event happened in my street this afternoon. I was in my room browsing with my phone when I heard people shouting outside. At first I didn't want to go out, but when the shouting increased I had to go outside to see what was happening.

My mom and I rushed outside to catch a glimpse of what was happening. At first we heard a guy tried to kidnap a girl in the church. Fortunately my mom saw the child's elder brother and she made inquiry to know if the guy was caught and the child rescued, that was when we heard the shocker of our life.

The brother told us that it wasn't a kidnapping case,but instead a fellow guy who also attend the same church with them was caught having carnal knowledge of his sister right inside the church. It was the proprietor of the school opposite the church that caught him in the act. The most annoying part was that the guy was releasing right inside the child when he was caught and he showed no sign of remorse. When the little child was interrogated, she said today wasn't the first time it started, that they even had s*x with her yesterday which was Sunday. I had to go very close to the church to catch a glimpse of the guy. I was indeed very shock when I saw the matured guy that defiled this little girl.

The child's parent were later alerted and the father came with some policemen and took the guy away. But before they left,one of the policemen asked the guy how many of them were involved. The guy confessed that it was his elder brother that started having carnal knowledge of the child before he followed suit. Him and his elder brother were later taking away.

Now my question here is who should be blamed. Is it the guy for having carnal knowledge of d child, or the child for not reporting such act to her mother,or the mother who wasn't so observant as to notice what was happening to her child?

Is the child's father dead? You listed the victim as someone to possibly blame but left out a parent. Seriously?

I think the number is higher

macklef:

I tire for d guy o. Shes one of d finest blonde MCs i know. Black american MCs still on top tho in terms of preety.

Did you just refer to her as an MC? Please go to bed. She happens to "rap". Just an insult to real MCs

bloodred:
I'm a mother of two and have never been touched or fingered inappropriately. In fact, no doctor or midwife has ever inserted finger into my private part. But that's because my babies were born by c-section and I never needed such medical exams during ante-natal. That being said, no doctor will stop you from being present when examining your wife. So try and always be there if it helps you sleep better at night. My husband was even allowed into the theater during my surgeries so u could ask to be present during labour/c-section. I am a woman and the thought of any stranger inserting finger in my vagina disgusts me. I'm sure I would have endured it if I had vaginal deliveries but I'm glad I didn't and totally understand how @op feels.

You need to fire your gynacologist. A woman of child bearing age who had never had a pelvic exam is unbelievable. You mean you have never in your life had a pelvic exam and yet have two children? Does your husband do your Pap smears?

prince3009:
Incidences like this are very dicey. He should be careful. The bank might want to eliminate him

He's estate will carry on the law suit.

Where are the butt implants there? There's none. The butt looks like it has bruises that are healing though

5minsmadness:
So my neighbor came to judge matter with me this early morning. I really felt for the guy cos I like the couple and the way they seem to relate outside. I decided to bring the matter here to see if I can possibly get some mature advice.

The man and his wife have been married for four years now and have two beautiful kids. Both husband and wife are working. I see the guy as the quiet but deep partner while the wife is more outgoing.
At the end of last month they had an argument that ended badly. Husband wanted to watch something on TV and wifey refused that she was watching her regular program. Husband explained that this was a one time thing and was happening live. Wife finally agreed with much grumbling which he didn't take kindly to. He told her he rarely watches TV that she shouldn't grumble so much. Simple enough but them things escalated with wife turning off the television and telling the husband that there was no way he was going to watch that program. He lost his temper and a scuffle ensued in which he slapped her. He said they were both shocked because he has never been physical with her throughout their 4yrs marriage. He left her alone in the house and drove off, came back close to midnight to find the kids asleep and the wife waiting on the couch. He apologised and she apologised too and he felt that was the end of it.

The next morning he was still feeling bad so he asked her jokingly if there was anything he could do to make up for it. The wife said that since he was shouting that the tv belonged to him then she wanted her own things too. She also wants to start buying properties in the house for herself so she wont be 'caught unawares'. He reassured her that he was angry at the time and didn't mean half of what he said and she said some mean things too. She still insisted on her own TV and finally the husband agreed.

The issue now is she is now asking for her own car. This couple just bought a Honda CRV last year Christmas but she is insisting that she wants a car she can call her own even though they bought the car as a family and i personally see them both driving it. He has just paid his house rent January and feels an extra car is an unnecessary liability. She wants to use her own savings to buy it while he covers the losses with his salary. Meanwhile they had an initial plan to buy land and start building their own house after buying the CRV.

He is not in support of the idea as he feels she doesn't need it and her being adamant about it is showing she plans on having more of her personal items so she can break off the marriage with ease if necessary. He said he is tired of apologising about that night bit just cannot afford the car right now, maybe in two years time.

I asked some more questions but this is the bulk of the matter. The guy was really looking sad even as he went to work this morning. I plan on talking to the wife later in the day as am close to both of them.

What do you guys think? Pls mature responses only biko.

This is sad. I think it's a trust issue. He has to win back her trust. I think hitting her was basically what made him fall in her eyes. She does not feel protected by him anymore and as such has emotionally detached. There's nothing besides assuring her that he made a regrettable mistake and over time he will prove it to her. For right now, what he has is what he has. Most women will not respect a man they do not feel safe with. He has work to do

I hope there are no innocent bystanders in those numbers. It's had to believe there are none. I don't think I ever heard of that many numbers even in the wars with al-Qaeda.

Why would you call your mother a prostitute?