Take the book deal. Lol. Could pay for kids college.

This wedding still hasn't happened? How is the family Serubawon? I hope things are still on track. I was feeling kind of down when I logged on but after reading through previous pages of this thread, I feel better. Nothing like a love story. Grown people love story. Thanks all who continually check in.

What was he delivered of? A Baby? Lol.
Churches need to learn not to videotape their'víctims' while they are falling around, clawing at the ground and foaming in the mouth.

These pastors have so much power. They tell you to drop your whole months salary into the bag and you do it sharp sharp. When they ask you to submit your kini some like sheep will comply. They are men and men abuse power. Congregation members need to look to God and not men.

Is he insane? A nursing mother can't take a leak to get comfortable before settling down to breast feed? Na wa oh.

obowunmi: Pls what is the problem?

Ther doesn't seem to be one.

Why should there be a bride price? This conversation should be about other wedding expenses. Bless my father. He told My inlaws his daughter is not a goat to be sold.

You do not need marriage to be elevated, dignified or respected. Marriage is a good thing in itself but it doesnt make the rest of your life fantasy perfect.

whats wrong with that? Na at all at all na im bad.

dayokanu: You people have brought Kola Olawuyis Iriri Aiye into this discussion

Soon someone would say they heard of a guy who had 3 dickss

Ishilove:
Hm, many people have mortgaged their destinies on the altar of sex. All these marine and witchcraft babes on the prowl make me worried for my male relatives.

*shudder*

Lol. Only women carry witchcraft? You gave me a good laugh.

Much ado about se.x or the lack of it thereof. Both sides to this debate are quite passionate I see.

Efemena_xy:

Be my guest and go fcck your brains out you Oloshious fellow.

Pervert you were, pervert you are and pervert you always will be. I sincerely hope you get sodomized an.a.lly several times over by a dozen boko harmists!

Mtcheew!

donchris999: Sharrap there! Do i know you? You are a disgrace to womanhood especially married women and you know that. I will stop at that for the thread to flow. Perverrt of the highest order!

No you guys.

bellong:

There's no hypocrisy anywhere. Anybody that knows me on seeing my moniker will know who I am. Its not a case of hiding under faceless forum.

Like I said before, I didn't test drive before entering because I knew what I was getting. The maker revealed everything I asked. There's no hard and fast rule to it. We can either decide to obey God or not, its individual choice. I never condemned those who did it the way they thought best for them. Just stated my opinion.

If after testing and the guy is certified okay in sex-ual issue, how do you test drive issues of the future and unknown events?

Thanks for sharing.

The funny thing is that most of those who had premarital. Sse.Xx weren't trying to grade anything. They were just having fun!

Those who so hotly advocate this abstinence should bring it closer to home for it to make meaning. Quoting the word is fine but did you live it? All the way? How did it work out for you? Some have admitted they ate the fruit and decided to embark on secondary celibacy. Others made it to the marriage bed intact and confessed it wasn't easy. To those who are quoting the Bible and pointing to spiritual paths are you voicing what you know to be right but didn't keep to yourself? Has it been easy? Has your partner been supportive? Are you in agreement? Are you a hypocrite? No comment? Lol. Some people have their spouses and people that know their nairaland Id here. Honesty is not in their best interest. Online forums provide anonymity and real life should be tendered with Bible quotes.

Its good to see several guys on here that don't subscribe to sex before marriage. We know in reality its the other way around most times. Are the guys here the good guys or guys who learnt from mistakes or guys who believe wholly the Bible standpoint and practice it as they argue it? Just wondering because even withinthe church many really do not sound like this.

The bible's way is the best way if both parties are like minded. The bible's grounds for divorce is adultery only. I am all for abstaining if they are prepared to stay together through ED and impotency and childlessness and etc. For some strange reason when these issues rear their ugly heads these same Christians start telling you they are also grounds for divorce. No they are not.

Even if you do not believe in test driving you must have felt the heat from your partner to know they are functional. Its not like abstaining is a walk in the park! Many couples nowadays insist on a thorough physical my friend included. She just got married and did not do the do. She insisted on a reproductive health physical and he readily agreed. To avoid your amateurish visual inspections or temptations wouldn't a professional's general bill of health suffice? We are human and like assurances not just when it comes to sex but with everything. On the other hand some challenges may surface later and you can deal with those. People just don't like to be hoodwinked from the get go.

Efemena_xy:

*** faints!!***

*** dies!! ***

Girlfriend..... . . Wake up, Lol.

babyosisi:

Thanks for being sincere
I would like to hear from a woman that wasn't a virgin yet waited till wedding night not knowing if there was even a Blokoss in that shokoto
Let me hear more and also from someone that took the risk that we couldn't take

Not only does a woman have to ascertain that the anaconda exists but she has to make sure that its not the size of mkpuru ube, inspect for warts, squeeze the head make sure there's no discharge and confirm that it can get like a rocket ready to launch.I no dey for shoot bird.

I do not blame the men that want to marry several women. I baffle at the women that actually form a straight file and move in to share of all things a man. . .an imperfect man. Your religion has thrust this absurdity upon you? Time to decamp perhaps. Just saying.

@Salsera,
I dey oh. This long awaited wedding. . .we better get an invite.
@ Serubawon
Hurry up oh abi na 7 year engagement you wan do? Lol. Just curious do you live together already. Sometimes that takes away the urgency of marriage.

2 years of drought? Lawdy! He can't be serious. Get a boyfriend.

@Babyosisi
Lol @ veins criss crossing.
Toys are for variety. Adds new smells and sensations to the party. Edible panties, masks, handcuffs, blindfolds, vibrating rings for the dude, lotions, massage oils, ticklers etc. Lets just say my closet is interesting. The gadgets hardly come out though. You dont make those routine. Usually birthdays or those weekends when you just go wild.

The mistress must give good head. . . . .

Policewoman: They should lock the adjoining door. Then bring their foam mattress to the floor or spread the wrapper on the rug in the room when they want to get down to action. That way the noise will reduce. Also they should use missionary position throughout the mum's stay. That way the man can close his wife's mouth when she moans too loudly. My 3 cents.

I refuse to resort to missionary only because MIL is around. I will take it all the ways I can get it.

jennykadry: But this is a 2 bedroom flat for heavens sake. Even one bedroom tenants still get their groove on, how much more 2? Can't they shut their door??

I trust who I married, Not even the pope himself will stop him from chopping right left center when he wants to. A "bonner" man is an angry man.

That is eh . . . . . .
A prudish MIL is the last 'thing' that will stop Mr Spoilt. It would have to be an earthquake or something coming.

ibas: If u have a car fork her in d car @nite if u must;if its ur own compound,u can take her in d garden,garage,loo,kitchen etc.ive done it b4 its d sweetest

I bet you the prudish MIL will be watchdogging through the window and will have a problem with that too.

Its not like anyone is intentionally trying to moan the house down in order to make MIL uncomfortable. Sex happens. Secure your door and be discreet. Its your alone time. If some moans or bed creaks escape.. .. . . . . The sky does not have to fall. If MIL moves in permanently then what? Monkhood and nunnery to both of you?

My Parents in law were around a while back and let me tell you it did not change nothing. We have noisy sex which I'm sure they got to hear. If anything they should be glad their son is getting it in and is stress free.

The man's wife should have used her magic powers to keep her husband's wetin call in her handbag.

2013 and people still ask what she did wrong? #headbang.

@Babyosisi
Chei. Nasarawa Toto . . . . .. I no fit shout. That town is where every woman should be allowed to set her kini free.