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Family / Re: Have 2 Lovely Girls But Hubby Want One More Trial For A Male Child by tarababy: 11:48am On Jan 12, 2013 |
Children are gift from God and so it should not matter what sex they are.I have a friend who has four girls and now pregnant hoping for a boy. Women should concentrate on improving their lives rather than concentrating on having a boy. afterall having a boy and girl does not guarantee that hubby will be faithful. Be grateful with whatever God gives you,boy or girl. |
Family / Nigerian Women Do Encourage Infidelity by tarababy: 3:59pm On Jan 10, 2013 |
My cosin,Who has been living illegally in the uk for four years has recently been advised by his wife in Nigeria to marry another woman in UK so that he can legalize his stay.She said she does not even mind,if another woman has a baby for him. She says she would benefit from it at the end, cos she would be able to join her husband and live in uk legally. I know so many women who have encouraged their husband to do so but never heard men encouraging their wives to do the same. Nairalanders do you agree that our nigerian women do encourage infidelity? Married women would you allow your hubby to do this? |
Family / Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by tarababy: 8:36pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
I have tried my best to save this marriage and i don't know what else to do.I separated from him for four months last year, but he was calling the pastor,my mum,brother and friends to plead on his behalf. He is a typical nigerian man who wants a wife he can walk on and dictate how she can live her life.How do you live with a man who does not agree with you before taking major steps in life. he wants to be a leader but does not set good examples.He wants automatic respect but forgets it is earned. Unfortunately am not one of the women,any man can boss around.I am not claiming to be perfect but i definately know what i want from life. He believes he is the head and so i should not question his authority.This is 21st century where man and woman work together in partnership.He still lives in the old age,where he believes the husband is always right. He is a businessman who is always home most of the time cos he has people working for him but he still expects me to come back from work to make his meal eventhough there is always stew in the fridge and he is a good cook. he complains that i don't wake up early enough to cook and get the kids ready for school but he wakes up earlier but will not lift a finger cos he believes it is a woman's duty. He said am not been submissive cos i have questioned why he can't cook his meal and have the kids shower since he wakes up earlier. The only thing he is responsible for is the mortgage and i pay the rest of the bills,just to let people know that am a fair person. i have to mention that he graduated from beating me to spitting. I am quitting the marriage cos am fed up and not cos some people advised me to do so. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by tarababy: 6:19pm On Dec 28, 2012 |
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Family / Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by tarababy: 2:21pm On Dec 28, 2012 |
greatgod2012: He was not shocked or surprised.He said spitting is no big deal,afterall he uses the same mouth to give me mouthaction. can u imagine him comparing spits to mouthaction? |
Family / Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by tarababy: 12:44pm On Dec 28, 2012 |
baby_mama: @ the poster, I have a job,so I can sustain myself and my two children financially.I have always been an independent women and so don't reliable on him for anything. He spat on me again yesterday and i did mine back this time around.I have decided to move on in the new year,the environment is definately not good for my boy and girl. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by tarababy: 11:39pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
coogar: he is a yoruba man.full blown nigerian with niger mentality. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by tarababy: 11:32pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
debrief08: I have been spit on before so I understand. Even our then Pastor refused to believe me. I have spoken to the pastor,friends and family.He promised all of them he would stop but obviously he can't control his temper. i have suggested anger management course but he has refused to ever attend such course. He would destroy door,throw pot of stew in the sink and any disgusting thing when he is angry. |
Family / My Husband Spits On My Face During Quarrels by tarababy: 10:30pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
I have been married to my hubby for 5 years now.For the past two years anytime we have disagreement or quarrel,he would spit on my face.I have had a heart to heart discussion with him to stop this disgraceful habit and he promised to stop but still did it four days ago. Even my mum came all the way from Nigeria to plead with him here in England to stop spitting on me. Anytime I call my mum about this matter,she would start crying saying my husband is laying a curse on me and nothing good will come out of me if he continues. I am losing interest in this marriage because there is no hope that he would ever change.I do not think any normal man would spit on his dog,let alone his wife. He says he sees me as a poo at that moment and that his why he does it.HE is the type that loses his temper easily and would do nasty thing,which he later regrets .He is a forty year old man,who has refused to grow up. married and matured minds in the house, do you think am wasting my time with this man? |
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