I see your point Anton however; many Africans are not like that. I personally have many friends from different African countries. That’s beside the point. I am not hating on anyone; I am a lover not a fighter, however, the whole scenario that you painted still does not give anyone an excuse to portray Africa as a country.

Hey, Lauryn I feel you on this one oo. Guess what my teacher in one of my PR classes said yesterday??

" Africa, India and other third world countries..."""

You should have seen the look of shock and amazement on my face. All the fellow Africans in the room were pisssseddd.  I did not want to correct the man because people would have looked at me as in, is she serious Lol. But it gets to me.

I agree with Seun. Marriage is not something to rush into. You do not want to tie yourself down to someone you might end up disliking. All that glitters is not gold. Take your time to get to know him better because actions speak louder than words. Lastly, people pretend a lot, it just takes time for their true character to come out. Don't feel pressured to marry him because as females, the society makes us feel like our biological clock is running out at a certain age.  Well, take care and good luck with your decision.

Ouch!!! That is not very nice..