Considering the rate at which HIV victims are proliferating and the humiliation that the disease goes with, I am wondering what fascinates married people into infidelity. What baffles me again is the fact that every husband or wife hates to see one's partner go astray yet he or she is delighted in doing so. Now, what advice do we have for ourselves? Surprisingly fornication is also a fashion of the day even though most of us are professed Christians. What do we do, as a society, to alleviate this menace?

because very immature people are going into marriage,because many people are getting married for d wrong reasons and because people dont respect d sanctity of marriage again and of course dey pay with it with their lives n their kids suffer 4 it

kulyie: because very immature people are going into marriage,because many people are getting married for d wrong reasons and because people dont respect d sanctity of marriage again and of course dey pay with it with their lives n their kids suffer 4 it

So, whom do we blame it on?

if you have d fear of God in you, you dnt commit sin, but when the reverse is the case, u def will sin.

oyarose: if you have d fear of God in you, you dnt commit sin, but when the reverse is the case, u def will sin.

are u a virgin?

@ joland blaming someone else for ur failures and mistake is an act of irresponsibility,accepting and admiting ur faults is an act of responsibility.so forget blaming here.just make sure ure gettin married for d right reason(s). Infact i took a sample of ladies and guys in lagos who are about getting married whenever i see dem i ask,y do u want to get married to dis guy and they say because he is handsome,because she is pretty,because shes a good cook,because he is good in bed,because he is generous, some said i dont even know,because he just got a job,because my parents are disturbin me to get married,because my salary has just been increased,because all my friends are married and so i feel ashamed not gettin married at my age.no substantial or serious reasons 4 marria

we blame it on the society, that pressures one to get married just for the sake of being married and not for the sake of being happily married.

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@ fuego hehehhehehehehehehehehe nitim wey i no go see on nairaland,by d way how much are ur amusing 'creams' dey look like kando sef.lmao