Money!!!

FAITH.
For without FAITH, you will not succeed in any relationship in life.

THE THREE BASIC NEEDED FACTORS FOR TRUE RELATIONSHIP THAT KEEP THEM ALIVE ARE: TRUST, UNDERSTANDING AND FEAR OF GOD.

Money, and more money.... Love join small shaa!!! But still money.

This are the things that have kept my relationship moving.

-Understanding

-compromise

-patience

-honesty

-trust

-Mere attraction

-respect

-communication

-A little Love

-Humor.

Although, am not yet married ,and in a new relationship... i will say unflinching trust, love , communication ,loyalty..We are both coming in with fresh ideas and believe that we are both good until proven otherwise...

okpara ugo:

You make sense shaa. See as one babe dey diss her ex whey lose him job with MTN. Me, i just laugh. No be my fault.

See na when money finish you go know woman character ....what and why did she diss him ? How ?because he can't buy her needs

1, Sense and sensibility.
2, We both come from unbroken homes, so are very much conscious of the ills of divorce.
3, The children.
4, Believe in the LORD GOD.

realsammie: my babe is beautiful, and i mean very beautiful. men are alwayz after her but thank God for my long joystick which she confesses dat she cant do without

No mata aw long ur joystick is, there are quintillions of longer joysticks. I hope God won't put a new testimony in her mouth

God's guidance & protection, love, patience & endurance, understanding, co-operation & teamwork.

First, God is the pillar holding my relationship. Then, understanding and good sense of humour. Other things add up sha..

The golden rule ''do unto others ......''.

Ours is God, dated for less than 2 months b4 marrage, ll be celebratng 4th yr annivery next month, with a son 3 plus and a daugter almost 2. We love ourselves more each day. Nothing but God.

Constant nagging from my girl has really kept it going..anytime she isn't around,I miss her a lot...

Freiburger: What are the good things that has been keeping your relationship or marriage in good shape?

love, trust nd forgiveness

Let's start by understanding d def of a Husband.U mite hav a lot of english defn but check dis out,d husband is d lord and master.JSt lik d husbandman is d lord n master of d vineyard,even d owner has 2 tak permission 2 do anytin in his own vineyard frm d husbandman.
So 1.Know ur place n act it fully,dats y d bible said wives. Submit 2 ur husbands.
2.This is 2 d husbands,Love ur wife.infact dats d only responsibility d bible clearly spelled out 4 d husbands.
If u submit 2 ur husband u wud agree even when ur own point is not considered.
If u love ur wife u wudnt tak d decision dat wud hurt her,cos love wud guide u.
2 cap it up,Romance is also vital.so dis principle applies 2 ur private times as well.above all d more God's word grows in u,d faster ur growth both physically,spiritually n financially.
Al d best

Simple.THE PERSONAL CONVICTIONS I HAD IN CHOSEN HER AMONG ALL OTHER WOMEN IN THE WORLD.

♏Ɣ big epi, ♏Ɣ moni, ♏Ɣ sexondary school gal friends and ♏Ɣ wife's prayer!

The choice to love, endure, understand, respect, submit, share, and remain committed which is all embeded in the spirit of God and the grace of God hav been keeping us glued to each other.

There is nothing like loving for no reason,search deep within urself,U̶̲̥̅̊ will realise that it is d reason why U̶̲̥̅̊ didn't marry A and choose B

AmBeautiful:

Single!

Till now?!

ghettodreamz: Not yet married but so far;

1. God
2. Love
3. Understanding
4. Trust
5. Good communications & team work spirit
6. Above all, prayer

He, wisdom is missing, pls remember Solomon, okay

patience...

kokoye: Divorce is not an option for us.

"Till death do us part" holds true for us..regardless of the situation.

stop talking like this, death is not easy, telling lies is a sin.

My marriage has defied every positive thing that makes marriages work,nothing makes it work right now.
1.Communication: If we try to communicate it will always end up in quarrel,you can`t engage her because she believes she knows everything.
2.Love: The more i love her,the more she disrespects me,taking you for granted.
3.Money: It is only when i spend money on her relatives(father,mother,brothers & sisters)that makes her happy any attempt to spend on my relatives is an issue.besides she makes her own money,so the marriage has defied the language of money.
4.Respect: Treat her like an adult with respect she gets loose.
5.Commitment:There is no commitment as she does not see any contribution makes as part of her responsibility to building the home,if she brings N1,the whole world especially her father,Mum & Brothers and Sisters will know that she has contributed N1 to the building of the family.
6.Endurance: We have lived in this awful state for 7yrs,is it not enough for someone to loose his faculties?
7.God: She evangelizes and reads the Bible daily but fails to act or implement what the Bible says,i have fallen out with God and Religion for a long time.
8.Trust: I have implicit trust for her but she does not trust me as she was made to believe that Men from my ethnic group do not keep their marriage vow,so since we got married she has been on the fence.
9.Understanding: She lacks total understanding of our destination,even though i have taken time to explain to her as the cab driver,lack of communication is a strong impediment to our ability to understand each other.
10.Attraction: She is beautiful but i am no longer attracted to her charm.

@OP i am not here to derail your thread,i would have contributed something positive in response to your post if i had any but alas!!!!!! there is none.I hope i will not incur the wrath of P *U*S*S*Y R*I*O*T A*G*E*N*T*S and RELIGIOUS BELIEVERS (NOT GOD BELIEVERS)on NL.

greatgod2012: 1. God
2. Prayer
3. Trust
4. Humility
5. Mutual understanding
6. Communication
7. Love
8 . Never starving my hubby of intimacy, u know?

P. S 1 &2, very important. And of course, continous forgiveness.

Awwe! Am jealous.

proudlyafrican: My marriage has defied every positive thing that makes marriages work,nothing makes it work right now.
1.Communication: If we try to communicate it will always end up in quarrel,you can`t engage her because she believes she knows everything.
2.Love: The more i love her,the more she disrespects me,taking you for granted.
3.Money: It is only when i spend money on her relatives(father,mother,brothers & sisters)that makes her happy any attempt to spend on my relatives is an issue.besides she makes her own money,so the marriage has defied the language of money.
4.Respect: Treat her like an adult with respect she gets loose.
5.Commitment:There is no commitment as she does not see any contribution makes as part of her responsibility to building the home,if she brings N1,the whole world especially her father,Mum & Brothers and Sisters will know that she has contributed N1 to the building of the family.
6.Endurance: We have lived in this awful state for 7yrs,is it not enough for someone to loose his faculties?
7.God: She evangelizes and reads the Bible daily but fails to act or implement what the Bible says,i have fallen out with God and Religion for a long time.
8.Trust: I have implicit trust for her but she does not trust me as she was made to believe that Men from my ethnic group do not keep their marriage vow,so since we got married she has been on the fence.
9.Understanding: She lacks total understanding of our destination,even though i have taken time to explain to her as the cab driver,lack of communication is a strong impediment to our ability to understand each other.
10.Attraction: She is beautiful but i am no longer attracted to her charm.

@OP i am not here to derail your thread,i would have contributed something positive in response to your post if i had any but alas!!!!!! there is none.I hope i will not incur the wrath of P *U*S*S*Y R*I*O*T A*G*E*N*T*S and RELIGIOUS BELIEVERS (NOT GOD BELIEVERS)on NL.

eya

Wheel/tyre...lol

Better beating and constant threat to keep in line :

proudlyafrican: My marriage has defied every positive thing that makes marriages work,nothing makes it work right now.
1.Communication: If we try to communicate it will always end up in quarrel,you can`t engage her because she believes she knows everything.
2.Love: The more i love her,the more she disrespects me,taking you for granted.
3.Money: It is only when i spend money on her relatives(father,mother,brothers & sisters)that makes her happy any attempt to spend on my relatives is an issue.besides she makes her own money,so the marriage has defied the language of money.
4.Respect: Treat her like an adult with respect she gets loose.
5.Commitment:There is no commitment as she does not see any contribution makes as part of her responsibility to building the home,if she brings N1,the whole world especially her father,Mum & Brothers and Sisters will know that she has contributed N1 to the building of the family.
6.Endurance: We have lived in this awful state for 7yrs,is it not enough for someone to loose his faculties?
7.God: She evangelizes and reads the Bible daily but fails to act or implement what the Bible says,i have fallen out with God and Religion for a long time.
8.Trust: I have implicit trust for her but she does not trust me as she was made to believe that Men from my ethnic group do not keep their marriage vow,so since we got married she has been on the fence.
9.Understanding: She lacks total understanding of our destination,even though i have taken time to explain to her as the cab driver,lack of communication is a strong impediment to our ability to understand each other.
10.Attraction: She is beautiful but i am no longer attracted to her charm.

@OP i am not here to derail your thread,i would have contributed something positive in response to your post if i had any but alas!!!!!! there is none.I hope i will not incur the wrath of P *U*S*S*Y R*I*O*T A*G*E*N*T*S and RELIGIOUS BELIEVERS (NOT GOD BELIEVERS)on NL.

the fact of the matter is u love her more than she loves u and she knows it n ur love, compassion or commitment will on d contrary invigorate ger arrogance. She needs a heartless approach. Any woman on earth no matter how heady can be tamed at least by me if d right conditions are appropriated

Not giving any room for distrust.

Money
intimacy
Hope