Gozzzy: A pagan will even be better than him,shun sentiment and check what i said.

PAGAN 9JA:
OP if the man is from your tribe, it doesnt matter whether hes christian or muslim, because it is your bloodline.

only tribe matters.

E.g., if a Yoruba muslim marries a Yoruba christian, who cares, as long as both revert to Ifa-Orisha.

redsun: To reject someone you have feelings for on that ground exposes your vulnerability.You are frail,confused,undecided and without actually knowing whaat is all about.

You deny yourself of personal happiness in the name of subjective beliefs that you dont understand.Who comes first?You or religion?

Grow up nigerians and overcome your problems.

solayemi: . Is jesus d son of God in d quran? What is d place of d trinity in d quran? As a christian i knw d bible does nt recognise muhamed. So we do nt worship dsame God.

Dawdy:
Jesus is not the son of God both in the Quran and the Bible, He was son of mary. As for prophet Muhammed (saw) recognition in the Bible, if u can't find it, that is ur limited exposure to the Bible.

bittyend:

Thank you! I'm a product of a marriage between a Christian, Muslim, and 'Traditional' families; it's the best of all 'worlds'.

Religion/belief system is just a form of mental slavery people need to rid themselves off.

Most Nigerians are still 200 years behind modern times, they're stuck in slavery and colonisation times.

Chrisbenogor: Yo,
Most people like to talk the talk but not walk the walk. It takes two and its a very very dangerous game if you are considering it, but like the best answer to almost all questions in the world "it depends".
It depends on you, what do you want for your kids? would you be also comfortable with him practicing his religion? Would you understand when he does not have to eat for the month of Ramadan? Would you be able to bear his friends and family who are muslims? Would you understand when he has to take wife number two?
It depends on him, what does he want for the kids? Would he be fine when you make Afang and Ekpang on a beautiful sunday in the Ramadan? Would he be fine when your pastor visits and says let us rise for prayers? Would he be fine with your kids saying the Lords prayer?

Religion is not easily separated from our day to day lives, when you get married you "marry" your lives together and then it takes a fine balancing act to make things work. Plus religion is one of those things were people tend to get "Damascus" Moments often, he might not want a second wife now but sooner or later he might "fall off his horse" see a shining light and want it. Same applies to you.

Remember, its not just talking the talk. Its walking the walk.

PAGAN 9JA:
^^^^^^^^^^^You are Yoruba yes

Chrisbenogor: Yo,
Most people like to talk the talk but not walk the walk. It takes two and its a very very dangerous game if you are considering it, but like the best answer to almost all questions in the world "it depends".
It depends on you, what do you want for your kids? would you be also comfortable with him practicing his religion? Would you understand when he does not have to eat for the month of Ramadan? Would you be able to bear his friends and family who are muslims? Would you understand when he has to take wife number two?
It depends on him, what does he want for the kids? Would he be fine when you make Afang and Ekpang on a beautiful sunday in the Ramadan? Would he be fine when your pastor visits and says let us rise for prayers? Would he be fine with your kids saying the Lords prayer?

Religion is not easily separated from our day to day lives, when you get married you "marry" your lives together and then it takes a fine balancing act to make things work. Plus religion is one of those things were people tend to get "Damascus" Moments often, he might not want a second wife now but sooner or later he might "fall off his horse" see a shining light and want it. Same applies to you.

Remember, its not just talking the talk. Its walking the walk.

toria1980:


what are u insinuating

toria1980: Dear Nairalanders,

My ex proposes to me, i refuse his marriage proposal because he is a Muslim.
in his words he said "i wont stop you from practicing your religion". but i refuse him, for two years now he is still beginning me to marry him

D-Explorer:
In a marriage between a Christian and a Muslim, one must convert the other. It now depends on who is letting go and if he does, you've got his family members to deal with. Now that's hell

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And you want me to believe this? please make me...

toria1980: Dear Nairalanders,

My ex proposes to me, i refuse his marriage proposal because he is a Muslim.
in his words he said "i wont stop you from practicing your religion". but i refuse him, for two years now he is still beginning me to marry him

Acidosis: Oh Lord Have Mercy!!

Okay, You dated a muslim, and He serviced you all through the relationship.

Now that he wants marriage, you answered NO.

Did you not think about your religion, while he was servicing you on the bed, while you were exchanging blood, water and feelings? Did your religion support all that? ?

Stop deceiving yourself woman, religion can't work for you, church is not meant for you.

So just go and marry him, stop this religious trash..

redsun: To reject someone you have feelings for on that ground exposes your vulnerability.You are frail,confused,undecided and without actually knowing whaat is all about.

You deny yourself of personal happiness in the name of subjective beliefs that you dont understand.Who comes first?You or religion?

Grow up nigerians and overcome your problems.

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And you want me to believe this? please make me...

bukatyne: so you think he's a bf material but not a marriage material! why should a christian date/marry a muslim in the first place yes, religion is a perfect reason why you should refuse a marriage proposal! read Amos 3:3 and 2 cor 6 : 14-18! if you claim to be a child of God, let the Holy Spirit lead you.

dartsidius7:

Exactly. Religions that you were born with.....