Goldieluks:
Six months courtship should be the maximum, of getting to know one's partner.

Acidosis:

can you really be that shortsighted? (I'm trying to be nice here. The word I was going to use was "st. upid" )

Next time: you don't correct 1 by insulting 100. It would save you some slaps on your face.

acidtalk:


DAMN!!! THAT'S HARSH.
Dont let those Kogi folks in here curse you oh!

Good Girl:
Really? You're sure 6 months should be the maximum time of getting to know someone?

Good Girl:
Really? You're sure 6 months should be the maximum time of getting to know someone?

acidtalk: When it comes to hearing people ho dated for several years (some up to 10years) with both the male and female's family members as well as friends all hoping and looking forward for the couples to tie the knot only for them to come up with tales of "incompatibility" issues and stories.

Stories of ladies (and sometimes guys) committing suicide due to breakup of relationship that lasted many several years only got ended when marriage talks where in progress.

The question is, why do so many years of courtship end up with excuses of incompatibility issues just before marriage.

If this people could date for years at what point did they decide they can't marry based on compatibility issues.

ayobase: And na the ladies dey suffer the consequences mostly.
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Why will a lady of 25yrs of age wanna court a guy for years without knowing where the train is going...Ladies could be funny sometimes....y aint the relationship defined in the first place.....guys are big time time-wasters.....they have nothing to lose as such....and after dating a guy for yrs, she is gonna go date another for yrs. Then tell me, when menopause no go catch up with her...no wonder some are always so desperate!
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Goldieluks don talk the koko thing!

AmBeautiful: Greed

190: I repeat never you date a lady after a year

I repeat Never you date a lady after a year - BREAK UP WITH HER

Someone roger that

hello . . hello is something!

someone roger!

Over

ayobase: And na the ladies dey suffer the consequences mostly.
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Why will a lady of 25yrs of age wanna court a guy for years without knowing where the train is going...Ladies could be funny sometimes....y aint the relationship defined in the first place.....guys are big time time-wasters.....they have nothing to lose as such....and after dating a guy for yrs, she is gonna go date another for yrs. Then tell me, when menopause no go catch up with her...no wonder some are always so desperate!
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Goldieluks don talk the koko thing!

ayobase: And na the ladies dey suffer the consequences mostly.
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Why will a lady of 25yrs of age wanna court a guy for years without knowing where the train is going...Ladies could be funny sometimes....y aint the relationship defined in the first place.....guys are big time time-wasters.....they have nothing to lose as such....and after dating a guy for yrs, she is gonna go date another for yrs. Then tell me, when menopause no go catch up with her...no wonder some are always so desperate!
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Goldieluks don talk the koko thing!

lagerwhenindoubt: My Wife and I courted for 6 years and still married for 4 years more.. so that makes it 10 years of being together.. this post is not well formed.
If you do not understand the dynamics of courtship/marriage please say so. You do not engage in courtship because you want it to end up in marriage, you do so because you need to understand your partner before you make a decision to be shag-partners or life-partners.. that is 6yrs of shagging which now comes free

Goldieluks:


Its entirely up to individual really. Three four months is enough for a person to know if they fit in or not. Some people go on a date with someone for the first time, and at that same minute, they are able to ascertain if the person is suitable or not. So I think six months is long enough.

acidtalk: I think 'responsible and caring men' are more used than women cry out to be used.

True, the societing frowns at divorce and divorce cases but so many people are dying gradually in the marriages because they are miserable in them.

I have seen a man who always celebrate with his friends whenever he is sent out on official assignment of of the country or state. He pulls strings in his office to be sent on long official duties outside his state so he can avoid his wife because in his words "he is just stuck in such a terrible union".

dubem3:
..........besides, Ayo,whats up?

lagerwhenindoubt: My Wife and I courted for 6 years and still married for 4 years more.. so that makes it 10 years of being together.. this post is not well formed.
If you do not understand the dynamics of courtship/marriage please say so. You do not engage in courtship because you want it to end up in marriage, you do so because you need to understand your partner before you make a decision to be shag-partners or life-partners.. that is 6yrs of shagging which now comes free

acidtalk:

When will you ever grow up and start contributing wisely.
Since you joining nairaland around 5years ago till date you keep getting sillier each day.

acidtalk:

When will you ever grow up and start contributing wisely.
Since you joining nairaland around 5years ago till date you keep getting sillier each day.

KINGwax: scroll to my username, take it home and ask everyone to slap your phonescreen! My sweetie is from kabba in kogi state, her english is manageable, but she's a graduate and so industrious! I repeat, your spoken english at this level judging by the fact dt u may study in a state where your fuckin governor don't give a fucck abt education is a plus. Accept it. It's a compliment

sexyshe: In the first place courtship should not be more than two year.A man knows after sixmonth if he will marry a woman or not.some men are time waster,they know deep within them they will never marry a lady but keep holdin on to the relationship because of free punny.ladies pls wise up don't court a man for more than two years ,its to your disadvantage cos of age factor,let him define the relationship from the scratch.be wise ladies.

~vicky~:

Long courtship equals long trouble