When entering into a relationship these days, is it avisable to enter fully with your whole heart and body or to lay low and play it safe?
For experienced minds only.....pls your thoughts.

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When entering into a relationship these days, is it avisable to enter fully with your whole heart and body or to lay low and play it safe?
For experienced minds only.....pls your thoughts.

how do you enter a relationship with your whole heart and body when you are still getting to know each other?

When getting to know someone I play safe, I take each day as it come. To me, loving completely @ the initial stage is like signing a heart break warrant. #lol just saying, but its really not advisable

U dont test d depth of a sea wit ur two legs else u may drown

If you wanna go in, you go in safe but once you are both sure of what you both want, you should dive in but have your senses working

Mynd_44: If you wanna go in, you go in safe but once you are both sure of what you both want, you should dive in but have your senses working

In other words, play safe throughout right?

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In other words, play safe throughout right?

Play safe. Safe here includes condoms right?

Ever wondered why they say "only fools fall in love"??

Mynd_44:
Play safe. Safe here includes condoms right?

lol, on second thoughts, it actually does

@op it depends on youur definition of playing it safe.

If its what I think, then i think its best you just be yourself .

Sometimes in playing it safe, you may beginning to act hard to get, or you may protray a non chalant and a bad attitude unknown to you and make the other party lose interest.

In my own opinion,just be yourself.

AmBeautiful: @op it depends on youur definition of playing it safe.

If its what I think, then i think its best you just be yourself .

Sometimes in playing it safe, you may beginning to act hard to get, or you may protray a non chalant and a bad attitude unknown to you and make the other party lose interest.

In my own opinion,just be yourself.

I was refering to a situation when one is already in a relationship; should one fall into it completely or play it safe?

In very simply words, Play it safe. It's never been a happy ending giving everything to a relationship. People will always take advantage of your sincerity and love. A broken heart is never mended. It's never easy to let go of the past, its always better to manage the present properly so you don't have to deal with issues of letting go of the past. They ONLY person you can trust is YOU so I say save a little blood for ur heart.

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lol, on second thoughts, it actually does

That's better

he be like say them never crush your heart before abi.. play safe noni my guy

tobechi74: U dont test d depth of a sea wit ur two legs else u may drown

These days na wood them take dey know the depth of a river gon sef

tobechi74: U dont test d depth of a sea wit ur two legs else u may drown

Not if you know what to do in the sea... @topic If i was attracted by the girls asset,(body)i do enter the relationship with her all heartdly cos i had a plan(fhuck and go). But if was attracted to the girl by her intelligency or other additional quality, i did lay low.

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I was refering to a situation when one is already in a relationship; should one fall into it completely or play it safe?

In that case depends on the person involved, your plans for the person you are in a relationship with and the person's attitude.

But then I still insist you be yourself, but having all the above in mind, apply wisdom seriously.

My reason is this, what if the person you are in a relationship with is the kind of person who will put her best and all in your relationship, don't you think playing safe will make you do some things that will send a wrong signal to her?

But if she is scatter scatter person, playing it safe would be wise.

That's my take.