RECENTLY MY WIFE RAN OUT WITH THE CHILDREN TO PARENT SIDE TO STAY THAT EVERY LOVE MAKING MUST LEAD TO PREG. WHAT SHOULD I DO TO STOP THIS PREG. ALL THE TIME. WE GOT MARRIED FOUR YEARS AGO WE HAVE 2 KIDS AND ABORTED THREE PREG ALREADY.

PLEASE YOUR ADVISE AND RECOMMENDATIONS

Don't you know about birth controls . . . Is this for real

Why not try a condom or birth control. Or both of you go for a class and understand conception. it just so happens that you are both very fertile people. Who is pushing the woman to have an abortion?

Hey,
seems Seun will have to start screening new threads before they are published on nairaland(maybe we could develop a program that can do the screening if it is possible).

See question,you didnt do sex education or birth control in school

k2039: Hey,
seems Seun will have to start screening new threads before they are published on nairaland(maybe we could develop a program that can do the screening if it is possible).

See question,you didnt do sex education or birth control in school

Na wa ooo!!

I had to remind myself that we are in 2012 and not 1712 or something or other.

Kobojunkie:

Na wa ooo!!

I had to remind myself that we are in 2012 and not 1712 or something or other.

Infact he is not suppose to be married yet

Grabs popcorn and coke**

johnokoro007: RECENTLY MY WIFE RAN OUT WITH THE CHILDREN TO PARENT SIDE TO STAY THAT EVERY LOVE MAKING MUST LEAD TO PREG. WHAT SHOULD I DO TO STOP THIS PREG. ALL THE TIME. WE GOT MARRIED FOUR YEARS AGO WE HAVE 2 KIDS AND ABORTED THREE PREG ALREADY.

PLEASE YOUR ADVISE AND RECOMMENDATIONS

Do you want us to beg her to come back??

If so, madam pls come back so oga can drill you for a fourth abortion.

Ujujoan:

Don't you know about birth controls . . . Is this for real

I wonder o...

Please go ahead, stand on your budget and don't let anyone force you to spend more than you planned to spend

Debrief, u just posted this on the wrong thread. I'm sure it's meant for a thread about a guy that wants to get married.

debrief08: Please go ahead, stand on your budget and don't let anyone force you to spend more than you planned to spend

Tgirl4real: Debrief, u just posted this on the wrong thread. I'm sure it's meant for a thread about a guy that wants to get married.

chaircover:

aunty debrief I have a spare pair of +1.0 spectacles that I can lend you. They are not prada's but they will do the job nicely

Hahahaaa, Old age don come oh, sorry Poster wrong thread

Poster you and your wife should discuss with a doctor on the best birth control measure to use.

This life is just so funny.. Your woman is fruitful and blessed, I wish every woman is as blessed as yours.. Do you know why I say this life is funny? Because many are out there crying day and night looking on to God for fruit of the womb but there are also many out there that are so furtunate to the point of wasting..

Haba Poster, do you want to kill the poor woman? I'm sure she ran out of the house because you don't take No for an answer whenever you're in the mood... Go for family planning counselling Bro before your high libido will send somebody to an early grave.

Now that the madam is gone, Hope you wont make the mattress pregnant cos e be like say action full your body.

You can come on NL but dont know about birth controls? Get pills or IUD or go to the nearest Planned parenthood

Isn't this op johndoe

^^ I would not put it past that billy goat.

Thanks to all of you for your contribution, but you guys don't need to CRUCIFY me. Though, I called last nite she said i should get a mistress that apart from preg. that my cruzin is too much for her to withstand.

please more recommendations are welcome

johnokoro007: Thanks to all of you for your contribution, but you guys don't need to CRUCIFY me. Though, I called last nite she said i should get a mistress that apart from preg. that my cruzin is too much for her to withstand.

please more recommendations are welcome

Help me oooo. Am married with a child my husband is 39yrs old. He refused to work, am the only one carry the responsibility @ home. Whenever i told him to find work he will turn me down that he cannot do any work here in Nigeria if not abroad. I have spent a lot on this issue but no way for visa. What can I do pls cos @ his age his still planning for study undergraduate in USA. Which I know it can work without SAT/TOFEL. Now I told him I can spend on that again he should go & find a way to process the visa himself, for this reason I have become his enemies reporting me to his mother that am not ready to spend money for him again.Pls how can I handle this situation help me out oooo

jidebobo: Help me oooo. Am married with a child my husband is 39yrs old. He refused to work, am the only one carry the responsibility @ home. Whenever i told him to find work he will turn me down that he cannot do any work here in Nigeria if not abroad. I have spent a lot on this issue but no way for visa. What can I do pls cos @ his age his still planning for study undergraduate in USA. Which I know it can work without SAT/TOFEL. Now I told him I can spend on that again he should go & find a way to process the visa himself, for this reason I have become his enemies reporting me to his mother that am not ready to spend money for him again.Pls how can I handle this situation help me out oooo

Haba! Didn't u know all these before marrying him? Why did you marry a jobless lazy man?

jidebobo: Help me oooo. Am married with a child my husband is 39yrs old. He refused to work, am the only one carry the responsibility @ home. Whenever i told him to find work he will turn me down that he cannot do any work here in Nigeria if not abroad. I have spent a lot on this issue but no way for visa. What can I do pls cos @ his age his still planning for study undergraduate in USA. Which I know it can work without SAT/TOFEL. Now I told him I can spend on that again he should go & find a way to process the visa himself, for this reason I have become his enemies reporting me to his mother that am not ready to spend money for him again.Pls how can I handle this situation help me out oooo

I think you are right in telling him to work so he can get money for his visa. I don't see anything wrong with having him start an undergrad at this age but he needs to realize that he is not a young man and needs to help out somehow.
That said, may I suggest you find a pastor/professional counselor for you and your husband to see and maybe talk to. It is obvious he does not seem to be getting the message at all, and I don't think you continuing to talk to him about the needs will help much. But getting a third party who can bring you both together to talk things out will be a good way to go. Preferably, find a counselor/Pastor far away from your lives/your homes so you two don't have to worry about your issues getting out in the open, and are comfortable enough to speak up about your issues.

@ jidebobo : Jesus take the wheel.

jennykadry: Isn't this op johndoe

Kobojunkie: ^^ I would not put it past that billy goat.

I love it when I inhabit the dreams of women. It is just my luck that it had to be the dreams of 2 insane t0t0s.