A former female colleague of mine who's husband was a chronic womanizer told me how she changed him. The man's case was so bad that he would sometimes have his girl friend in the car when he goes to pick his wife and kids from church. She even moved out of the house a few times yet the man kept cheating.

I met her recently and she was cruising in this lovely Ranger rover Autobiography. She was looking so happy, this was a woman that was perpetually sad and was even begining to age. I had to ask her wussup? How oga and d kids? It was then she revealed to me that her hubby bought her this car and even now attends social functions with her. He is always at home now and most times takes her and the kids out for shopping, visiting, holidays etc.

I had to ask her the secret, that is when she told me hw she managed to finally change him by.

1. Ignoring him---she stopped complaining even when he doesn't come home for days.
2. She never denied him sex even with his cheating habit though she insisted on protection which the man always obliged.
3. She kept his room and clothes clean and always prepared his meals.

According to her, the husband called her one day and asked why she pretends not to notice his womanizing anymore. She told him that it doesn't bother her again as long as she is the one officially married to him. Few days later she started noticing a chane.

My reason for this narration is to encourage women who have husbands that are dogs to try out this method. Sometimes men hate being challanged and may want to teach the wife a lesson. If itcan work for her it can work for others.

Very very nice.. I realy hope and pray that all of the women on this forum learn from this and for thoes going tru same with hubby learn that divorce isnt the way out. I wish every woman a very happy and fufilled home....

Tufiakwaaa all you cursed souls . Are you talking about an adult or a child?

May God deliver you all from this archaic low self esteem spirit in Jesus name

jennykadry: Tufiakwaaa all you cursed souls . Are you talks about an adult or a child?

May God deliver you all from this archaic low self esteem spirit in Jesus name

Lol.....

Oh really? Okay.

Is the man a child or an adult? May low self esteem not kill people

The number of hidden posts tells it's own story. The rest of the children and mad femi nazis will soon be here to lecture us on why the woman in the story is:
a. Mad
b. Suffering from low self esteem.
c. Under a spell cast by the man's mother
d. All the above

Reh reh reh!

Let me help you:

taryour: Very very nice.. I realy hope and pray that all of the women on this forum learn from this and for thoes going tru same with hubby learn that divorce isnt the ONLY way out. I wish every woman a very happy and fufilled home....

It is the only way out in some situation

lol
In summary "suffer in silence" shey?
Things women do just to stay married..
Besides,that it worked for her doesn't mean it'll work for others..
The man's escapades could even become worse on the long run..especially since his wife is fully supportive and cooperative...
Similar strategies do not necessarily work for similar situations.

hehe ehh ehe please my wife needs some convincing let a dawg like me on a long leash.. you are asking for trouble

Bwahahahaha

The guy changed because he got bored of cheating, you can't change anyone..

It has to come from the person, not you..

she neva jam real dog>>>>>
ignore him, u'll becim d 6th wife

The fcat that it worked for her doesn't mean it will work for everyone else. If i'm the cheating guy and my wife stops complaining and noticing that i'm carrying different women, i'll start bringing them into my matrimonial room when my wife is around. I will even bang the girl in front of my wife. This kain hall pass get as e be.

armyofone: Let me help you:



It is the only way out in some situation

verry funny. Did u realy have to modify my post to give your on opinion Anyway have fun....

all this wan na story

So, if i understand you, a woman that is being cheated on should just ignore it as long as na she be madam? That the husband will then tire of his philandeering ways and become the loving husband he once was? Okay.

I forsee so many hidden posts on this thread

There is another way o,magum.... 95% women can't do this,and am being objective

I guess dogs are loyal after all

shymexx: Bwahahahaha

The guy changed because he got bored of cheating, you can't change anyone..

It has to come from the person, not you..

Thank you. I seriously don't know how some people think.

Wow, so this is how to get a Range Rover and see me here dey work like monkey, add begging on top.
Madam Tayour, am sure I am one of those who you "hope will learn from this post". Go through my posts, over 200, of the many advice I have given please how many times have I said "divorce"?
It is sad that because a few people say No to the status quo, of "pray, fast and die in silence", the fact that I divorced doesn't mean I see it as the only solution, it means I said no to a bad situation and found a way out, and it is wicked to tell women there is only one way or even men and that way sometimes leads to death because they have been lied to and scared off.
Before I go further and before you and the others pounce on me, in my 200 posts and more, compare and contrast how many advice I have given women and distress and how many times I actually said "divorce"
Afam4ever, very true, I did the ignore thing and that's exactly what happened, I did get an Mclass jeep though

Change is constant,
anyone can change,
but not everyone would change
and you just cannot change anyone.

it is only in Nigeria where the success of a marriage depends totally on the wife. And why do people think the success and the failure of a marriage depends on the wives?

The man only changed the rules and improved his timing..nonsense.For women with cheating husband..may be this can work,give it a try,since you are expected to keep you man focus.

jennykadry: Oh really? Okay.

Is the man a child or an adult? May low self esteem not kill people

where exactly does a low esteem comes in here?

Aqva: A former female colleague of mine who's husband was a chronic womanizer told me how she changed him. The man's case was so bad that he would sometimes have his girl friend in the car when he goes to pick his wife and kids from church. She even moved out of the house a few times yet the man kept cheating.

I met her recently and she was cruising in this lovely Ranger rover Autobiography. She was looking so happy, this was a woman that was perpetually sad and was even begining to age. I had to ask her wussup? How oga and d kids? It was then she revealed to me that her hubby bought her this car and even now attends social functions with her. He is always at home now and most times takes her and the kids out for shopping, visiting, holidays etc.

I had to ask her the secret, that is when she told me hw she managed to finally change him by.

1. Ignoring him---she stopped complaining even when he doesn't come home for days.
2. She never denied him sex even with his cheating habit though she insisted on protection which the man always obliged.
3. She kept his room and clothes clean and always prepared his meals.

According to her, the husband called her one day and asked why she pretends not to notice his womanizing anymore. She told him that it doesn't bother her again as long as she is the one officially married to him. Few days later she started noticing a chane.

My reason for this narration is to encourage women who have husbands that are dogs to try out this method. Sometimes men hate being challanged and may want to teach the wife a lesson. If itcan work for her it can work for others.

Stories that Touch.. If juju no involve, man no fit stop to cheat!

blank: So, if i understand you, a woman that is being cheated on should just ignore it as long as na she be madam? That the husband will then tire of his philandeering ways and become the loving husband he once was? Okay.

something tell me you wont act that way !! Abi.

jennykadry: Oh really? Okay.

Is the man a child or an adult? May low self esteem not kill people

I hope you are learning the best way to tame me?

Just ignore my womanising. Even when I am about to leave the house make sure you are the one that sprays perfume on me and hand me a few condoms.

If the girl no gree open, I will call you and you will sweet talk her to open legs.

When I get to know girl well, you will be the one that should drive and pick her up and bring her for me to fire in our matrimonial bed while you share a bunk with the kids.

Be a REAL WOMAN!

blank: So, if i understand you, a woman that is being cheated on should just ignore it as long as na she be madam? That the husband will then tire of his philandeering ways and become the loving husband he once was? Okay.

something tells me you wont act that way !! Abi.

Aqva: The man's case was so bad that he would sometimes have his girl friend in the car when he goes to pick his wife and kids from church.

Yes, divorce should not b a first option but why would any sane man who took his time to sign dotted lines do this? Matter of fact, the tone of this post sounds sexist "may want to teach the wife a lesson" - what useless lesson is this

She did not change him, he bought her.