dwas:

I know its a difficult situation irrespective of who is involve, however if a woman is a serial cheat, the man should keep loving her. Fighting her will only worsen the situation. I paused for a while, can I cope really with such a woman? hmmm!!! I pray that I should never experience such. Nevertheless, you can never tell what your action could be except you experience it. Until our confessions and faith is tested, we can never be too certain of our true person.

Like I said earlier, I will focus on God and continue to love her, though my current faith on this is not completely tested.

blaise26.abj:



@ fellis: Please try to deeply understand what he is saying. take time to digest it. He just spoke with a lot of depth. There are families that run against the societal standards and they do fine. Cheating is wrong and should be condemned. But the fact still remains that the society has a standard expected of you based on gender as well as passes for misconduct. It is like an unwritten law culled from the way a particular society evolved.with ur statement that Woe betides the marriage of a woman whose husband is really in love with another woman.

lurkee: I reject men that agree with the OP from my life and that of my sisters'. Eek. The look away mentality cannot work for me. There is massive difference between a mistake and a deliberate act of repetitive cheating.

I will always choose being a single mother than to be wife of a serial cheater.

You cannot change someone like others have mentioned, the woman has learnt to cope for herself but she should keep her rotten advice to herself. It will not encourage any healthy marriage.

lorretta u: If I say what's on my mind now,I'm very sure I'll get banned.stuff like this only infuriates me the more.
Like seriously?
Wife and girlfriend in the same vehicle
I wonder what the introduction will be like
Wife;hi I'm mrs .... This maga's wife
Girl;hello I'm sandra his girlfriend
Wife;ok I can see u r with him tonight
Girl;yes,he just took me shopping
Wife;ok dear.pls take care of him 2nyt
Gilr;I will.I'll wear the red VS panties he bought me tonight
Wife;sharp girl.ok u guyz take care.
Honey see u tomorrow.I love u.

ROTFL.who the hell cooked up this BS story.mtchew.I'm sure this post didn't happen.if it did,well I'm sure the woman didn't love him.was only there for what she could get(and yea she got it)
Truthfully,no one can watch the person they love getting down with someone else.
So gentlemen if u want a wife who loves you,then be reaDy to deal with a wife who won't tolerate cheating
LIKE ME.

fellis:
Well, as you can see from the replies, many men actually believe the story is true and they support the wife's actions.
Nigerian men theory of how to deal with a chronic cheater = let your husband cheat as much as he wants, don't disturb him but be a good submissive wife. One day when he gets too old to cheat comes back to his senses, he will ask your forgiveness.

Sophyrocks: Hehehehehe. Im absolutely sure that this woman is getting her freak on somewhere else. Nigerian Men are sooooooooo gullible to think their ever loving submissive wives are not cheating on them. hahahahahahahaha. So stupid. 'When he cheats, just keep quiet, pray for him, he will change'. Lol. Who told u she is doing that?? U men are soooooooo gullible . chai! If u know the rate at which married women cheat these days ehn. This culture of telling women to bear and endure has caused a lot of chaos and cheating all over the place. is it because they are not showing it all to your faces Make una dey there dey deceive una selves o.k. I bet if u follow your wives every move, u will see something u dnt like oooooo. Nigerian women have found a new way to cope with una cheating ways o. No dulling!! Just check out the high demand for sugar mummies. This is the 21st century. Keep deceiving yourselves o.k. maybe that will keep women cheating ways more secret. So Ride On!

Sagamite:

Oh, come on, shut up!

Your scare tactics does not work.

Sophyrocks:
Are u stupid or something?? Scare tactics wetin?? Did u say scare tactics?? hahahaha. Its already happening right under your nose. U guys dnt wanna admit it. Real Self denial u are swimming in!! Even some of your fellow married men are finding married women more attractive and safer to cheat with because they feel married women know how to keep secrets to their graves. have u talked with married men that have opened up about this?? I guess NO. check out work places. everywhere u go. But well, it has to remain that way so it remains underground. #wickedlaughs# Women, make una Ride on biko. After all, we've got the PHD in Pretence and we've got to keep making the men look bad while the women look Good right?. buhahahhaha. All in all, Cheating is wrong irrespective of the sex. Once u start it, be ready for the consequences. What goes around comes around.

tatiana009:
lmao, people should continue deceiving themselves. Truth is most of the women who ignore their husband's cheating have simply also joined the game. What is she complaining about when she's getting hers too

slimyem:
lol
In summary "suffer in silence" shey?
Things women do just to stay married..
Besides,that it worked for her doesn't mean it'll work for others..
The man's escapades could even become worse on the long run..especially since his wife is fully supportive and cooperative...
Similar strategies do not necessarily work for similar situations.

tatiana009:
lmao, people should continue deceiving themselves. Truth is most of the women who ignore their husband's cheating have simply also joined the game. What is she complaining about when she's getting hers too