As at 2011 i was 21yrs old. I met my 1st girl frend in my former school wen i paid my male frend a visit. This lady was so nice & one thing dat derive pple's attention 2wards her was her pretty, dark long hair. I was lucky 2 have won her heart but d question here is: she dnt like visiting me wen am all alone in d house; and d 1st time i was fortunate 2 have her wit myself alone she complain "is not good 2 have sex on d 1st date". Pls am so priapic!!!!

Then the girl is a who*re

U mean she was wrong?

U mean she was wrong 4 saying dat?

Why do you want to be intimate if you don't want to marry her?

First day, second day - respect her wishes.

Why not if not once the opportunity provide itself...

@OP;
It really depends on knowing what you think is right and good for you. I don't think that should bothers you, there are girls who are reserved in a way and maybe she is one of those calibre of girls,if she had succumbed to your initiation won't you think otherwise of her, maybe taking her for just anyhow girl? Perhaps she wants to present herself in a good way to you by resisting and telling you it's not polite thing to do on the first date. And another thing, she might want to present herself to you as a good and morally conscious lady reason for her avoiding visiting whenever you are alone indoor.

Besides don't tell me it's a must for you to get intimate with her, if you really and truly loves her that shouldn't be your priority for now instead work on how to nurture and build the newly found love and makes it grow except if only you aren't in for the serious deal. When there is true love, you can wait for her months or years as the case maybe before she allows you to get intimate with her, but it all depends on her also, if she is really a reserved girl or not.

No means no.
If she agrees then no problems.
Allow the sex-starved, disease-infested HOLY NWENJES to fast and pray on your behalves.
What ever happens between 2 consenting adults is no body's bloody business!