Hi fellows, I need ur candid opinion as regards the problem am having with a lady I've been dating for about for four years now.I truly love her and to the best of my knowledge,she loves me too. Our relationship is a distant one, we're in different universities in the South-West. Recently, she developed an '' I don't care attitude''. We always had our ways to argue and resolve issues. Then she complains about me not caring and often told her friend that she needs my attention. This is a girl I call almost every 3 hours depending on my schedule. Just yesterday, we had an arguement and I asked her if she wants to quit, her response was she's ready to leave or stay. I was confused and asked her again today if she's going to cut her excesses for peace to reign, she said she can't change for the better because she is not doing any wrong. Also, she hardly appreciates my efforts and everything am doing to make her comfortable. Please I need your advice.

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She is done with you,I know you know that,am just wondering why you still asking us.

You expecting us to tell you she still loves you,just to console yourself.


Abeg forget the girl,why be in a relationship that doesnt make you happy.
Expecting her to change would not only be slightly crazy, but it would leave you disappointed for the rest of your
life

Their are thousands of ladies who are better than her.

[size=18pt]MOVE ON[/size]

Sometimes, its benefiticial to seperate so either parties can sort out themselves.
If it makes sense again, to come together then so be it.

@ OP: she finds you boring. She wants to move on. Pls let her go. You will find someone else.