Dear readers,

Some happenings are just incomprehensible. Would you blame the teenage girl who allowed her stepfather take her out? Or the man who decided to sleep with mother and daughter?

She needs your help. 


Dear nairaland frnds,

Please, help me out. I never knew the trouble I was getting myself into when this  issue started. If I knew it was going to end up this way I would have confided in someone or my mother before I agreed to do what ‘daddy’ - my stepfather asked of me.

I thought he liked me and wanted me to have fun I did not realise he was going to put me in trouble. I am 18, a 200 level undergraduate in one of the state owned universities. When I was in senior secondary school three, my mother who had been taking care of my younger brother and I as a single mother met and eventually married another man and because he took us like his own children it was not difficult for us to call him ‘daddy’.

When I gained admission into the university, he paid all my fees and made sure that I got a very good accommodation. He also made it a point of duty to visit me regularly and whenever he came on visit he would give me enough money; even more than I needed.

Initially, whenever he came I would call my mother to tell her so that she would know that daddy came to see me. But he told me to stop telling my mother as it was his duty.

When I passed into 200 levels he started coming to see me in company of his friends and they would sometimes take my friends and I out. Later, ‘daddy’ started dating one of my friends. I saw no reason to tell mum because I felt what she does not know would not hurt her.

Later one of daddy’s friends who was a regular visitor with him asked me out. I refused, but daddy said there was nothing strange in it and that he would not stand and watch his friend mess me up. He stated that it was better for me to date his friend who would take care of me instead of dating boys of my age who would mess me up.

I agreed because I trusted and believed him. One evening, daddy came alone to school and picked me and my friends to a party which was supposed to hold in another town. His friend who was my boyfriend was not there. When I asked after him daddy said he would join us. It was an all night party, so we checked into a hotel. Daddy came and gave me a drink and he asked me if I had a boyfriend and if I have had sex before, I told him I had a boyfriend in my 100 level, but that I was still a virgin.

He did not say anything; he left for his room where my friend was with him. He came back later to give me a drink. I took it and didn’t know when or how I slept off. I however woke up, and saw dad naked beside me. The reality dawned on me, daddy had deflowered me. I started crying, this woke him up. He pleaded with me and said it was better if he deflowered me instead of his friend. I felt bad, but I couldn’t tell anybody.

That was how daddy and his friend started having sex with me. I however did not know how my friend who was dating daddy got to know. She started making a fuss about it. She told some of our other classmates and it became a scandal in school.

One of my cousins who is in my school heard about the issue and instead of asking me, she went to tell my mother. I don’t know what to tell her, she asked me to come home but I cannot go. Daddy said I should deny everything. Can I really deny it in my mother’s presence? Apart from this, I am facing serious stigmatisation in school. If I could go home, I would have left the school, but I can’t go home too. I realise that what I got myself involved in was very wrong. as if that was not enough, when I told daddy that I don’t want to sleep with or go out with him and his friends again, he also hanged to me. Please, I don’t know what to do. I want to go back to my mum, I don’t know what to do or how to go to her. Please, help me

Is better you go back †̥☹ ur mum, confess A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ plead with her †̥☹ forgive u dat u don't kw dat it will turn out †̥☹ be like dat, even if ur dad said dat he will nt pay ur school fees again is better u tell her A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ stop d act. S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴͡ dat u will have clear consience before God A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ man. When one road closes another will open.

Tell mummy. Refuse cash gifts and the likes from daddy and his friends.You made a mistake its not the end of the world. Forgive yourself and grow up. Be wise. If such a mistake reoccurs again then you my friend become a slut.

Mummy will be disappointed. She may be able to forgive you and she may not. You are an adult and should have known better but its all happened already. Take responsibility for your actions and forgive yourself,learn from the experience

i wonder when i'll start reading a different version of these kinda stories on NL.

Well structured essay to divert attention from d mmoron dat u are

If he didn't see u as gullible...ok, but if it didn't turn a scandal and ur mother heard, u wld hv continued to chop & clean mouth? Oh ok, until there was pregnancy then u'd come to NLers to confess and offer u penance.

18yr olds no dey fear again o

Go to ur mom, deny it. Go back to him&his friend, when u get pregnant since u won't know d true owner abort it. as per happening 'big girl' he'll buy u a car in 300l, d two friend will fight because of u, still go back to both friends, fck both in a orrgy.enjoy urself and catch fun! when ur luscious breasts are offered to d gods as sacrifice, I hope ur ghost will be here on NL for d appropriate advice on how to kill them.

A simple movie script

@Op ,are u for real? If u were not caught, would u be here asking for advice? Sometime in life, we should be brave enough to face †ђξ consequences of our actions.this is yours ,face it.

I thought you were pregnant. because most girls become remorse after pregnancy. Well I don't know how true this story is because we've been hearing several like this.
If its true, avoid your step father. If things become worse, tell your mother. In the firts place why did your mum divorce your father?

there's no patching up this mess dear. u just have to go to ur mum tell her the truth & seek her 4giveness so u can come clean!
mind u, dont go alone. go first to ur pastor, or an elder ur mum respects. let them lead u to ur mum to begin d healing process.

This issue is becoming rampant nowadays, single mothers in a relationship or that remarried owe it to their children to see that their fr*aking randy spouse do not get on with their children too. WTFr*ak, it incenses me to hear about men sleeping with their step children because it happens if the woman involved is careless and do not look out for her children.

Yeah, she has to return to her mother and stop the rubbish with her step father that is if her mother is still interested in staying married to a pervert. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeew

@ Op u made a terrible mistake bt thank ur star u are nt pregnant, just go to ur mum and tell her everything and pray she forgives u o

She doesn't need our help, she needs to take responsibility for her actions...

Miss tennage girl, don't deceive ursf by tinkin "daddy" coerced u into dis,he raped u nd for dat he is a monster but sleeping wit daddy nd his friend? Betraying mum? Bein sluttier Dan a slut? Dat was all u!! U consciously decided to ve fun at d expense of ur mum nd ur dignity! I knw cz I read ur story twice, I even read in between d lines nd I didn't get d vibe dat u were forced or dat it's an aftermath of d rape.

Dad didn't threaten to stop payin ur fees, he simply wooed u nd u fell yakata! U ve always wanted to live a bad life nd now u ve. I mean wt kind of a girl knows d dad is datin her friend nd sees nothin wrong in it?

U ve no moral code, u r loose and wanton, u just saw an opportunity and utilized it... Nd don't tink u deserve pity cz u r 18.u r an adult, at wt age do u tink a person is expected to diffrentiate be gud and bad??

U r guilty of all sorts of sins/ offences and u should bear d consequences. Stay put in dat sch nd remain d laughing stock.perhaps d stigma ll make u tink twice b4 committing anoda atrocity. And if u r sorry 4 ur past deeds, u should start by tellin ur mum d truth. U owe her dat much, den pls zip up but if u can't look 4 single guys in ur age range, don't go abt wrecking homes and causin tears

U should grow up cz nobody ll clean up after u. We can pity u all we want but karma dosent give a fuc.k abt u, dats y she is a bitc.h

U didt see anytin wrong with ur stepdad chasing ur friend,even after u slept with him d first time,u still continue doing him and his friend till it became public knowledge,U r d DUMBEST 18years old,just go and Jump into d third mainland bridge.

gree-die:
She doesn't need our help, she needs to take responsibility for her actions...

Miss tennage girl, don't deceive ursf by tinkin "daddy" coerced u into dis,he raped u nd for dat he is a monster but sleeping wit daddy nd his friend? Betraying mum? Bein sluttier Dan a slut? Dat was all u!! U consciously decided to ve fun at d expense of ur mum nd ur dignity! I knw cz I read ur story twice, I even read in between d lines nd I didn't get d vibe dat u were forced or dat it's an aftermath of d rape.

Dad didn't threaten to stop payin ur fees, he simply wooed u nd u fell yakata! U ve always wanted to live a bad life nd now u ve. I mean wt kind of a girl knows d dad is datin her friend nd sees nothin wrong in it?

U ve no moral code, u r loose and wanton, u just saw an opportunity and utilized it... Nd don't tink u deserve pity cz u r 18.u r an adult, at wt age do u tink a person is expected to diffrentiate be gud and bad??

U r guilty of all sorts of sins/ offences and u should bear d consequences. Stay put in dat sch nd remain d laughing stock.perhaps d stigma ll make u tink twice b4 committing anoda atrocity. And if u r sorry 4 ur past deeds, u should start by tellin ur mum d truth. U owe her dat much, den pls zip up but if u can't look 4 single guys in ur age range, don't go abt wrecking homes and causin tears

U should grow up cz nobody ll clean up after u. We can pity u all we want but karma dosent give a fuc.k abt u, dats y she is a bitc.h

Datz quite a lump sum of hard nuts....

I greee...die!..

U r a Galilean Fool, a Jacobian Idiot and a complex Mumu...u dont need help cos u hav already help urself....u hav to pay for ur action and pray u find a good partner in the future .....#WatAyoungIdiota

Sorry girl

Sorry girl