Im really in love with a gal, but she said she has a boyfriend and at the same time she cant let go of me, and pleaded for us to be friends but till the extent of her calling me everyday and night to know how im coping with the day.
My fellow Nairalanders can i go into this mess or eliminate it?

Shady2009:

I'm really in love with a girl, but she said she has a boyfriend and at the same time she can't let go of me, and pleaded for us to be friends but till the extent of her calling me everyday and night to know how im coping with the day.
My fellow Nairalanders can i go into this mess or eliminate it?

mess you called it,and mess wud it be !
the choice is yours,dude.
you wud either go into this your mess and get messed up or you leave the mess alone.
whatever you decide,goodluck.

can i go into this mess or eliminate it?

Mess Indeed!!! as you called it. WHY NOT STOP THAT MESS WITH SATAN.  YOU NEED JESUS OR YOU PERISH IN YOUR MESS.  [b]BE WARNED YOUR IN DANGER!!![/[/b]color]
                                                             
                                                                  [color=#990000][b][b]THE CHOICE IS YOURS[/[/b]b]!

May kelly:

can i go into this mess or eliminate it?

Mess Indeed!!! as you called it. WHY NOT STOP THAT MESS WITH SATAN. YOU NEED JESUS OR YOU PERISH IN YOUR MESS. [b]BE WARNED YOUR IN DANGER!!![/[/b]color]

[color=#990000][b][b]THE CHOICE IS YOURS[/[/b]b]!

He only asked for an advice, not accusation or judgment.

when would some Christians ever learn that you don't bring people to Christ, or advice people about turning to Christ by judging them. i have not seen where in the Bible it says you use force or harshness to preach the Word.

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You know she's already in a relationship. the best thing is do not go into it. sometimes before you take a decision you weigh that decision and try to fit yourself into another person's shoes. what goes around definitely comes around. Karma.

ThoniaSlim please don't take it personal. You know that sin is sin. Gone are the days you beg people to turn to Christ. He already called it a Mess. So therefore he knows it was a mess! And you, you will not say that at his age he does not understand the different b/w good and bad. I haven't judge him.
                                                             COMMON CALL A SPADE A SPADE,

Am taking nothing personally. but just telling you how it is. your statement was clearly judgmental. and am saying again you do not preach to people by being harsh or being so judgmental. thats it.

Not into someone who has already in relationship with someone else while dating you that is called TRIANGLE LOVE lead you more trouble/wahala later!

Wish you the best luck whatever you decide getting into mess or stay out of the mess!!

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If u love her, nothing on earth should stop u. The guy will understand that u love her better than he does

If you had thought about that post for a second, you would probably have adviced yourself.

Its as simple as ABC, any one that cannot see your true worth and be able to make a clear cut decision about whether they want you or not IS NOT EXACTLY WORTH IT.

There is a fine line between love and stupidity and you my dear friend are bordering on St****