Mynd_44:
I swear you get time

candieangel12: I didnt sleep with my ex. We just kissed and touched each other. I need advice on how 2 tell this 2 my current bf because I feel he shud kno wat I did eventho I didnt hve se.x. if ppl r here 2 judge me n not offer advice then 4get it. Ill just go 2 a different website wit less judgemental ppl. Thank you!

Shollypopz: Don't mind Mynd and the rest....

Just tell ur current bf u want to see him and honestly confess what had happened and previous occurrences that might help him understand the situation better. He might choose to stay with u, don't break up with him yet. Just tell him what happened and hold nothing back, maybe he'll forgive u and look past it.

Don4life:
u kissing nd touching ur ex i dont see that as cheating o ...2 me

Konnektions146:
Sholly,
yuu think yu are helpi a sis huh?

she go fall yur hand patapata.
i wonder wen she will quit be over dramatic.

OP,
if u like, change, if u like, dont......na yur biz
BTW, y aint u sleepin cos u should be in bed now otondo

mtcheeew

candieangel12:

Well to my boyfriend it is...and its safe to say that after I told him, he dumped me

Don4life:
dts badt.....bt not 2 worry sha am here 4 u

candieangel12:

Please whats your own? If u r here 2 talk nonsense den b a big boy n leave this thread jare.

candieangel12: Well me n my ex broke up early this year after dating 4 1yr. Me n my current bf started dating 2weeks ago. Yesterday night my ex came over 2 my apartment 2 hang out n just gist, before he left we ended up being intimate. I feel so horrible about the act. Everytime me n my ex r 2geda we end up being intimate with each other eventho we have been broken up for about 6months now. I thought me being in a new relationship wud keep me n my ex from being intimate but as you can see it didn't work. We didn't have interrcourse this time but we did other things... I know I commited an atrocity and I know that I have to tell my bf and probably break up wit him because I dont deserve his love but how do I tell him I cheated n end our relationship. I feel so damn guilty n terrible. Pls dont judge me, I have been judgin myself since this happened n I feel like an a.s.s. My ex is the first guy I've had womanly sex with and this is the first time I've cheated on any guy b4. I made a horrible mistake and now I dont know how to tell my bf and break up wit him

FarWatcher:

There is a Universal principle that holds true!
The law of entrophy: Nothing is perfect, the same always, constant at all times and in all regions. (Therefore, you did a terrible thing -we understand that. However, you are in the NOW!!! Make it clear to yourself that you will not go back to the past again. you can't change your past but you can affect your future. Stand firm and ask the powers that be to forgive you. Then, stand up and be a new and determined soul.

candieangel12:

LOL, thanks babe! I know I can always count on you

190-the-clown:
say no more

Cheatin is in your DNA just as it is in the rest of your Nigerian sister counterparts

dont cry no more and ride and carry on with your cheatin spree

notin do you

fairygeh: M seeing things,all what i read in this post is just confusing me,bi s exual?hmmm,well dts off topic,so addressing this,u love ur current boify but u cheated on him,ok fine,anybody can make mistakes but not when it happens frequently.not judging u though but realy girlfriend just incase ur boify forgives u,dnt ever get close to ur ex's again,i mean u shd always expect things like dis wen u are left alone with ur ex,i guess u cant control ursef,so d best thing is avoid him as best as u can.

candieangel12:

Didnt cheat on my bf frequently, only did this once. And I have told my bf n he broke up wit me. && I am no longer talking 2 my ex, Ive ended our friendship.

fairygeh: . Oh okieee.well i guess u have learnt from ur mistakes.all the best in ur next relationship.

candieangel12:

I don't love my ex anymore to want to be in a relationship with him. I just had a sexual attachment to him n we r casual friends wich I thought had ended but from the looks of what recently happened, the sexual attachment might still exist. But I am willing to cut all ties with my ex, I am willing to stop keeping him as a friend n just move on wit my current bf. I just need my bf 2 see this.

candieangel12: Well me n my ex broke up early this year after dating 4 1yr. Me n my current bf started dating 2weeks ago. Yesterday night my ex came over 2 my apartment 2 hang out n just gist, before he left we ended up being intimate. I feel so horrible about the act. Everytime me n my ex r 2geda we end up being intimate with each other eventho we have been broken up for about 6months now. I thought me being in a new relationship wud keep me n my ex from being intimate but as you can see it didn't work. We didn't have intercourse this time but we did other things... I know I commited an atrocity and I know that I have to tell my bf and probably break up wit him because I dont deserve his love but how do I tell him I cheated n end our relationship. I feel so damn guilty n terrible. Pls dont judge me, I have been judgin myself since this happened n I feel like an a.s.s. My ex is the first guy I've had womanly sex with and this is the first time I've cheated on any guy b4. I made a horrible mistake and now I dont know how to tell my bf and break up wit him

Orikinla:

YOUR BODY BELONGS TO YOUR EX
WHILE YOUR HEART BELONGS TO YOUR CURRENT BF.

YES, YOUR EX DEFLOWERED YOU.
FIRST CUT MAY BE THE SHARPEST, BUT IT IS NOT THE DEEPEST OR THE SWEETEST.
THE LAST CUT IS ALWAYS THE DEEPEST.

MY ADVICE WORKS 100% AND THIS IS IT.
GIVE YOUR CURRENT BOYFRIEND SEX AS YOU HAVE NEVER GIVEN YOUR EX.
IF YOUR BF CANNOT PERFORM VERY WELL LIKE YOUR EX, THEN YOU HAVE TO HELP HIM WITH THE FOLLOWING RECIPE.
LET HIM EAT THE FOLLOWING TWO TO FOUR HOURS BEFORE SEX.

2 BANANAS
2 MEDIUM SIZE CARROTS
20 ROASTED "EPA" GROUNDNUTS (NOT SHOPRITE IMPORTED PEANUTS)
20 SEEDS OF DRY ALIGATOR PEPPER.

I GUARANTEE THAT YOU WILL NEVER SUCCUMB TO YOUR EX AGAIN.

Orikinla:

2 BANANAS
2 MEDIUM SIZE CARROTS
20 ROASTED "EPA" GROUNDNUTS (NOT SHOPRITE IMPORTED PEANUTS)
20 SEEDS OF DRY ALIGATOR PEPPER.

I GUARANTEE THAT YOU WILL NEVER SUCCUMB TO YOUR EX AGAIN.

candieangel12:

Well I thought I was in luv wit her but it turned out I wasn't n was just depressed n needed companionship. Me n my current bf met around dat time n I broke up wit her because I cudnt picture my life wit a woman n my current bf made me realize that I was living a wrong life.

Casie J:

Seriously ℓ̊ don't understand U̶̲̥̅̊я story, aare you a lesbian or a guy that is turning the story upside down.pls clear ♍ε̲̣.

candieangel12:

Yeah I dated a girl 4 like a week but that was it. Nothingcame out of it because I didnt feel like I cud stay wit a girl, she was my first n only gf. N my ex was d first guy I've had vaginal se.x with but he wasn't d first guy iv had oral or anal se.x with or other intimate things. Me n my current boyfriend got 2gether 2 weeks ago...