I recently met my stepbrother (his mom and my dad are married) and we hit it off (not like that o) we became really good friends. Then i started developing all these weird feelings for him, and one night, we took our friendship step further.

Ever since its been going round and round in my mind, because im not sure, if what i did was right or wrong. Im falling in love with him regardless and he feels the same way too, what should i do. Is it wrong to feel the way i do about him?

is it wrong is sleepin with ur step brother wrong
i cant believe someone can ask that,

better go see ur pastor and tell him wat you've done and let him do a special deliverance service for you. .
cos its not only wrong. . .it is DEVILISH. .

im not sleeping with him, and we are not blood relatives anyway. his mom had him before she met my dad. so this is not a case of incest

Please dear, wipe those feeling and thoughts out of your mind, what is wrong is wrong . You guys are now related.

if you did not sleep with him, how did you 'took our friendship step further'?

WHATEVER U CAL URSELF, WHAT IS WRONG IS WRONG IS WRONG
ASK GOD TO DELIVER U FROM THIS DISGUSTING ACT

WHATEVER U CAL URSELF, WHAT IS WRONG IS WRONG IS WRONG
ASK GOD TO DELIVER U FROM THIS DISGUSTING ACT

sasha4u:

im not sleeping with him, and we are not blood relatives anyway. his mom had him before she met my dad. so this is not a case of incest

tryin to reconstruct the truth to make it less damaging

u know wat is rite and u know the rite thing to do. . .

pls do the rite thing and end watever it is you have with your non-related brother

debosky:

if you did not sleep with him, how did you 'took our friendship step further'?

we agreed we both had feelings for eachother, the rest is history. But no we didnt sleep together

My sister, bible say every unrighteousness is a SIN.
U need to be born again, may GOD help U.
BLESS U

go to MFM, u need deliverance

Rebirth:

go to MFM, u need deliverance

thank you.

justkunmi:

tryin to reconstruct the truth to make it less damaging

u know what is rite and u know the rite thing to do. . .

please do the rite thing and end watever it is you have with your non-related brother

i know and i do know the right thing to do.

well it will be difficult for you to have any relationship given the married state of your parents.

technically you both are not related, but think about the kids your parents may have. . .it will be very messy.

unfortunately you will have to leave those feelings behind and move on. I suggest you spend as little time together as possible.

debosky:

well it will be difficult for you to have any relationship given the married state of your parents.

technically you both are not related, but think about the kids your parents may have. . .it will be very messy.

unfortunately you will have to leave those feelings behind and move on. I suggest you spend as little time together as possible.

my parents are beyond their childbearing age, so there is no chance of that, but irregardless, i now understand all the controversy, it would cause, Nigerians are pretty conservative, ppl just wouldnt understand.

please dont be condescending.

I apologise if I was condescending.

the controversy is the main thing, people don't take those kinds of issues mildly at all.

I doubt it would be worth the trouble, except you are willing to extricate yourself from family ties and live by yourselves somewhere far away.

I imagine it must be tough , hang in there ok?

really don't think abt it. banish the thot, i won't walk. imagine having ur step siblings being ur in-laws as well. drop it now

debosky:

I apologise if I was condescending.

the controversy is the main thing, people don't take those kinds of issues mildly at all. 

I doubt it would be worth the trouble, except you are willing to extricate yourself from family ties and live by yourselves somewhere far away.

I imagine it must be tough , hang in there ok?

tough is an understatement, ive been crying  for 2 days straight,  there is no way we could ever turn away from our family, too many ppl would be hurt, it would break my dad's heart. its kind off ironic i guess, i always wanted to fall in love and here comes the most perfect most amazing guy,,, and i cant be with him.

Rebirth:

really don't think about it. banish the thot, i won't walk. imagine having your step siblings being your in-laws as well. drop it now

your opinions are duly noted. thank you

is sounds weird but I don't see anything wrong. I'm quite sure if you guys met before your parents did and hit it off, your parents would be going thru the same dilemma. Talk to them in a matter of fact way or ask them straight up.

Technically , it is Not wrong.Biologically it is OK. I think the only wrong side to it is the AFRICAN view. Which i think is big enough, since we are all africans.

Then imagine that your mother in law will be your stepmum and also your stepmum's husband who is your father will also be your Father inlaw.

Just close your eyes and imagine the wedding day, especially the traditional wedding, There will be a lot of confusion.

Just burst it save yourself the stress, though i know it is not easy. You are just having a fling.
wish you the best

Girlfriend. You have to put an end to that relationship btw you two. You have to see him as your brother. Thats how harsh life can be. You cant have someone you really want.

This is wrong! I can't imagine myself just fall in love with stepbrother in the same family line (stepmum and blood dad) under the same roof. eeewwww!!!

Stepbrother is just brother related no matter if he is not my blood, brother, PERIOD!!!

uspry1:

This is wrong! I can't imagine myself just fall in love with stepbrother in the same family line (stepmum and blood dad) under the same roof. eeewwww!!!

Stepbrother is just brother related no matter if he is not my blood, brother, PERIOD!!!

End of Discurssion

reconsider.

There is nothing wrong if you are having feeligs with your step brother as long she didn't have the child with ur father. I don't see anything wrong there. The blood is different so as the DNA.

If i were you, i will continue with my feelings.

sasha4u:

i know and i do know the right thing to do.

so u know the right thing to do but u still came on here to ask 'what should i do?'

o girl, ur thoughts are evil. u better start seeing the guy as ur brother

u guys r not blood related.if u r in love wit him, then go ahead since there's no blood tie btw d both of u.goodluck.

@sasha; i truly feel ur pain but this a plain case of something ( or should i say someone) u cannot have. that u have feelings for him doesnt make u evil, it makes u human. As humans, we live and learn and now that u know what to do, be strong and do the right thing. cheers

It's better you let go of whatever feelings you have for each other. God forbid, if you hear that he is HIV positive, will you still go ahead with your feelings? Abeg what is bad is bad.