kunlejazz: ripe age for marriage (I.e 29-35years)

The moment I read this post I was too sure someone would refer to this but amazingly, no one has. As much as I love d post, the salient assumption that a man's ripe age for marriage is 29 really does strike me. I'm thinking 25, all other things being equal.
We all know age has very little to do with being responsible as a man. Well, maybe I just happen to see issues like this from a difference perspective as I'm the only one who seem not to totally agree with that.

My 22yr old friend who just got is girlfriend pregnant and is planning marriage must not see this. Lol

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Nice one OP. This is the best thing in way of advice I've seen here.

kunlejazz: ripe age for marriage (I.e 29-35years)

The moment I read this post I was too sure someone would refer to this but amazingly, no one has. As much as I love d post, the salient assumption that a man's ripe age for marriage is 29 really does strike me. I'm thinking 25, all other things being equal.
We all know age has very little to do with being responsible as a man. Well, maybe I just happen to see issues like this from a difference perspective as I'm the only one who seem not to totally agree with that.

My 22yr old friend who just got is girlfriend pregnant and is planning marriage must not see this. Lol

If he is responsible and mature enough, why not!
Age is not maturity.
.
29-35 must be ready, while under 'might' not be!
For man though....ladies should be much earlier!

uj_sizzle: Nice one OP. This is the best thing in way of advice I've seen here.

Thanks ma'am.
I am highly honored.

for ur mind.

Ramcie is right.Some girls should learn to be responsible,life is not about designers handbags and clothes,it's about planning.I have a friend who graduated 3yrs after I graduated,she finished her youth service this yr and uptil now she has nothing doing.I have tried to persuade her to start up a business that can fetch her money but she refused telling me she has no time for business.The most annoying part is that,when she wants to make her hair or purchase anything,she goes through her phone in order to call her toasters/boyfrds to send her money.As a woman,if you are not prudent in spending,you don't know how to be creative and being independent,don't get angry if your man refers to you as a liability.It's good to look good but cut your coat according to your material,a man who is responsible can't waste your time by deceiving you into thinking he wants marriage,if you are hardworking,unless he's heartless.Like ramcie said earlier,think BIG.

Wislet: for ur mind.

When did you become such a hater?

Ramcie: *Don't always change the station from E! to Style Tv, MTV and Fashion TV. Take time to find out what is bothering him and how you can help out*

This is the best part . A lot of girls spend time these days knowing all about KIM K and RIHANNA instead of thinking about the future. All they do is try to wear a replica of Kim K's dress or make the type of Hair style Rihanna has on.

"Girls instead of trying to look and act like KIM K and RIHANNA, let's aspire to be like AUNG SAN SUU KYI and OKONJO IWEALA"

tank u my sister
me sef no get money again wey i go dey give babe for brazilian wigs

acidtalk:

When did you become such a hater?

hey sweetie, i ain't hating.

lefulefu:
tank u my sister
me sef no get money again wey i go dey give babe for brazilian wigs

efulefuuuuuuuuuuuuuu.......
Wer hv u been hiding since?

lefulefu:
tank u my sister
me sef no get money again wey i go dey give babe for brazilian wigs

Brazillian hair kwanu?
I go curse any lady wey demand for brazillian hair money from me. When I no dey do 419, rituals or be politician.

How much e dey cost me sef to cut my hair for the whole year? Since dem born me till date, I no sure say I don spend reach N30,000 for barber shop.

nice rite up!

Thanks.
Don't forget to spread the news to our sisters.

acidtalk: Thanks.
Don't forget to spread the news to our sisters.

ansa me jooor

Wislet: ansa me jooor

What was the question?

u no dey feel bad again, abi?
U ok now?

Wislet: u no dey feel bad again, abi?
U ok now?

Bad keh?
I can never worry about anything in here oh!
Can pretend to flare up, rant, insult, mock someone but it all ends as soon as I close that thread.
There's far too much to worry in the real world than loosing one's head over a virtual circle.

MissCorrection:

Clinching

Clinging

MissCorrection:

Personality

You!

Gorne thrue yaw profyle hand cawmon senx can tel whot yhu hare hop to via your profyle name.

Interesting! You've got a task to do there if that's what you're gonna be about on NL. Anyway, thank you for making me (more like forcing me to) write the above so you can do your job!

kunlejazz: ripe age for marriage (I.e 29-35years)

The moment I read this post I was too sure someone would refer to this but amazingly, no one has. As much as I love d post, the salient assumption that a man's ripe age for marriage is 29 really does strike me. I'm thinking 25, all other things being equal.
We all know age has very little to do with being responsible as a man. Well, maybe I just happen to see issues like this from a difference perspective as I'm the only one who seem not to totally agree with that.

My 22yr old friend who just got is girlfriend pregnant and is planning marriage must not see this. Lol

There is a reason why there's the adage -

"A fool at 40 is a fool forever".

There are some who are old and wise, others are old and unwise. Some are young and smart, while some are young and naive. Whatever the case, it is up to individuals to have a 'masterplan' for their lives. If a man in the early 20's is smart enough to be well prepapred for responsibilities of his actions, all well and good. There is no proven positive correlation between the marriage age and marriage success - we've seen some who got married and divorced in 24 hours whilst some broke the marriage vows they made two scores ago.

It's the state of mind between both parties that matter the most.


Peace

acidtalk:

Bad keh?
I can never worry about anything in here oh!
Can pretend to flare up, rant, insult, mock someone but it all ends as soon as I close that thread.
There's far too much to worry in the real world than loosing one's head over a virtual circle.

i don dey suspect u be oga daily...
Anywayz....peace.

candygosh: This is seriously the best n most intellectual post av ever come across on nl.
@op job well done

The what? Not to subtract any praise fro this post but...well...WOW.

Wislet: sometimes it takes someone with no proud peronality, who is down-to-earth, natural and doesn't see himself as all in all to open a thread like this, and i bet you, women will listen.
No one likes a fake, pompous personality...one who never follows his own advice.

Rationalisation. If it's good it's good, if it's bull it's bull. Who are the women hurting when they refuse counsel, not based on it's content and quality, but on it's bearer. Now tell me what that is if it isn't fake and pompous.

Mrs.Chima:
Age is preference to many.....Mariah Carey and Halle Berry is over 40the years old and if they were broke...men would still run to them. It is about how a woman present herself and take card if her body.

ALEK WEK is younger than Tyra Banks but Tyra would get more toasters than Alek hands down.
Lets keep it real.

Good argument. But not for this topic. Take note.

Wislet: we have seen you.
Everyone but you know that was an omission.
Smh.

A mistake is a mistake. Accept correction and move on. Cheers.

Where on earth is MissCorrection sef?
Haven't seen her in 2days.

Wislet: efulefuuuuuuuuuuuuuu.......
Wer hv u been hiding since?

nah my village i travel go oooooo.my mama be dey ask for me she say e don tay wey she see my face

This one wey internet no dey your village shey na CAVE you dey stay?

ssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhi11111111111111

MissCorrection:

I'm or I am

phalanges: ssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhi11111111111111

wait for MissCorrection to correct this.

anthoniaz: Ramcie is right.Some girls should learn to be responsible,life is not about designers handbags and clothes,it's about planning.I have a friend who graduated 3yrs after I graduated,she finished her youth service this yr and uptil now she has nothing doing.I have tried to persuade her to start up a business that can fetch her money but she refused telling me she has no time for business.The most annoying part is that,when she wants to make her hair or purchase anything,she goes through her phone in order to call her toasters/boyfrds to send her money.As a woman,if you are not prudent in spending,you don't know how to be creative and being independent,don't get angry if your man refers to you as a liability.It's good to look good but cut your coat according to your material,a man who is responsible can't waste your time by deceiving you into thinking he wants marriage,if you are hardworking,unless he's heartless.Like ramcie said earlier,think BIG.

I av a friend like that. Now she's always complaining that her husband treats her like a slave and like furniture. But how wouldn't he. I just can't blame him. She doesn't had has never worked in her life. She is one of those girls that believes a man should pay all their expenses without lifting a finger. She did dat in her dating days and now it has cme back to haunt her. She married one of those older rich men. Thank God she has finally agreed that she was greedy. Anyway I advised her to find something doing no matter how small so that her husband will respect her more and stop treating her like a housegirl.

Thank God I already av the rite ready made answer for any woman dat dare asks me for brazillian hair