My girl has refused to call me since 2days now after reading my chat with one T̶̲̥̅ιηє̲ geh. I Was only inviting the geh to visit me @ PH dats all. Told her dat I'll cruise her round town. Take her out etc.
Infact her bone of contention is Y shud i invite A BBM friend. My own bone of contention is Y shud she read My chats.

Guyz whose side R u on
Abeg n̶̲̥̅̊☺ bad words o

Why should she read your chat without your permission?

Why should you invite a friend(a girl for that matter) without letting her know?

I'm with the girl,she should dump you,you cant be trusted

On both sides
If she is okay with you reading her chat and not reacting and you okay with her inviting a friend(handsome guy) to her state without getting angry.

I'm on d OP side

He's a man and has everyrite 2 his privacy

Isn't she Nigerian-she has no rites

ashmanpolo: My girl has refused to call me since 2days now after reading my chat with one T̶̲̥̅ιηє̲ geh. I Was only inviting the geh to visit me @ PH dats all. Told her dat I'll cruise her round town. Take her out etc.
Infact her bone of contention is Y shud i invite A BBM friend. My own bone of contention is Y shud she read My chats.

Guyz whose side R u on
Abeg n̶̲̥̅̊☺ bad words o

MUMU! She has every right to be angry..am on her side,give me her BB pin so i can console her and perhaps bring her back to you

I'm on the girl's side! Oh yes sisters solidarity! She has everything right to be angry with u........I don't know what you guys have turned BBM to these days.

honestly, i dont blame the girl for reading the chats. The way you guys are addicted to it is what arouses our curiousity. you need to see me staying awake just to grab my hubby's phone to see who he was chatting up and what they discussed anytime i feel he is too involved with his fone

Imagine inviting a BB gf and u say u r in a relationship
let assume she dint read ur bb chats,
what do u intend doing with the girl when she comes?

people should jus quit this silly privacy excuses
using it to cover their mess when they are caught in the act.

u have somethin to hide if you hide ur fone from ur partner.

I dnt find nythn wrong wid her reading ur BBM chats, if u gat nothn to hide it shudnt b a biggie! She isnt a stranger to u, so i dont see that as invading ur privacy and i totally support her!

[quote author=iyatrustee]honestly, i dont blame the girl for reading the chats. The way you guys are addicted to it is what arouses our curiousity. you need to see me staying awake just to grab my hubby's phone to see who he was chatting up and what they discussed anytime i feel he is too involved with his fone [/quote
Hehe...i could do the same as well!

U be asewo boy or na man u deserve an eviction. U got 2 play ur card right, next time play wisely. I cant praise u 4 dat because dt lady culd be my sister.

I am neither on your side nor your gf's side. I am on the phone's side..

She has profoundly breached your fundamental human right of privacy and subsequently guilty as charged.
So I support you in all of the decisions you will employ to nib her improbable curiosity.

LastApostle: She has profoundly breached your fundamental human right of privacy and subsequently guilty as charged.
So I support you in all of the decisions you will employ to nib her improbable curiosity.

This line of argument would only be valid if there was nothing incriminating on his phone. He has been caught and should face the full 'wrath' of his girl's law.

LastApostle: She has profoundly breached your fundamental human right of privacy and subsequently guilty as charged.
So I support you in all of the decisions you will employ to nib her improbable curiosity.

This line of argument would only be valid if there was nothing incriminating on his phone. He has been caught and should face the full 'wrath' of his girl's law.

190-the-clown:
I'm on d OP side

He's a man and has everyrite 2 his privacy

Isn't she Nigerian-she has no rites

God bless u M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ broda

LastApostle: She has profoundly breached your fundamental human right of privacy and subsequently guilty as charged.
So I support you in all of the decisions you will employ to nib her improbable curiosity.

U are blessed

vivian chinaza: I'm on the girl's side! Oh yes sisters solidarity! She has everything right to be angry with u........I don't know what you guys have turned BBM to these days.

Why should she read his chats without him being present to defend himself? If you read my chats on whatsapp, you would think I have almost 5 girlfriends when all I have are some really imaginative female friends. People tend to fairy and play around but that does not mean they are cheating

Stop being a man wh0re and she wont get angry with you. You obviously dont respect her if you are inviting other girls out.

Chei..the nairaland gehs haf vex

u sound like a guy i know in d same town, who carried on like u did and is currently HIV positive. so keep it up. i support you.

ashmanpolo: My girl has refused to call me since 2days now after reading my chat with one T̶̲̥̅ιηє̲ geh. I Was only inviting the geh to visit me @ PH dats all. Told her dat I'll cruise her round town. Take her out etc.
Infact her bone of contention is Y shud i invite A BBM friend. My own bone of contention is Y shud she read My chats.

Guyz whose side R u on
Abeg n̶̲̥̅̊☺ bad words o

''Bones of Contention''

kitty kat: u sound like a guy i know in d same town, who carried on like u did and is currently HIV positive. so keep it up. i support you.

U sound like A fool I know in d same town, who stupidly thinks dat every girl A guy invites end up having sex with him. So keep it up. I support you

Kslib: I am neither on your side nor your gf's side. I am on the phone's side..

Lol

Op, just admit it, you had the intention of cheating with your BBM friend if she had come. Am just wondering how you will feel if the tables were turned.

You were "only inviting the geh to visit me @ PH dats all". Tell that to the wind.

2goodbobo: Op, just admit it, you had the intention of cheating with your BBM friend if she had come. Am just wondering how you will feel if the tables were turned.

Really? Now we are counting intention to cheat as cheating? Maybe soon people will be jailed for "intending to commit a crime"

Kslib: I am neither on your side nor your gf's side. I am on the phone's side..

Me too...oh the poor fone. Now it will feel so bad it will hang itself. Becos bbs are always hanging.

UmericanGirl: Stop being a man wh0re and she wont get angry with you. You obviously dont respect her if you are inviting other girls out.

90 % of girls will go out on a date with. Anoda guy during their relationship. So if u're going on a date with anoda guy, wat do u intend to achieve? 90 % of guys will sleep with anoda woman during their relationship. So if he is inviting someone over, what does he intend to achieve? If you can go on a date with anoda guy then he to can invite someone over so plsss spare me.

Mynd_44:
Really? Now we are counting intention to cheat as cheating? Maybe soon people will be jailed for "intending to commit a crime"

hahaha people get jailed for attempted murder...so it is happening already

well i dont blame her for not picking up your calls

mondi_cheeks:
hahaha people get jailed for attempted murder...so it is happening already

attempted cheating will be him about to cheat but not being able to complete it cos there was no cöndom available or something like that.