I met this very nice girl,one thing let to another after much persuading,we started dating.few days back, a friend of mine was going through the pix on ma fone and saw her pix,asked who she was and i told him she was my new babe...he told me he knew the girl and they once had a fling and he has had bleeped her in the past...have been worried since my friend told me this...my question is,do i continue the relationship with her or do i just end it.i havent told her about my friend.pls i need you advise

venorite: I met this very nice girl,one thing let to another after much persuading,we started dating.few days back, a friend of mine was going through the pix on ma fone and saw her pix,asked who she was and i told him she was my new babe...he told me he knew the girl and they once had a fling and he has had bleeped her in the past...have been worried since my friend told me this...my question is,do i continue the relationship with her or do i just end it.i havent told her about my friend.pls i need you advise

its a small world afterall. U are not clean either so forget about what ur friend said or did. If u love her go after her. Use condom sha

makes no difference. U date the girl if u wanna, its ur decision not ur friends. Unless there is more t the story that u r not telling us.

It's not a big deal.Dont make a heap out of a molehill.You didnt even know her and you weren't with her then.
You have to be mature and secure in yourself and get pass her past otherwise it will prevent a long and healthy future together.
Besides if you leave her for another,the next girl will probably have had sex with someone else except she is a virgin,so it makes no difference

xynerise:
its a small world afterall. U are not clean either so forget about what ur friend said or did. If u love her go after her. Use condom sha

True.
If u love her why not. That gurl u ve done in the past nko, no be man go carry am put for house ni.
Intimacy with ur frnd or not, don't let any friend pull u back.
Plus u don't even know if she's got some good fortunes on her that whoever marries her become lucky.
Get her tested ok n carry on. Ma wo oju uche(dunno if dats ur frndz name)

Her fling with ur friend is all in the past. Do not break up with her because of ur friend. Am sure you havE a past too.

k2039: It's not a big deal.Dont make a heap out of a molehill.You didnt even know her and you weren't with her then.
You have to be mature and secure in yourself and get pass her past otherwise it will prevent a long and healthy future together.

bro i understand where you are heading to,but this friend of mine is like a brother to me.he is someone i see often and the thoughts of them together disturbs me alot.and u know guys and their bragging spirit when it comes to issue pertaining sex

[size=18pt]intimacy abi sex? your friend don enter her before and you too wan enter her. she must be a cheerful "giver". hey bro let us be friends maybe e fit reach my turn by december. .[/size]

candygosh:
True.
If u love her why not. That gurl u ve done in the past nko, no be man go carry am put for house ni.
Intimacy with ur frnd or not, don't let any friend pull u back.
Plus u don't even know if she's got some good fortunes on her that whoever marries her become lucky.
Get her tested ok n carry on. Ma wo oju uche(dunno if dats ur frndz name)

na wah for you oh. did your own boyfriend get you tested before he started barnging you?

venorite:
and u know guys and their bragging spirit when it comes to issue pertaining sex

Avoid such topic with him. D problem now is how will the girl feel if she sees u and ur friend together? . She will think its a game plan

xynerise:
Avoid such topic with him. D problem now is how will the girl feel if she sees u and ur friend together? . She will think its a game plan

the thing is,they had something very long ago.somehow somehow,the stopped talking.i didnt bother asking him why.so the issue of game plan doenst come into play cos my girl might have forgotten about him sef

venorite: I met this very nice girl,one thing let to another after much persuading,we started dating.few days back, a friend of mine was going through the pix on ma fone and saw her pix,asked who she was and i told him she was my new babe...he told me he knew the girl and they once had a fling and he has had bleeped her in the past...have been worried since my friend told me this...my question is,do i continue the relationship with her or do i just end it.i havent told her about my friend.pls i need you advise

were you expecting her to be a virgin? besides, your friend might even be lying...

Funny replies..

as if y'all can take that.. do you guys know what it means at all..

seeing your gf/bf exes makes us sad.. not to talk of friend... taaaaaaa!!!"""" "over my dead body"

venorite:
my girl might have forgotten about him sef

Are u sure? Cos if d guy handled her well in bed then it will be difficult to forget the face

like wtf!!!! your "friend" (not just anybody) has eaten his own part of the national cake??!.. goshhh

now wey your friend don enter before u, u dey vex . . so what about me, shey make i begin de cry knowing say u don enter before my turn. abegi, if u no want arrange her for my side

tit_squeez: now wey your friend don enter before u, u dey vex . . so what about me, shey make i begin de cry knowing say u don enter before my turn. abegi, if u no want arrange her for my side

oga pls,if u have any advise,it will be greatly appreciated...any oda tin is really irrelevant and unwanted.thanks

naijathings:
na wah for you oh. did your own boyfriend get you tested before he started barnging you?

U smoke weed ni
Btw he no fit try am. With all d orishi rishi diseases in town these days.
Wherever the bf is coming from its gotta go tru those procedures or no show.
Why would I stake my future for someone am not even sure would last.
Abeg no go there. We are so different in every aspect. What is good for the goose is not often good for d gander!
Case closed.

poster

ask yourself this; would you want a girl you really like to dump you because she has a friend who you had slept with before?

acidosis™:
like wtf!!!! your "friend" (not just anybody) has eaten his own part of the national cake??!.. goshhh

Smh. Ladies beware!
National cake! Lol

omega25red: poster

ask yourself this; would you want a girl you really like to dump you because she has a friend who you had slept with before?

bro believe me,its very different if the reverse is the case.a girl might just stick to the guy for so many reasons,but u knows guys,they can use such to tease u and i doubt if such teasing will feel good.am thinking of asking her,dont know if its necessary

Hmmmmm,its kinda hard though,even the girl wont be free if she sees u guys together,well if u re the type that doesnt care,go ahead if u can stand the thoughts,but realy it aint no big deal cos most def someone must ve bn sleepng with her bfre u,its just strange as it is now cos the person happens to be ur friend.

venorite:
bro i understand where you are heading to,but this friend of mine is like a brother to me.he is someone i see often and the thoughts of them together disturbs me alot.and u know guys and their bragging spirit when it comes to issue pertaining sex

Well if he brags,you have the ability to choose your response,you can choose to ignore him and you can also choose to allow it affect you,it's your choice.

If you cant cope with all of this,then maybe a breaakup may just be the only option left

venorite:
bro believe me,its very different if the reverse is the case.a girl might just stick to the guy for so many reasons,but u knows guys,they can use such to tease u and i doubt if such teasing will feel good.am thinking of ask her,dont know if its necessary

Dude if you like this girl enough you should be able to take the teasing. Your boys will tease you yes but eventually they will stop and if they don't then you know you don't need those friends.

I wouldn't ask her because her past should be her past and if your friend try to be an a-hole i'm sure she will put him in his place or you can tell him tht tou like her. if he continues then cut him out of your friend circle.

Rooneyboy: did the girl ever tell u she was a virgin ?

If no, then u've got to be matured and go ahead with the relationship.

Afterall it wasn't horses that deflowered her.

you have a point but believe me,its not as easy as u make it seem.

candygosh:
Smh. Ladies beware!
National cake! Lol

Yea babe... national cake..

cake is meant to be shared.. if you're the type that share cheerfully,.then am sorry, your a national cake/international cake (the professionals in junction, joints, brotels & Italy)

venorite:
you have a point but believe me,its not as easy as u make it seem.

your friend's opinion is very important to you i see.

why not make a preemptive move and talk to your friend. make it seem like you are trying to just get laid with her and find out as much info as you cqn about when he hooked up with her. There if he sees you with her in his mind he would think you are just trying to get laid and he wont tease you. Then tell the girl that your friend said he had dated her before and you just wanted her to know that you know and you wanted to make sure she would be comfortable with the whole situation seeing as he is a friend of yours.


This way you cover all ends. if she does't break it off with you after telling her that you know then everything should be cool

candygosh:
True.
If u love her why not. That gurl u ve done in the past nko, no be man go carry am put for house ni.
Intimacy with ur frnd or not, don't let any friend pull u back.
Plus u don't even know if she's got some good fortunes on her that whoever marries her become lucky.
Get her tested ok n carry on. Ma wo oju uche(dunno if dats ur frndz name)

Good fortunes indeed. Lol.
What if she come get bad fortune nko? Abi na trial by error.

naijathings: [font=Nyala]Your friend don enter her before and you too wan enter her. she must be a cheerful "giver". hey bro let us be friends maybe e fit reach my turn by december. .[/size]

OP
I wldnt continue. U already hv doubts, I knw hw u feel. End it.

acidosis™:

Yea babe... national cake..

cake is meant to be shared.. if you're the type that share cheerfully,.then am sorry, your a national cake/international cake (the professionals in junction, joints, brotels & Italy)

Ogini, national cake indeed. Just pity some babes sha.