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If It Were You: I Want You To Comment by adamsjoiy(m): 11:03pm On Nov 07, 2012
I bring to you this true-life "unedited"
story of a bride in dilemma
and want you to comment...
IF IT WERE YOU? Enjoy.

Am about getting married to
my fiancé in a few months. I
am so glad to have met
someone as amazing and as
loving as he is. We've dated
for two years, and he recently proposed a couple of month
ago, to be precise.
Everything has been
wonderful as far as the
wedding plans are concerned.
And right now, I'm just looking forward to my
wedding day which has been
set for December of 2012. So,
here is the problem:
I used to date his father many
years ago when I was a student in the University.
He was someone who came to
the campus with some of his
friends, and some male
students, would arrange girls
for them to hang out with either for the night, or for a
week and so forth depending
on what was happening.
I partied with him, traveled
out of town with him, and his
friends until I became pregnant and decided to have
an abortion. And it was while
I was laying down on that bed
right after the procedure that I
made up my mind to stop
seeing him and I completely turned my life around. I won't
lie, at first it was difficult to
break away from that life. I
missed having a lot of money
to spend and to show off to all
my friends and be the envy of the whole school. But leaving
the old man was a decision
that I had to make for my
own good. Many years later, I
now work in a respected law
firm, and I make my own money, and a God-fearing lady
now. I have a great
relationship with my future
husband whom I can't wait to
be married to. I don't know
how this will affect our wonderful relationship, should
I disclose this to him. His father
on the other hand is late now,
but I’d seen the old man's
pictures in my fiance's phtoto
album, and family photos on the wall in their family home.
And they seemed pretty close
from what I saw in the
photos. Do I really need to tell
my future husband about the
affair between myself and his late fathe? It was a long time
ago, and I young, irresponsible
and desperate. However,
having to keep this secret
from him weighs heavily on
my mind, and I feel guilty all the time.
Please help!

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Re: If It Were You: I Want You To Comment by Bezed(m): 11:22pm On Nov 07, 2012
the old man is late, better move on with your life, or you might loose your marriage by telling your man, except you are very sure he wont react badly on hearing it.. But for me i wont tell him anything..

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