oh hell. . .
thought the thread died a natural death

Busy_body:



There's over a million topics on this same forum at the last count...why this dead one...just an observation too

lol. . .nice observation mama but my observation remains valid.

can i just say though, im indifferent to what single or married people do with their lives and time on the internet
i just talk wetin i see. . . .

RudySmith: ^^^^ So Sagamite is the online hubby u were talking about?! taking u away from him will b like taking candy from a child. Join me in my private chambers 4 a discussion, and let me give u the attention that u truly deserve instead of being overlooked and under appreciated by that Saga bobo.

@Sagamite
stay away from Efema, u have been warned!

as 4 flirting, yes many do it innocently, and that's no big deal, but when people enter *the zone* and go online 2 meet and share special moments with someone, then it is no more play play flirting. here is another clue, NL is not a dating site, while I am sure the guy in this thread met these babes via some dating or single website.

as 4 jidegirl having the hots 4 me, That should b normal since I am a great guy, LWKMD.

Oh! I see! So, this where the campaign against Saga started.

Na wa o.

We all know there are real flirtations and harmless jokes. Of course, there is a limit to everything. There is a limit to the "harmless joke" I can take on line. As long as the 2 parties involved both know/understand it's a joke, others shouldn't read unnecessary meanings to it (I'm refering to d harmless banter done on here).

coogar:
so what should we call the "e-flirting" between you and dayokanu all these years, huh? the day mrs dayokanu catches you in chicago, she would put 2 slugs in the left side of your chest!

This part got me laughing seriously.

Thank God my hubby knows his rivals - Josh Holloway n Micheal Ballack.

And ermmmm... Brad Pitt.

Tgirl4real:

Oh! I see! So, this where the campaign against Saga started.

Na wa o.

We all know there are real flirtations and harmless jokes. Of course, there is a limit to everything. There is a limit to the "harmless joke" I can take on line. As long as the 2 parties involved both know/understand it's a joke, others shouldn't read unnecessary meanings to it (I'm refering to d harmless banter done on here).

Yep, the "take over Saga's harem" campaign started right there, lol!

as for the E flirting, how would you know if someone was joking or not? especially from an online forum. how would you know if a AHAHAHA is sarcastic or not, meant or not? Although it could be inoffensive, it is very difficult to know the difference between the two.

@Busy-body...what's contained in that reply?
Oh!
The same noise over one word of English language...?
...and the same confusing of what was posted as against your interpretation...although this with you showing more of your syntactician/semanticist skills...(abi eleyi o tun correct ni Ma?)
Ok!!
Like i said before,get a job as a school teacher!!Its befitting for you!
I've got no time for polemics especially not over going round in circles that this inconsequential drag will result to...
Cheers!!!

slimyem: @Busy-body...what's contained in that reply?
Oh!
The same noise over one word of English language...?
...and the same confusing of what was posted as against your interpretation...although this with you showing more of your syntactician/semanticist skills...(abi eleyi o tun correct ni Ma?)
Ok!!
Like i said before,get a job as a school teacher!!Its befitting for you!
I've got no time for polemics especially not over going round in circles that this inconsequential drag will result to...
Cheers!!!

slimyem, are you jealous of the attention the married folks get? you don't have to answer here......just send the answer to the mod of this section.

Na wa oo!!

coogar: jesus christ - see vocabulary!

like i have said, it's very wrong for people to opine online banter is the same thing as flirting. some of us are mature enough to know it starts and stops on nairaland.....funny how people read meanings to a non-event!

omo ibo's observation can also be reversed - many of the people who feel online banter is the same thing as infidelity are also single. the only deductive reasoning here is single folks are jealous of the married folks......single folks feel left out....

slimyem and her army should up the ante - maybe, just maybe una go get 35 online husbands like busy-body....

Wow!!
What a deduction!!

coogar:

slimyem, are you jealous of the attention the married folks get? you don't have to answer here......just send the answer to the mod of this section.

Is there like a extraordinary prize attached to how much attention you get here?

slimyem: Is there like a extraordinary prize attached to how much attention you get here?

i should be asking you this question - if you could go out of your way to notice people who "flirt" then it says much more about you than the people you are pointing at.....

coogar:

i should be asking you this question - if you could go out of your way to notice people who "flirt" then it says much more about you than the people you are pointing at.....

huh?
I go out of my way to notice people who "flirt"...?
You mean something that happens on almost every thread here is not loud enough to be noticed?
Even the dumbest family section follower(if one were to exist) would notice that!
...and who have i been pointing at per se on this thread?
Where did i post anything expressly judgemental?
What is saying what about me?

Ok. . .
c'mon guys, can we drop this stuff before it gets out if hand.

married folks need to know they still have it. So any attention is welcome.
Single ladies have all the cards. . .psshhh, only a handful.

RudySmith:

Yep, the "take over Saga's harem" campaign started right there, lol!

as for the E flirting, how would you know if someone was joking or not? especially from an online forum. how would you know if a AHAHAHA is sarcastic or not, meant or not? Although it could be inoffensive, it is very difficult to know the difference between the two.

Glad u have brought this up. At a point on that thread u mentioned how u were gonna take out d magun n bla bla...I felt u were going too far, but I dodn't wanna interject cos everyone was having a fun time. Even Sagamite doesn't go that far with his wives and concubines.

U said there's no difference between online flirtation and real life cheating, yet u do it.

So, u Mr. Rudy is an example of someone with ulterior motive.

So, I won't be comfy flirting with u.

May be u are serious about snatching Saga's babes after all.

slimyem: huh?
I go out of my way to notice people who "flirt"...?
You mean something that happens on almost every thread here is not loud enough to be noticed?
Even the dumbest family section follower(if one were to exist) would notice that!
...and who have i been pointing at per se on this thread?
Where did i post anything expressly judgemental?
What is saying what about me?

you are getting too excited - calm down! use more makeup and maybe sagamite might show you some e-interest!

coogar:

you are getting too excited - calm down! use more makeup and maybe sagamite might show you some e-interest!

go away abeg...!

slimyem: go away abeg...!

stop overreacting - i have found a suitor for you: omo ibo!

Tgirl4real:
Glad u have brought this up. At a point on that thread u mentioned how u were gonna take out d magun n bla bla...I felt u were going too far, but I dodn't wanna interject cos everyone was having a fun time. Even Sagamite doesn't go that far with his wives and concubines.

U said there's no difference between online flirtation and real life cheating, yet u do it.

So, u Mr. Rudy is an example of someone with ulterior motive.

So, I won't be comfy flirting with u.

May be u are serious about snatching Saga's babes after all.

Pls, everything I wrote about the Armnas was done in a fun way to enlighten the section a bit. I didnt think that many of the ladies talking about the Saga concubine stuff were actually serious about it, as I certainly have no grudges against Sagamite or his Harem.
As for the magun stuff, I hear it is the only way to remove it. Let's ask Saga about it as i am sure he knows better than us about it.

RudySmith:

Pls, everything I wrote about the Armnas was done in a fun way to enlighten the section a bit. I didnt think that many of the ladies talking about the Saga concubine stuff were actually serious about it, as I certainly have no grudges against Sagamite or his Harem.
As for the magun stuff, I hear it is the only way to remove it. Let's ask Saga about it as i am sure he knows better than us about it.

Haa!!! See confession. Ur liver don cut. Ase o ti e le (u no even get liver to drag with Saga).

As per asking Saga...u berra don't waste ur tym. U probably know more about it than him.

Tgirl4real:

Haa!!! See confession. Ur liver don cut. Ase o ti e le (u no even get liver to drag with Saga).

As per asking Saga...u berra don't waste ur tym. U probably know more about it than him.

My sista, as much as i have never been afraid to rumble with saga on many discussion here, i also don't want him to think that i have a personal grudge with him.... even though I just showed him in a few days as RudySmith that his harem is as weak as his NL game.

Me I no know anything about Magun, I don't use this weak man's stuff, LWKMD!

Heehhehehehe...

Who does, biko?

BTW, I learnt u are female, true?

^^^Don't believe everything you read on NL, I am very much a man.

OMO IBO: oh hell. . .
thought the thread died a natural death


lol. . .nice observation mama but my observation remains valid...

The thread was dead until "that" first time I woke it up...so likewise, my earlier observation too is still valid

slimyem: @Busy-body...what's contained in that reply?
Oh!
The same noise over one word of English language...?
...and the same confusing of what was posted as against your interpretation...although this with you showing more of your syntactician/semanticist skills...(abi eleyi o tun correct ni Ma?)
Ok!!
Like i said before,get a job as a school teacher!!Its befitting for you!
I've got no time for polemics especially not over going round in circles that this inconsequential drag will result to...
Cheers!!!

From hysteria to waffling...Ajala ta n na o...

Moral of the story...if you can't take, don't dish, especially in public. End of

Tgirl4real:

How can u call building a mud hut for a girl so dat she can marry u serious flirting? LWKMD.

Abi na 2k salon money Efe can't afford?

Efemena don suffer

Busy_body:
The thread was dead until "that" first time I woke it up...so likewise, my earlier observation too is still valid

****scratching head****
Ermmm. Busy body, are you flirting with me?

RudySmith: ^^^Don't believe everything you read on NL, I am very much a man.

Since u have clarified ur true intentions, do u still see what is being done here same as real life cheating?

There's nothing wrong with flirting online!

Everybody here on NL is guitly of it, in one way or the other . . .

But that doesn't mean people don't cheat through online flirting. If people can meet online, fall in love and get married, then it's 100% possible to cheat online!

A lot of people get emotionally attached to their online 'flirts' . . . THAT is cheating!

OMO IBO:
****scratching head****
Ermmm. Busy body, are you flirting with me?

HAHAHAHAHAHA!

@ topic: Whats the topic again?.. . . Flirting. . . GNS 101. . . . somone clarify!

*Runs out of thread b4 he's accused of flirting*

Joe Mosco:
This is a logical error. That it happens on nairaland does not make it right. The fact remains that;
-if your partner starts online flirting, then there is a VOID which has to be closed
-He/she is already cheating cos he/she is satisfying that desire online. The probability that he/she will eventually do the real thing is 99.9 percent.

Really?

And so speaks the marriage counsellor. Are you married? and if yes, for how long then? and if not, then you better put a sock in it, little one.

Now, define online flirting - or better still, if it's not gonna task your braincells, tell me what's the difference between online flirting, online bantering and online cheating.

This should be easy-peasy for you, seeing as you know it all.

coogar: jesus christ - see vocabulary!

like i have said, it's very wrong for people to opine online banter is the same thing as flirting. some of us are mature enough to know it starts and stops on nairaland.....funny how people read meanings to a non-event!

omo ibo's observation can also be reversed - [size=18pt]many of the people who feel online banter is the same thing as infidelity are also single. the only deductive reasoning here is single folks are jealous of the married folks......single folks feel left out.... [/size]

slimyem and her army should up the ante - maybe, just maybe una go get 35 online husbands like busy-body....

Do you have to shout it out like that? Why d'you wanna make dem folks feel the "hellishness" of being single with no fun?

But then again, just think about it - being married to these "anti-banter" folks <shivers> is enough to get one cheating on them seriously. I mean, who'd be happy living in a straitjacket with them?

~ Life with them would be boring
~ Living with them would sap out any last bit of your fun personality
~ Living with them would make you not wanna wake up, to see their faces first thing in the morning
~ Living with them would so push you over the edge, committing suicide would be very, very tempting...

I dey even see say some divorcees here, dey shout pass anyone else about the "badness" of harmless bantering. Just an observation o!

slimyem: Wow!!
What a deduction!!

But true though, innit?

coogar:

i should be asking you this question - if you could go out of your way to notice people who "flirt" then it says much more about you than the people you are pointing at.....

Na unhealthy fixation now. What else can it be?

Efemena_xy:



Do you have to shout it out like that? Why d'you wanna make dem folks feel the "hellishness" of being single with no fun?

But then again, just think about it - being married to these "anti-banter" folks <shivers> is enough to get one cheating on them seriously. I mean, who'd be happy living in a straitjacket with them?

~ Life with them would be boring
~ Living with them would sap out any last bit of your fun personality
~ Living with them would make you not wanna wake up, to see their faces first thing in the morning
~ Living with them would so push you over the edge, committing suicide would be very, very tempting...

I dey even see say some divorcees here, dey shout pass anyone else about the "badness" of harmless bantering. Just an observation o!

Hmmm, well you guys should stop snatching up their most eligibles like saga and coogar. Taking up their time and attention. . Give space eyin iya. Una time don pass . Some I won't mention, will soon attack you. E remain small. Boys don finish dem.

^^ Lol!

Funny you mention it. Thing is, Saga 'n Coogar don't want them.

Saga go tell you say na bad thing for someone to wish am marriage to the typical "rude and classless" Nigerian girls.

Abeg, at the end of the day, wetin concern me? If dem like, they should take Panadol for another person's headache. No skin off my nose jare.

Efemena_xy: ^^ Lol!

Funny you mention it. Thing is, Saga 'n Coogar don't want them.

Saga go tell you say na bad thing for someone to wish am marriage to the typical "rude and classless" Nigerian girls.

Abeg, at the end of the day, wetin concern me? If dem like, they should take Panadol for another person's headache. No skin off my nose jare.

Both very naughty guys looking to catch fun ONLY o! With the ones that try to be over christian hoping to be wifed. All sorts. God help us not to be slashed on the street one day with the way Saga encourages me . People take life too seriously, relax and have fun. If a guy doesn't want you when you are just being you, then you really don't want to be with such a person. How long can you put up appearances. Enjoy girls and relax.

Tgirl4real:

Glad u have brought this up. At a point on that thread u mentioned how u were gonna take out d magun n bla bla...I felt u were going too far, but I dodn't wanna interject cos everyone was having a fun time. Even Sagamite doesn't go that far with his wives and concubines.

U said there's no difference between online flirtation and real life cheating, yet u do it.

So, u Mr. Rudy is an example of someone with ulterior motive.

So, I won't be comfy flirting with u.

May be u are serious about snatching Saga's babes after all.

On point Tgirl. He went too far with that joke.

It was crass and not funny in the least.

Tgirl4real:

How can u call building a mud hut for a girl so dat she can marry u serious flirting? LWKMD.

Abi na 2k salon money Efe can't afford?

Y'all just confess u are jealousing d married folks cos d single guys aint chasing u. Hehehehehehe

*justjokingo*

Choi!!

Why you wan expose my village swags now?

I don talk am tire, all of una dey jealous my saloon runz and "chop" money wey Sagalicious Saga dey give moi!

Busy_body:

Efemena don suffer

My sister, nor be small thing o!