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Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by SELFWORTH: 6:11pm On Nov 29, 2012
richarts:

You has a points anyway.

....again?

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Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Nov 29, 2012
SELFWORTH:

What language is this? Greek? The grammar is giving me headache .
grin

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Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Nov 29, 2012
richarts:

Expantiaite?... Are you for real? Vicky and Berem are you there?

OMG! dang!
go back to school dude

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Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Sapphiredamsel(f): 6:13pm On Nov 29, 2012
berem: ok thank God it is not a jokes! afraid haf catched me now.i wented to jumps in the lagoons before i changeth my soul. i understood you well. grin grin grin
U wiked oo, i swear
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by SELFWORTH: 6:13pm On Nov 29, 2012
richarts: Vicky and berem whats the matters? Why must you quotes my replying if you do not understood? I just doesnt like how nairalanders characteristic.

Anyways, I like boths of your name.

Another bullet! Is this a joke cos am not getting it?
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by vislabraye(m): 6:14pm On Nov 29, 2012
Age doesn't really matter as long as the gap isn't too much. IMO.
If a man of 35 marries a woman of 27 or 28 its not bad. Women usually age faster.
If you are a woman here who isn't yet married and a guy 7 or 8 years older walks up to you, would you say no?
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:17pm On Nov 29, 2012
Age matters.... kiss
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by SELFWORTH: 6:17pm On Nov 29, 2012
~vicky~:


OMG! dang!
go back to school dude

Please tell him . This time earn your certificate don't buy it!
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by cold(m): 6:18pm On Nov 29, 2012
grin cheesy this richarts bloke is just a clown. Are you kayode9 too by any chance
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Ayokunle07(m): 6:19pm On Nov 29, 2012
OMG! shocked What a comic angle richarts, vicky and berem have added to this thread. I'm literally laughing my heart out cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Florena(f): 6:19pm On Nov 29, 2012
Why nt think of d old days wen a man can marry seven wives and imagine d last wife will be younger dan some of his children, do u wnt 2 tell me dat they won't be happy, it is believed in our culture dat men dat re much older than their wives take care of them most, and u knw d respect of a thing wil also be there, all of d people sayin dey bliv in 4yrs difference will be surprised wen dey eventually fall in love wit d last teenager, u can never say, my mom got married 2 a man wit 5 wives, although our dad is dead but come see enjoyment as d last wife, been d no. 16 of 17, i can never be much happier dan this
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by clemz85(m): 6:25pm On Nov 29, 2012
"Age is an issue of mind over matter, if you don't mind
It doesn't matter"

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Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Johnnoo(m): 6:25pm On Nov 29, 2012
val_dubem: Age or No Age, Love is Blind

cool cool cool & is wearing black spectacles...
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Johnnoo(m): 6:27pm On Nov 29, 2012
clemz85: "Age is an issue of mind over matter, if you don't mind
It doesn't matter"

Biologically, it matters...
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by rapmike(m): 6:29pm On Nov 29, 2012
Input: When I was 15years old I dare not walk up to any girl of 20years let alone 25years to toast else I will get some very hot slaps.Then you will hear things like 'you nor get respect?','you nor know your age? n bla bla bla.
But now when the same guy is 25years old and she is 30 or even 40 years you will begin to hear 'age is just a number','what matters in marriage is love','I love him'
Ladies why?
yes wheb u are 15yrs old, advantage no dey to dey date u?(no chest, no money etc) bt at 25, some of these tings don dey show. besides at her age, she is becoming desperate
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Ayokunle07(m): 6:29pm On Nov 29, 2012
I think richart is Polish, just learning to communicate in English
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:30pm On Nov 29, 2012
vislabraye: Age doesn't really matter as long as the gap isn't too much. IMO.
If a man of 35 marries a woman of 27 or 28 its not bad. Women usually age faster.
If you are a woman here who isn't yet married and a guy 7 or 8 years older walks up to you, would you say no?

Sure thing.My ex was 8yrs older.
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:31pm On Nov 29, 2012
Isn't it extremely obvious that the richarts guy is just joking??!! undecided

@Topic, I have nothing to say...

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Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:35pm On Nov 29, 2012
richarts:

Expantiaite?... Are you for real? Vicky and Berem are you there?

Morayo definitely wants to help a dude whom she purportedly believe do not understand english and in the process showcased how ignorant she is of the proper spelling of english words. Shame!.
The one in bold is not correctly spelled! It is expatiate - to explain something in details. You are right about this one. We all make mistakes here, from grammatical to typographical mistakes!
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by ubong560(m): 6:40pm On Nov 29, 2012
How would u even know girls' age wen all they do is to fake age. A 32yr old would just tell u "i am 24" lik d one dat my friend just get out of. They lie alot abt thier age. I dont even knw wat's motive on dat.
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Toktee(m): 6:40pm On Nov 29, 2012
All these things about age in men and age in women,how many girls cn tell truth about their age,when they said they are 18yrs,she is 25,when she said she iz 25,she iz 35yrs,so i urge u guys to check vry well if u wnt to get married to a young girl,60% of nigerian girls are old at home,nd more nd more are getting old in the name catching fun,i dnt care what anybdy said but dat gal dat make u call dat guy a child abuser may be ur elder sister age mate.take note
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Goldieluks: 6:41pm On Nov 29, 2012
Age would only be a problem if an older woman is dating a younger boy who possess an immature mindset, attitude and behaviour, vice versa. But then, there are some men who are older and matured in age, but everything about them reeks of imaturity.
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by imaxtm(m): 6:43pm On Nov 29, 2012
binger: You knw one bad thing about Nigerians? We mix cultures a lot...we copy the lifestyle and psyche of Americans,Germans,Chinese...and mix everything together with our indeginuos cultures.Decades ago,the Nigerian psyche on marriage believes in a man marrying a woman he is older than.But due to 'Westernization' (some dimwits will say its Civilization),the common phrase nowadays is 'Age is just a number'. In truth,its more than a number.Its, in most cases, a determinant of Maturity,Knowledge and Skill,all needed for a successful relationship


i agree with u until the last sentence, Age does not determine Maturity, Knowledge or skill.Exposure does, a 40year old man can be no smarter than a 10 year old if he is in the wrong setting, the issue of age is really not a big deal to me, my parents are 9years apart and they have a wonderful 28year marriage... so what are we talking about? male to female age difference is relative to the parties involved, i don't think its set in stone as this or that or wrong or right, do what makes u happy and move on
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by kcreal(f): 6:44pm On Nov 29, 2012
A friend of mine is getting married to a guy she is 9yrs older than. How about that?

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Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by salolo(m): 6:46pm On Nov 29, 2012
age is just a number
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:47pm On Nov 29, 2012
Input: When I was 15years old I dare not walk up to any girl of 20years let alone 25years to toast else I will get some very hot slaps.Then you will hear things like 'you nor get respect?','you nor know your age? n bla bla bla.
But now when the same guy is 25years old and she is 30 or even 40 years you will begin to hear 'age is just a number','what matters in marriage is love','I love him'
Ladies why?

You don finish these people finally. I no go comment so dem no go say i talk.....hehehehe

Fiineteee... grin
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:47pm On Nov 29, 2012
kcreal: A friend of mine is getting married to a guy she is 9yrs older than. How about that?
Your friend must be wealthy or in some position the guy admires!
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by BrutusOj(m): 6:48pm On Nov 29, 2012
martyns303:
10yrs is like a generation gap, while a 35yr old man is thinking about growing in his career, a 25yr old girl is likely thinking about clubing, there wont be effective communication as their ideas and perception are different and the worst thing a man can do is be in a union with someone who do not share is objectives.
At age 25 a lady is stil clubing up and down n isn't tinking of setling down?dat is dis generation of ladies oo,at age 25 my mum gave birth to me beign d 4th born of ma family oo...a right tinkin Lady shud be considering setlin down anytin from age 23 cos dat's d peak of her shakara n nyanga,anytin 26 she is already losin fans n toasters..
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Nov 29, 2012
Xplodes2700: Age is definitely an issue, it makes me sick hearing a 25yrs old girl even dating a 35yrs old guy, in my own opinion i feel the age difference shud be @ least four years angry

Am around 30 dating a 16yr old girl. Come see love. If no be age and her parents, ''I do'' for don happen.....love covereth all my dear.

I believe in CHEMISTRY....
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:52pm On Nov 29, 2012
Shollypopz, im not jokings o. Im always said my mind.

Dont mind nairalanders people.

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Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:54pm On Nov 29, 2012
^^ are you back? grin grin
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by claremont(m): 6:55pm On Nov 29, 2012
Ideally, age should be no more than a number so long as the age difference is 'within reasonable grounds'; but culturally, an older woman marrying a younger man is frowned upon. It is more generally acceptable for an older man to marry a younger woman than the reverse. Moreover, we all know that the fertility of women declines with advancing age, that alone is a major risk.

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