I want to knw u guys opinion.a female frd of mine who i like to date who is also my coursemate want to explain a topics in mathematics to me. Guys is it adviceable i shld allow her to do the explanation or i shld seek for an explanation frm a male frd. Pls no insult pls.

There is nothing wrong in helping her out as long as you are sure you can keep your focus on the work

Mynd_44: There is nothing wrong in helping her out as long as you are sure you can keep your focus on the work

she is the one that is trying to help me am not the one helping her.

Reuben2012: she is the one that is trying to help me am not the one helping her.

It doesn't matter. Do u think she would look down on u? Nope! It shows your willingness to learn. What u need do is, keep focus and make sure u are able to grab whatever she is dropping asap, cuz ur ability to learn at a speedy rate will give her a good sense of feeling.

Lol, nothing wrong with it. Since you're interested in her, just make sure you're paying attention and not daydreaming or letting your eyes wander.

Reuben2012: she is the one that is trying to help me am not the one helping her.

To a matured girl, it makes you a bigger person cos you are honest enough to admit that you are weak and need help.

This to me is one of the things that makes a man

I don't really get this.OP,do u feel its condescending for her to teach u maths OR Are you afraid one thing might lead to the other and u'll both end up in bed?? Either ways,be a man and control ur feelings.

binger: I don't really get this.OP,do u feel its condescending for her to teach u maths OR Are you afraid one thing might lead to the other and u'll both end up in bed?? Either ways,be a man and control ur feelings.

this is not the issue of sex, am just thinking may be i may lose my mantle as a man if i agree with her to take me that topic. This is what am really thinking.

Reuben2012: this is not the issue of sex, am just thinking may be i may lose my mantle as a man if i agree with her to take me that topic. This is what am really thinking.

So your only concern is her being a female?? A female teaching you math will make you feel less of a man? You need help and someone has offered to help, so suck it up and do what you need to do.

OP since u are not good in mathematics, hope ur bedmatic skills is good enough to compensate for ur fvck up?

Yield:

So your only concern is her being a female?? A female teaching you math will make you feel less of a man? You need help and someone has offered to help, so suck it up and do what you need to do.

thanks for ur advice and also to others who has contributed. But is it adviceable to date my coursemate. i ave a crush on her, i knw that my education matters alot, but i dont ave any gf right now.

Mynd_44: There is nothing wrong in helping her out as long as you are sure you can keep your focus on the work

How can u possibly cope with the work when those things (round, soft, succulent, with thermostatic sensors) *got the picture yet or do i have to post one* are staring you in the face? mathematics is difficult enough when u are concentrating seriously and u want to add a beautiful sexy distraction to it? Looks like a recipe for failure to me. . Abeg look for a male dude unless u wan get better carry over.

9icetoo:
How can u possibly cope with the work when those things (round, soft, succulent, with thermostatic sensors) *got the picture yet or do i have to post one* are staring you in the face? mathematics is difficult enough when u are concentrating seriously and u want to add a beautiful sexy distraction to it? Looks like a recipe for failure to me. . Abeg look for a male dude unless u wan get better carry over.

So if your lecturer is a hot babe, you won't listen in class

Reuben2012: thanks for ur advice and also to others who has contributed. But is it adviceable to date my coursemate. i ave a crush on her, i knw that my education matters alot, but i dont ave any gf right now.

You are a confused person. U jst told me its nt a sex issue,buh now,u are admitting u've got the hots for her. My advice-focus on your studies.you mustn't have a g.f now.It can come later.

Mynd_44:
So if your lecturer is a hot babe, you won't listen in class

He'd probably be busy wanking himself silly and not listening

tashanja:

He'd probably be busy wanking himself silly and not listening

Oh okay

binger: You are a confused person. U jst told me its nt a sex issue,buh now,u are admitting u've got the hots for her. My advice-focus on your studies.you mustn't have a g.f now.It can come later.

when i said this is not a sex issue dosent mean i ave been intimate with her we are just frds who i had a crush on. Even the sum have been settled yesterday without her it was just a misinterpretation ave now got it right. But is a 25yrs old guy still young to date a female partner.

tashanja:

He'd probably be busy wanking himself silly and not listening

u are not to be blame.

Reuben2012: when i said this is not a sex issue dosent mean i ave been intimate with her we are just frds who i had a crush on. Even the sum have been settled yesterday without her it was just a misinterpretation ave now got it right. But is a 25yrs old guy still young to date a female partner.

of course u can.Be bold enough to ask her out and pray it turns out well