ispeed: The poster is not a serious type I offer him a job that can fresh him over 50k per month, even I get one customer for him in abuja but the guy refuse to pick my call again. The nature of the job is marketing, he need to look for customer and I will be the one that handle the rest, 10k per customer and he can get up to 10 customer in a month it depend on how aggressive. I tryeven agree to train him free of charge so he can attend to the customer himself. Oh God I try my best.

HarryPotter: To everyone else on the thread, I 'd like to thank you for your words of encouragement eventhough majority of the promises I received were all words with no action. May God bless everyone.

Zeddicus: Do you think the Woman will remember this thread? Have you sent her a PM?
Take things easy bro, it will get better..

APFM:
How about relocating to Lagos..You may get a good offer

Robertomatteo: I have always heard that succeeding in Nigeria without going into crime is very hard but I have always waved it aside when I see young men and women at the top of their fields doing great. I have always wished that one day I could be like one of these people.

Now, I graduated since 2010 and have served but till now am yet to get any reasonable Job. I stay in Abuja and have submitted applications to virtually every thinkable corner but regrettably, I have only been called up by people offering only blue collar appointments. Places that do not have any means of impacting on your life career wise. Currently, I am working with a guy dealing in phone accessories just to get money for daily meals. Why I am so frustrated is that I am the first in a family of 9 and with my graduation, my parents thought I would be of help to the family soon after school but alas, their dreams don't look like coming to pass. Now, I am being tempted to join a drug trafficking circle. I know all the inherent risk in this type of business but what other choice do I have? I was thinking all through the night and I just thought of coming here to see if I can get alternative help.

Like I said, I stay in Abuja. I am looking for a Job that can pay me N50,000 for a start at least. I don't mind what the Job entails, heck it doesn't even have to be the usual white collar job. Any role that can give me a steady income with room for expansion and advancement in the future.
Please nairalanders, I believe someone on this site can be used by God to turn things around for me. I don't want to go into January next year with this uncertainty hanging around my neck.

And yes, feel free to insult me for indulging in self-pity.