Hmmmmm
I dey laugh!
A lot of experiences indeed. NOTHING LIKE PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST! Simple.
Being in love does not equate will being weak or insecure!

NOBARRY. . . I MEAN NOBARRRRY INTERFERES WITH MY HAPPINESS OR COMFORT.

Double post.

Indeed being in love doesnt equate to being insecure.
Me fainting when I see them doesnt equate to being insecure either. It will be a blow no doubt.

She'll have to go back to wherever the child was conceived to wait for "baby daddy"

The discussion, solution, settling would be done outside my home.

Would I be shocked?Yes! But I'll be 200% alert. Time to wake up, sit tight and "arrange" my kids future. Who knows how many more left outside?
Would you throw away everything you've shared with your man cos some woman turned up with a child?. . .

If it can happen to another woman, why not you?
Is your man a SAINT?
After you faint. . .you wake up and confront the 'drama'!
Simple.

Will I throw it all out? Thats a hard one o. I guess it depends on how this is managed

Nothing to throw out o!
LET THE MAN USE HIS ENERGY AND RESOURCES TO THROW HIMSELF OUT IF HE WISHES!
Your only position is to sit and watch!
Say little and PAY ATTENTION! Your CHILDREN ARE ABOUT TO SHARE INHERITANCE. . . your only business!

IF THAT CHILD IS HIS. . . .HE IS PART OF YOUR FAMILY. . . OR YOU END UP LIKE OJUKWU AND OTHER IRRESPONSIBLE SCATTER-SCATTER TOTOS AND BLOKOSES WHEN HE QUENCHES.

Your role as a WIFE is to unite NOT DISUNITE. . . for the sake of YOUR CHILDREN. . .IF YOU DIE BEFORE THEM(not impossible) . . . TIME TO THINK. . .NOT BYTCH!

The reason women have lots of issues. . . instead of thinking of the future, they will concentrate on NONSENSE. . .especially with children left to fued against each other after the YEYE parents are long gone.

Sheeeeeeeeeeeeeesh!

jidegirl12:

Abi now cooger ..... Wetin Gawd pikin fit do now?
Tsk tsk tsk

( shakes head and crunches a big bite of celery tsk )

if na papa gi d0 dis king fin nk0?] Pls save me fr0m dis

Fire! God pls dnt let it happen 2 me. Will my marriage survive it?

Freiburger: Ladies, what will be your reaction if a strange woman appears in your matrimonial home and claims with prove that your husband is the father of her ten years old child?

The wedding would be called off with immediate effect!!
We will get the situation straightened out before I say "i do"
to anything!!

Tgirl4real: It's been like more than a week now.

Please check and also check your spam folder.

It's about this thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/1114121/nairaland-online-reality-family-show

Hmmm, Ibidapo obe's same runs

AG.gal:
Fire! God pls dnt let it happen 2 me. Will my marriage survive it?

My sister your marriage will survive it, if you want it too.

I think the best advice I have heard hear is to say little and be attentive and let your husband handle it. Me I will put my feet down and not let the woman stay, the kid can come for hols...Am not a fan for separating kids from their mothers just because I want to get back at her. But if husband dearest decides he needs another wife then maybe I need to buy rat medicine

Just see how guys are avoiding this topic

preshuzpearl: Just see how guys are avoiding this topic

If the child was before our wedding, no problems. If it is after our wedding, i need explanations.all the same the child remain his son, so i cant kill the child neither would i kill my husband. but some conditions will be set straight and right!

preshuzpearl: Just see how guys are avoiding this topic

its a ladies thread
we are quietly watching

Blazay: Nothing to throw out o!
LET THE MAN USE HIS ENERGY AND RESOURCES TO THROW HIMSELF OUT IF HE WISHES!
Your only position is to sit and watch!
Say little and PAY ATTENTION! Your CHILDREN ARE ABOUT TO SHARE INHERITANCE. . . your only business!

IF THAT CHILD IS HIS. . . .HE IS PART OF YOUR FAMILY. . . OR YOU END UP LIKE OJUKWU AND OTHER IRRESPONSIBLE SCATTER-SCATTER TOTOS AND BLOKOSES WHEN HE QUENCHES.

Your role as a WIFE is to unite NOT DISUNITE. . . for the sake of YOUR CHILDREN. . .IF YOU DIE BEFORE THEM(not impossible) . . . TIME TO THINK. . .NOT BYTCH!

The reason women have lots of issues. . . instead of thinking of the future, they will concentrate on NONSENSE. . .especially with children left to fued against each other after the YEYE parents are long gone.

Sheeeeeeeeeeeeeesh!

Well said. I agree with this.

What's d point of raising fire and brimstone? D deal is been done already. So, it's either u embrace it calmly or u scatter and lose all you built together.

Baba_O:
Hmmm, Ibidapo obe's same runs

I don't get u.

they are long over due. I have been waiting for the duo since I got married more than a decade ago. I go ask whether hold up kept them away for these14 yrs?

[b]My people,
This is something I have been secretly hoping should happen to me any time.
I mean, if I knew what I know now, I would have gotten married many years before I did and had kids much older than the lovely ones I have now. Or I would have had some sef before getting married (I abhored this idea before, but now I don't). So if mother luck shines on me and some woman turns up with a 10 year+ old kid that is actualy mine. Chai I will kill goat or even Nama to wellcome the kid. Ofcourse am a happily married man, so accepting the kid doesnt translate to accepting the mum as a second wife. No, not at all. Of course the kid will live with me henceforth. My wife will surely understand (it will be in her interest to understand). Because she knows I love a large family but she is not ready to give more than 4 kids (as a modern lady,o di nma), and am not ready to marry another wife. So if an old affair suddenly yields a grown up kid I will shout HALLELUYAH for real. I love kids. So am ready to have as many as I can "comfortably take very good care of".[/b]