As the hubby, what would you do? What would you think of her?

there is more to just saying *she lied*, you have to dig deeper and understand why she did and her state of mind at the time. so you must go back and ask her these questions:
* Why did you lie?
* What did you expect to gain from such lie?
* Did you think I was stupid enough not to find out eventually?
* What kind of family/home do you expect to build on deceit?

Her answers would decide on what actions to take.

Ignore her of course!
I am already married to her abi?
For berra for worse. . .remember?

When your wife lies to you about her salary it means she's preparing for a future without you. That's the sad truth.

I really don't care about how much she earn.

So she have no reason to lie.

i neva get wife

Get real!
You are ALREADY MARRIED. . . It is your responsibility to build YOUR MARRIAGE THE WAY YOU WANT IT. . .even if she has erred!
Perhaps it is your 'high-handedness' that makes her to TELL LIES!
If the husband has not been STEALING her money for some booze or 'other things' like ashawos and IGBO. . .she would not be forced to tell lies!
If you set a good example. . . she would learn to trust you!
Period!

Marriage is not a bed of roses. . . sometimes you win and sometimes you lose!
No successful marriage comes with a manual of operation. . .UNLESS YOU ARE NOT MARRIED. . . Then wait till you get in to see how difficult for 2 people to agree AT ANY GIVEN TIME!

Thank you!

Ask her why she lied,if there is no good reason then At least u now know u married a selfish liar,she should use her money to start buying herself certain things u used to buy her.

Ask her why she lied,if there is no good reason then At least u now know u married a selfish liar, and be sure that's not all she is been hiding from u.

there obv has to be reasons why she lied , maybe your the type that feels that if your wife earns higher then na taboo
well as for me there should be no lying at all there should be communication

Stealing what? The guy is comfortable!
[quote author=Blazay]Get real!
You are ALREADY MARRIED. . . It is your responsibility to build YOUR MARRIAGE THE WAY YOU WANT IT. . .even if she has erred!
Perhaps it is your 'high-handedness' that makes her to TELL LIES!
If the husband has not been STEALING her money for some booze or 'other things' like ashawos and IGBO. . .she would not be forced to tell lies!
If you set a good example. . . she would learn to trust you!
Period!

Marriage is not a bed of roses. . . sometimes you win and sometimes

mimi321: there obv has to be reasons why she lied , maybe your the type that feels that if your wife earns higher then na taboo
well as for me there should be no lying at all there should be communication

Far from that!

afam4eva: When your wife lies to you about her salary it means she's preparing for a future without you. That's the sad truth.

This one harsh O!

Most people here dont understand married women at all!

All Good Women always keep some extra cash from their husband!
Provided the woman is doing somethings in the home with her money I dont think you should be worried about how much she earns. It is your duty to provide for for her!

Make your own money!

kilimanjaro:
As the hubby, what would you do? What would you think of her?

Well, there are those who don't believe in revealing ALL to their spouse. So, if you are one of those, depending on the exact lie told, I think their isn't then a good enough reason to take offense.

nothing, correct her the best way

Op, my question is: have you been oberving something fishy about her? Is she a chronic liar?

As long as she doesn't neglect her duties as a wife, it is trivial ... It is her salary, she can lie to heaven about it!

kilimanjaro:
Far from that!

explain

poster, send her away. i hate it when wives lied to their husband. they could do anything.

i don't think that if a man treat his wife well, she can tell him lies,unless if she have bad adviser.
but let ur wife trust you,if she trusted you she can tell you who wrongfully advise her.
let her confide in you,woman are very easy and good to have.
i love my wife and she have not lied to me i guess.

mayor-cowboy:
i don't think that if a man treat his wife well, she can tell him lies,unless if she have bad adviser.
but let ur wife trust you,if she trusted you she can tell you who wrongfully advise her.
let her confide in you,woman are very easy and good to have.
i love my wife and she have not lied to me i guess.

Jesus wept

afam4eva: When your wife lies to you about her salary it means she's preparing for a future without you. That's the sad truth.

This is just the fact,she is up to some thing.

Please people there's reason for her to lie,may be she's afraid that if she tells her husband,he would stop giving her money knowing the type of man she married. She's the one that wears the shoe and knows where it pinches her.
Some men when they know their wife earns high,they will just abandon all †ђξ financial responsibilitiesto the woman..Abeg free the woman jo! Action and reaction are equal and opposite. Oga check yourself well.
My opinion though!

afam4eva: When your wife lies to you about her salary it means she's preparing for a future without you. That's the sad truth.

She might have lied if the husband can't handle her earning more than him assuming she earns more.

arapoa: poster, send her away. i hate it when wives lied to their husband. they could do anything.

u harsh o

Cuddlemii: If your wife lies about her salary, then, you need to check yourself. That is the sad truth!
I don't blame some women for doing this. Money is the root of all evil and triggers some effects if not properly managed

Some men spend their wife's money on mistresses and night life leaving their wives haggard & dry.
Some kill their wives in order to inherit their wealth & marry younger lovers.
Some men abscond with their wife's money with a younger lover.

It could also be out of humility.
Sometimes you don't want to appear pompous, proud or intimidating, you just want your hubby to love you for you and not feel threatened or obligated.

If a lady keeps her salary away from her man, then, she is playing safe not necessary hoping to spend the man's money.
A lady has to secure her future with the kind two faced men we have all over the place that lack discipline

^^^^ Gbam!!! @ bolded

@all,
Thanks for the inputs. The point is - the husband is comfortable, he never depends on his wife, this man has built his own house and has two cars.
Why then would she lie?

She probably lied to massage her husbands ego.

Not that lying to one's spouse/husband is good.

kilimanjaro: @all,
Thanks for the inputs. The point is - the husband is comfortable, he never depends on his wife, this man has built his own house and has two cars.
Why then would she lie?

There are good ladies & bad ones, if she is a good one, then she is planing for some independence based on what she is facing wit d husband, so i think d husband shd still check himself. D husband shd know better