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Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by OCTAVO: 12:09am On Dec 14, 2012
Most men become less caring and a little more aggressive after marriage. Infact, some become extremely violent.
I think the constitution should enforce compulsory psychiatric evaluation for couples intending to marry.

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by jhydebaba(m): 12:16am On Dec 14, 2012
Why do women change after marriage

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by Emusan(m): 12:24am On Dec 14, 2012
@op u nid to ansa dis

1) are u a Male or Female

2) hav u married or not

3) are u a victim or happen to your friends.

because my granpa is a Male, marry my grandma and somth like dis happen to his friend. gringringringrin

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by dominique(f): 12:25am On Dec 14, 2012
^^^Men change more than women.

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by OCTAVO: 12:27am On Dec 14, 2012
jhydebaba: Why do women change after marriage
Changes exhibited by men are worse jor. They use their position as the head to their advantage.

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by omega25red(m): 12:52am On Dec 14, 2012
because they realize that marriage isn't all what it's cracked up to be grin

same face constantly nagging, asking for money, getting preggers, etc

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by k2039: 6:08am On Dec 14, 2012
Only one thing is constant in life, CHANGE.

As the marriage progressess, certain parameters changes like beuty fades, child rearing, more responsibility etc, but for a real man there is always a correction factor which annuls the effect of the changes and it's called COMMITMENT(commitment will reduce the effect of those changes, it simply means inspite of this changes we will make each other happy and ensure this marriage works).

Most times it's not really that people change after marriage, it's just that most people are blind enough to see their partner for who he was or he was probably pretending, the chase is over, the prize is won, now you are exposed to the real him.

At other times it is as a result of the third law of motion, for every action their is a corresponding reaction.What that means is that the changes could be as a result of changes in the woman, example nagging, laziness etc.

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 7:04am On Dec 14, 2012
Immaturity, lack of a balanced diet and for some too much alcohol angry

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by seunfly: 7:31am On Dec 14, 2012
The truth is that ladies often go for what they are seeing at the present during dating rather than look at the future. Some of this thing are usualy faked by men to attract those girls and atlast they changed to their normal self. Some of those things are:
*Money, girls tend to run after a guy that spend alot. What they usualy don't consider is (1)can this spending be sustainable? (2)will she be happy if after marriage her hubby is still spending thesame way? (3)if a man is spending like this for his gf, won't he do thesame thing to other girlfriends after she is married to him.
* Care, sometimes what girls considered as care during dating may not be real care, most are done to satisfy the lady so as to get her. many times ladies seems not to identify it. They just get carried away with the enjoyment of that time and they inpiared their own judgment to walk into something unrealistic.
*The truth, some ladies are carried away with the moments so much that they are realy unprepare to know the truth about their guy, hence they will discard the tought to seek the truth.

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 7:48am On Dec 14, 2012
mondi_cheeks: Immaturity, lack of a balanced diet and for some too much alcohol angry
the bolded got me lolling...mondi,hw can imbalanced diet cause a change in one's attitude?
Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by tajikwan411(m): 8:24am On Dec 14, 2012
Men do not really change after marriage, the western ideology has damaged our ethics and reasoning. Men are polygamous beings and that will never change , because they are created so by God. If you disagree with this fact, you are simply impotent or you are a gay!(gay). OR try eradicating Prostitution joints and see the reactions from married and unmarried men alike!

Men are not meant to be satisfied by just One woman alone, that's why the average census statistics of world stands @ 8 women to 1 man or higher in every country. So by the western christian rule of one man to one woman, that is bullshit! Islam gives 4 women to a Man; though with conditions, so which is better?, the African tradition also supports polygamy, so does the holy bible.
If truly all women deserves a man, then at 1 man to 1 woman, the extra women should all be come NUNS!
grin[color=#000099][/color]

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by laykhorn(m): 9:21am On Dec 14, 2012
If you dey chop 1 bread flavour for a long tym, u no go tyr?
Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by OCTAVO: 10:12am On Dec 14, 2012
mondi_cheeks: Immaturity, lack of a balanced diet and for some too much alcohol angry
This is rib cracking i swear...
Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by OCTAVO: 10:14am On Dec 14, 2012
laykhorn: If you dey chop 1 bread flavour for a long tym, u no go tyr?
In other words....?
Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by OCTAVO: 10:20am On Dec 14, 2012
tajikwan411: Men do not really change after marriage, the western ideology has damaged our ethics and reasoning. Men are polygamous beings and that will never change , because they are created so by God. If you disagree with this fact, you are simply impotent or you are a gay!(gay). OR try eradicating Prostitution joints and see the reactions from married and unmarried men alike!

Men are not meant to be satisfied by just One woman alone, that's why the average census statistics of world stands @ 8 women to 1 man or higher in every country. So by the western christian rule of one man to one woman, that is bullshit! Islam gives 4 women to a Man; though with conditions, so which is better?, the African tradition also supports polygamy, so does the holy bible.
If truly all women deserves a man, then at 1 man to 1 woman, the extra women should all be come NUNS!
grin[color=#000099][/color]
You are a serious joker!

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by laykhorn(m): 10:24am On Dec 14, 2012
OCTAVO:
In other words....?
my brother! After you've goten ur hands on it, most people dont seem to value errm.. U knw wha i'm sayin
Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by vicky6: 10:44am On Dec 14, 2012
all people change after marriage, its because you are the person you think your spouse wants to be before you get married,
but you can only keep that up for so long, so after you get married you become yourself,
and most of the time, that's not the person the other person married

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 11:21am On Dec 14, 2012
binger: the bolded got me lolling...mondi,hw can imbalanced diet cause a change in one's attitude?
he doesn't eat right, he gets diabetes and heart attacks...the whole family hs to put up wit it...he jus becomes too needy
Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by usermane(m): 11:32am On Dec 14, 2012
Because people rnt always who they appear to b. That man that chased u relentlessly might seem 2 b truly in love bt time has proved u fell 4 an obscession. A deep intense obscession merged with passion that will only deflate into disinterest and distastefulness

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by usermane(m): 11:40am On Dec 14, 2012
Because people rnt always who they appear to b. Both men and woman try impress each other by wearing d coat of pretence decorated with lies. This coat can only serve till d knot is tied. Eventually d coat is pulled off and d real character is apparent, far worse than d inital alter-ego.

That man that chased u relentlessly might seem 2 b truly in love bt time has proved u fell 4 an obscession. A deep intense obscession merged with passion that will only deflate into disinterest and distastefulness

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by dilbert100: 1:43pm On Dec 14, 2012
because they feel they dont need to "try" anymore
Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by TableLeg(m): 1:44pm On Dec 14, 2012
OCTAVO:
Changes exhibited by men is worse jor. They use their position as the head to their advantage.
Change is change .... Regardless of the magnitude
People are going to change no matter what, you just have to hope the changes are not too bad to manage!
Your topic should have been why do men and women change after marriage!
Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by 5much(m): 1:45pm On Dec 14, 2012
waiting for mature,married men to contribute. its a nice question.

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by TableLeg(m): 1:46pm On Dec 14, 2012
dilbert100: because they feel they dont need to "try" anymore
Crap.... Not trying starts even before marriage ... Once you get what you want, you relax, that is the deal with most folks nowadays!
Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by jaybee3(m): 1:46pm On Dec 14, 2012
Some get bored
Some like the trill
Some are just dawgggggggs

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by omar22(m): 1:57pm On Dec 14, 2012
mondi_cheeks: Immaturity, lack of a balanced diet and for some too much alcohol


Ha ha ha ha ha ha

We have women (mostly Nigerians)who before they got married their waistline would be between size 10-12 after marriage they would be pushing for size 18, 20 as if in their previous life they were slaves. why wont a guy go off the wife, he married a stunning bird not[b] BIG BIRD[/b] I beg joor, an oyinbo woman would do everything everyday to look stunning for her hubby, a naija woman once you put the ping on her finger thats when you would know the true woman you married.

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 1:59pm On Dec 14, 2012
OCTAVO: Most men become less caring and a little more aggressive after marriage. Infact, some become extremely violent.
I think the constitution should enforce compulsory psychiatric evaluation for couples intending to marry.

U CANT BLAME THEM TOTALLY. IMAGINE IF U WERE ABOUT TO BUY A SPORTS CAR AND IT COST U SO MUCH ONLY 4 U TO REALIZE THAT THE CAR IS NOT WHAT U EXPECTED IT TO BE. IT DOESNT MOVE SO FAST ITS NOT SO SLEEK AS IT APPEARED IN THE SHOW ROOM WHAT WOULD U DO? NOW YOU CAN EITHER MAKE THE BEST OF IT, MANAGE IT HOPING 4 THE BEST. OR U CAN DITCH THE CAR AND GET ANOTHER.

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by tellwsdom: 1:59pm On Dec 14, 2012
OCTAVO:
Changes exhibited by men is worse jor. They use their position as the head to their advantage.


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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by jerseyboy: 1:59pm On Dec 14, 2012
After the 1,000 fu#ck, you get more excitement squeezing an orange than her bobby.

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by Coldfeet(f): 2:00pm On Dec 14, 2012
Not all! Just those that were hiding or pretending about who they really are!

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Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by pretim(f): 2:00pm On Dec 14, 2012
ok am learning no gud points yet
Re: Why Do Men Change After Marriage? by Ice4jez(m): 2:00pm On Dec 14, 2012
most men change after marriage becos the goods they brought when open was less than their expectation.

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