petokey:
You know u aint telling urself the truth. How wil you know if a guy is not a virgin? Please i should not be misunderstood, aside sentiment, when u look at life generally, u wil know that life has not been to the female gender. I hav no choice than to say am proud to be a male and lucky as well. So ladies protect ur pride and we will give u ur respect.

joeydozzy:

your view as I see it is pointless and what else do you think I was talking about. you can't just come here chastising the female non-virgins and not doing the same to your gender. Its barbaric

petokey:
i know ur type, u ar just trying to win favour frm d ladies. Keep it up. The truth they say is bitter.

D-Explorer:

And you think it's just an African thing? I repeat, these are the consolations or maybe your points aren't clear enough. How is a lady dis-virgined? You said it doesn't mean she's promiscuous and whotnot. How do we have something larger than a candle stick penetrate a lady? Self servicing? Intimacy? I don't know what can justify your claims of been moral and not promiscuous. Don't tell me about hymen tear because that's an infinitesimal measure.

Eze Promoe: Counter-topic

Nigerian ladies, what if he's not rich

To all the
Nigerian ladies out
there, the fact
that he's not
rich and has
nothing doing to show for his hardwork does
not make him
any less of a
man without
any iota of
diligence
whatsoever, i
believe so many
nigerian ladies
or particularly
the african one
places too much
emphasis on
whether a
man is
rich or not.
There are some
self-proclaimed
rich men and
sometimes you
have to wonder
if this "richman" has been smoking
the biggest blunt
of them all,
because his
actions and
manner of approach speak
otherwise, and
then there are
some men
who aren't
rich and you
have to wonder
whether he's
lying to save
money or just
ashamed of his wealth.
Nigerian ladies
and women
what i'm trying
to say is people
change, as the
saying goes the
only thing
constant in this
life is change.
People change all
the time, just
because he's
had not so
pleasant financial status
doesn't
necessarily
mean he can't
be a good husband
and can't be
responsible like
most ladies want
in their men,
in a scenario
where you meet
a man, end up
liking him and
he confidently
tells you he
has no money
judgement upon
this man
starts almost
immediately,
"he's a poor man" "i
can't marry a
poor/trying man" as if you yourselves all came from rich family i
beg, As if being a
rich man will buy true love or keep the
marriage sacred
and holy, ladies so try and
be nice, i love all
people rich men or
trying men, we
are all people
with a human
soul! Thanks

Eze Promoe: Counter-topic

Nigerian ladies, what if he's not rich

To all the
Nigerian ladies out
there, the fact
that he's not
rich and has
nothing doing to show for his hardwork does
not make him
any less of a
man without
any iota of
diligence
whatsoever, i
believe so many
nigerian ladies
or particularly
the african one
places too much
emphasis on
whether a
man is
rich or not.
There are some
self-proclaimed
rich men and
sometimes you
have to wonder
if this "richman" has been smoking
the biggest blunt
of them all,
because his
actions and
manner of approach speak
otherwise, and
then there are
some men
who aren't
rich and you
have to wonder
whether he's
lying to save
money or just
ashamed of his wealth.
Nigerian ladies
and women
what i'm trying
to say is people
change, as the
saying goes the
only thing
constant in this
life is change.
People change all
the time, just
because he's
had not so
pleasant financial status
doesn't
necessarily
mean he can't
be a good husband
and can't be
responsible like
most ladies want
in their men,
in a scenario
where you meet
a man, end up
liking him and
he confidently
tells you he
has no money
judgement upon
this man
starts almost
immediately,
"he's a poor man" "i
can't marry a
poor/trying man" as if you yourselves all came from rich family i
beg, As if being a
rich man will buy true love or keep the
marriage sacred
and holy, ladies so try and
be nice, i love all
people rich men or
trying men, we
are all people
with a human
soul! Thanks

huni_naija:

Has it ever occurred to you that this "non-virgin" may have been molested or r&aped against her own will? Has it ever occurred to you that she may have done it for the first time, naive as she was only to realize she made a mistake and never indulged in such an act again, only to be castigated by her society because she's not a virgin? Should she go and hide her face because she's not holy?

D-Explorer:

Now we're on the same page. Since you agreed that she has done it somehow, then that means at one point of her life, she played it dirty. Now that's lack of morals and self-worth but if you include räpe to the list then that joins hymen tear on the infinitesimal measure.

Eze Promoe: Counter-topic

Nigerian ladies, what if he's not rich

To all the
Nigerian ladies out
there, the fact
that he's not
rich and has
nothing doing to show for his hardwork does
not make him
any less of a
man without
any iota of
diligence
whatsoever, i
believe so many
nigerian ladies
or particularly
the african one
places too much
emphasis on
whether a
man is
rich or not.
There are some
self-proclaimed
rich men and
sometimes you
have to wonder
if this "richman" has been smoking
the biggest blunt
of them all,
because his
actions and
manner of approach speak
otherwise, and
then there are
some men
who aren't
rich and you
have to wonder
whether he's
lying to save
money or just
ashamed of his wealth.
Nigerian ladies
and women
what i'm trying
to say is people
change, as the
saying goes the
only thing
constant in this
life is change.
People change all
the time, just
because he's
had not so
pleasant financial status
doesn't
necessarily
mean he can't
be a good husband
and can't be
responsible like
most ladies want
in their men,
in a scenario
where you meet
a man, end up
liking him and
he confidently
tells you he
has no money
judgement upon
this man
starts almost
immediately,
"he's a poor man" "i
can't marry a
poor/trying man" as if you yourselves all came from rich family i
beg, As if being a
rich man will buy true love or keep the
marriage sacred
and holy, ladies so try and
be nice, i love all
people rich men or
trying men, we
are all people
with a human
soul! Thanks

huni_naija:

Whichever way you put it the fact still remains that non of us are perfect, virgin or no virgin. Like i said in my post people change, no one should be castigated because of our past, no matter how small or big!

D-Explorer:

That's right, people change and we shouldn't be castigated because of our past. Also know that, the enormous cases of once a virgin now dis-virgined can majorly be ascribed to divers sexüal rumble. Now that's lack of morals and self-worth.

huni_naija:

Completely out of context. Try again dear!

huni_naija:

"Can majorly be ascribed to diverse sexual rumble" No documents or statistics to back this statement up or you're just jumping to conclusions to prove a point?

D-Explorer:

No dear, the quoted is indeed perceptible. Nothing has majorly torn a hymen than a diçk.

Eze Promoe:
Always coming on NL to create wack topic. Can't you gain more knowledge on what to post as topic before itching to make your 'debut topic'?

huni_naija:

No one is arguing against that, if you read and comprehended the topic at hand you would have realised i said this does not equate to the fact that she has no morals or self-worth. Just because she indulged in the act does not make her loose any value whatsoever!

D-Explorer:

Oh well she lost the pride of being a virgin. That's value young woman, that's self-worth! Stop defending what's unethical. You can't tell if a lady had sëx just once and be aware that once open can always be open because it comes with a desire. Limit your defense to räpe and hymen tear then i got no point against you.

401kk: Men will (most of the time)prefer to marry virgins for various obvious reasons which I don't have the time list out.

But In this sexually active society, being a true
virgin is a meaningless condition, because
men love sex. AIDs and dying has not
slowed people down one second.
Marriage is an obsolete arrangement
because women are more self-sufficent
now, so who cares if she is a virgin.
Unfortunately in the Black community,
Black girls have sex so early that they are
considered virgins if they have less than
two children.

huni_naija:

Pride in being a virgin? When certain women are even stigmatized for being virgins! The world in which we live in doesn't value anything moral anymore including virgins, even the men who want to marry so called virgins would be the first dis-virgin her without any form of commitment whatsoever if given the chance.

ayurdavid: @ huni, u don spread ur thin legs loose ur virginity finish come dey look for sympathy abi. Yeye thing

KateSpade: if you aren't a virgin, you are a loose woman. its a fact. no man wants to marry a trollop.

a woman's virginity is her special gift. it holds together all her morals and dignity.

ayurdavid: @ huni, u don spread ur thin legs loose ur virginity finish come dey look for sympathy abi. Yeye thing

D-Explorer:

That's why i said your thread is a consolation to non-virgins. You wrote it based on the decadence in the society. In as much as i'm not all out in search of virgins, the few around got massive pride and to be adored by logical minds.

Eze Promoe:
Exactly what i would have posted just now, 'she has come to justify her action, maybe she lost hers so cheaply

ayurdavid: @ huni, u don spread ur thin legs loose ur virginity finish come dey look for sympathy abi. Yeye thing

huni_naija:

And i respect your view, virgins are a pride to any society they find themselves in, they exhibit self-control and a strong mind and should be applauded. No qualms!

swtdarling: i wonder why women are more castigated for not being virgins than men.if a woman is called immoral for loosing her virginity,so should the man!