Why do ladies see getting married as a challenge/victory? Why do men refuse marriage?
Why do men view marriage as being "tie down".
Who get the blame for marriage refusals- the man or the lady?

MARRIAGE IS A BOOOOOOOOOOOOOORE!!!!!!

Why do ladies see getting married as a challenge/victory?

Because the ratio of women to men amongst NIGERIANS is 100-1 AND RISING! Always a challenge and a VICTORY whem your H-ELIMINATE you blokos-'Unting opponents!
It becomes a marra of which toto sweet pass. . .OR WHO PAPA GET MONI PASS!

Who get the blame for marriage refusals- the man or the lady?

First. . .the woman because she is young and IN DEMAND!
Then the man. . . because the woman gets OLD AND DESPERATE!

Why do men view marriage as being "tie down".

Because 'jobless' women actually try to TIE MEN DOWN!
Once most women get married. . .they CEASE TO HAVE LIVES and try to strangulate their husbands in the name of 'obeying VOWS'!

Who get the blame for marriage refusals- the man or the lady?

Question already answered. . . age determines this. Women are in demand when the are younger and naive. Men become more desirable when they are older, more settled and ALREADY MARRIED! Simple!