Wat will b ur next line of action if u ur girl told you she has aborted many times before falling in love with u? Respond sensibly

Educate her more about birth control. Emphasize as much as you can that abortion is Not a method for birth control.
Pleeze do not be judgmental she needs help.

Davico: Wat will b ur next line of action if u ur girl told you she has aborted many times before falling in love with u? Respond sensibly

I think what would be more F'ed up is if you get her pregnant and you are not ready to settle down and she refuses to get the abortion.

if i b guy, i go test drive d abuna whilst dating to see if Kasali d abe bridge doctor no shift d gal womb.if i score, we go marry. shebi na she and God get gbege? if she go hell fire, na her cross.

as a reasonable naija man i go cut off the relationship

sista-jay:
Educate her more about birth control. Emphasize as much as you can that abortion is Not a method for birth control.
Pleeze do not be judgmental she needs help.

Will u advice the guy to continue with d relationship?

omega25red: I think what would be more F'ed up is if you get her pregnant and you are not ready to settle down and she refuses to get the abortion.

Dat will be a classic drama.

Many times or one time, I quit...

For her to have been pregnant many times say something about her.
For her to have aborted many time show who she is. Once may be ignorance, twice may be mistake, many time is an habit. Sorry can't roll with some one with that kind of habit, show me ur friend and i will tell you who u are. I will run away immediatly.

For her to av told me herself means she is worried and has repented from doing so. As for me, I will take her to d hospital and test her if she can be pregnant again and if d result yields positive den I will take her and advise her not to indulge in dat act again, come wat may.

sista-jay:
Educate her more about birth control. Emphasize as much as you can that abortion is Not a method for birth control.
Pleeze do not be judgmental she needs help.

u need help

Davico:
Will u advice the guy to continue with d relationship?

Sadly I can't advice the guy on what to do, its his decision to make and that will depend on how he feels about her.

seunfly: For her to have been pregnant many times say something about her.
For her to have aborted many time show who she is. Once may be ignorance, twice may be mistake, many time is an habit. Sorry can't roll with some one with that kind of habit, show me ur friend and i will tell you who u are. I will run away immediatly.

But she swore she has changed

Huh! Yoruba proverb take am say,'Ko si bi a se se ebolo ko ma ru gbe'...'ko si bi o se toju elede to,o si ma lo inu erofo'.
This tin is now her habit,telling doesnt mean she has changed.
Truely 4 me,i cant continue with such suicidal relationship.
...Ma ya wa Onitemi si iwaju...
...Mi ole wa fi ina sori orule su...i cant sleep with fire under my bed.

All of una de talk, yet if she don born una go say "I can't marry a girl dat already has a child" o

190-the-clown:
Na 2begin celebrate na

celebrate wat? dat u wont ve to marry her?

i will come to nairaland and post it to show how indecisive a man i am

For her to have aborted many times proves she is not responsible enuff. I cant continue with such a lady. I cant

I met last gf in the university two days after she had an abortoin. I met her crying in a church and I started consoling her and encouraging her. She never told me what happened. We parted ways and saw each other later and we continued from there, we started dating and she told me about the abortion, That night was the night I knew I would leave her, two months later I graduated and that was just how our relationship slowly and gradually fell apart until it finally ended.
Its better if a girl doesn't tell me that, because if she does, that ll just be the end of us.
I really don't like the abortion idea and can never force my girl to do one.
Think about it, if yo mama aborted you when she was pregnant with you would you be here having sex and planing to abort another innocent child?

what is you are the one who gets her pregnant repeatedly and ask her to abort? you know many women are so stupid that they do it repeatedly to their own detrimetnt instead of ending the relationship

How well do you know her?

gree-die:


celebrate wat? dat u wont ve to marry her?

What if she discovers he left a child everywhere he went and he is not maintaining any of them...what should be done then

mondi_cheeks: What if she discovers he left a child everywhere he went and he is not maintaining any of them...what should be done then

Lets respond to dat as well

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]What if she discovers he left a child everywhere he went and he is not maintaining any of them...what should be done then [/quotes
Hmm