usmsam: Good day Nlers
My girlfriend of nearly two years came back last weekend from her 'business trip' in Naija which lasted 6 weeks, looking like a ghost and wants me to believe she did not use the money I gave her for the trip to bleach her life away.

MY PROBLEM
Mid November 2012, she told me she wanted to make a business trip down to Naija to buy land in her hometown in Edo state. She wanted me to give her about £3,000 for this transaction and I agreed, foolishly. I really did not question what she wanted to because of two reasons. First of all, anything business in Nigeria doesn't really interest me and secondly she sounded like she knew what she was doing. She kept talking about it for a while and showed me pictures of prospective places that she wanted to buy. She told me about how she got her brother to survey a particular land she liked and I was impressed by how determined she was. In all fairness, I was really pleased that she was actually thinking in a business like manner because her past behaviors included wasting my money anyhow buying clothes, weaves, creams, etc (like a person on crack).
Anyways, what I think she really did is that she spent her 6 weeks in Naija on a spending spree in Lagos with her friends during Christmas and New year with my own hard earned cash. I believe so because I asked her if she bought the land, she replied no first, then a hesitant yes. When I told to produce the deed and documents that showed that she actually bought it, it was one story to another. I got so fed up because the only things she had to show me from her journey were new hair, designer clothing and her yellow/bleached skin. She left cold London looking like a normal black woman, to Naija where the sun shines everyday for 6 whole weeks, and came back looking like an oyinbo person. She said that the reason why that happened was because her skin reacts to cold environment that is why she was dark here in London. I swear sometimes she thinks I am an slowpoke. It has not been the first time she had tried bleaching her skin. In May, she spent nearly £700 of my money online on bleaching creams and soaps. We nearly broke up because of that and she promised never to do it again. That was even small compared to what she has done now. I personally hate skin bleachers and I told her that before. But it seems like she has forgotten or just doesn't care.

MY SOLUTION
I am planning to break up with her before she will finish me. I am currently still doing my investigations as to what this girl did exactly with my money when she travelled down to Naija. I am also trying to perfect a plan on how to collect my money back. Any suggestions?

usmsam: Good day Nlers
My girlfriend of nearly two years came back last weekend from her 'business trip' in Naija which lasted 6 weeks, looking like a ghost and wants me to believe she did not use the money I gave her for the trip to bleach her life away.

MY PROBLEM
Mid November 2012, she told me she wanted to make a business trip down to Naija to buy land in her hometown in Edo state. She wanted me to give her about £3,000 for this transaction and I agreed, foolishly. I really did not question what she wanted to because of two reasons. First of all, anything business in Nigeria doesn't really interest me and secondly she sounded like she knew what she was doing. She kept talking about it for a while and showed me pictures of prospective places that she wanted to buy. She told me about how she got her brother to survey a particular land she liked and I was impressed by how determined she was. In all fairness, I was really pleased that she was actually thinking in a business like manner because her past behaviors included wasting my money anyhow buying clothes, weaves, creams, etc (like a person on crack).
Anyways, what I think she really did is that she spent her 6 weeks in Naija on a spending spree in Lagos with her friends during Christmas and New year with my own hard earned cash. I believe so because I asked her if she bought the land, she replied no first, then a hesitant yes. When I told to produce the deed and documents that showed that she actually bought it, it was one story to another. I got so fed up because the only things she had to show me from her journey were new hair, designer clothing and her yellow/bleached skin. She left cold London looking like a normal black woman, to Naija where the sun shines everyday for 6 whole weeks, and came back looking like an oyinbo person. She said that the reason why that happened was because her skin reacts to cold environment that is why she was dark here in London. I swear sometimes she thinks I am an slowpoke. It has not been the first time she had tried bleaching her skin. In May, she spent nearly £700 of my money online on bleaching creams and soaps. We nearly broke up because of that and she promised never to do it again. That was even small compared to what she has done now. I personally hate skin bleachers and I told her that before. But it seems like she has forgotten or just doesn't care.

MY SOLUTION
I am planning to break up with her before she will finish me. I am currently still doing my investigations as to what this girl did exactly with my money when she travelled down to Naija. I am also trying to perfect a plan on how to collect my money back. Any suggestions?

Dyt: Na wa
Almost all d threads I come abt dese days are abt money
Pls ayam still single n searching o
A very rich dude actually
and must b enormously generous
Thnk u