Many men are never taught how to talk to women. Because of this many guys go through life without the ability to attract a woman. Here are 15 tips to help make sure you aren't making mistakes with the women you’d like to attract:

1. You should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.

2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. While talking to a woman take control of the conversation. Never wait for her to dictate what you’ll be talking about.

3. Pay attention to the non verbal cues a woman is giving you. If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.

4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny.” Women are attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don’t concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing them the most excitement and enjoyment.

5. Tease women. One of the easiest ways to take a conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease women. Think back to your time on the playground. In the world of dating… what worked on the playground is effective all over again.

6. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level.

7. Use things like “cold reads” to turn women on. Women love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you observe about her.

8. Avoid complimenting a woman too much. Women are turned off by men who come across as “needy.” If you are complimenting a woman too much she will think you’re trying to impress her. Which will have the opposite effect.

9. If you want to know how to talk to women in a way that doesn’t bore them… Avoid asking too many “interview” style questions. Instead state your opinion about things.

10. Remember: Statements over questions. Instead of saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like you grew up around here.” This allows you to make observations about her and express your personality.

11. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about whatever you’re passionate about.

12. Never compliment her on her eyes, looks, or body.

13. Say something that lets her know that you view her in a “sexual” way. If you don’t, you run the risk of winding up in the “friend zone”.

14. Use conversation “games” to keep the mood fun and flirtatious. Games can be anything like “truth or dare” or to less extreme games like the “5 questions game”.

15. Don’t give away your hand so fast. Women like men who are a challenge. If you want to keep a woman’s interest she has to feel like she is slowly winning you over. If she thinks you’re too easy… she’ll lose interest.

N.B: The best way to think about how to talk to women is to think about what kind of fun, playful, and sexual conversation you would most enjoy. Talking to a woman doesn’t have to be difficult. You just need to be aware of what they are turned on by and what turns them off. Follow the list above and you’ll do just fine.

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Good one,but some points are contradictory, e.g numbers 12 & 13.By my standards,there is no better way to delve into 'intimate talks' than by complimenting her looks,body carriage or gait. #candidme.

binger: Good one,but some points are contradictory, e.g numbers 12 & 13.By my standards,there is no better way to delve into 'intimate talks' than by complimenting her looks,body carriage or gait. #candidme.

But you will still agree with me that some ladies tagged that "Flatteries" I know some ladies in the house can back me up on that!

Aren't we tired of boys and girls stuf here. 15 make sure u give ya money regularly.

I use only one tip. Let her know that I like her and show her the money...Works like Magic.

Ok

All these tips without money in d pocket is?

tomakint:

12. Never compliment her on her eyes, looks, or body.

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Do Naija men need a brochure on how to get a womans attention? Don't think so!

I've read articles that state the exact opposite about women. I think people who write these articles should just shut up and let human beings live their lives like it's supposed to be.

tomakint:

But you will still with me that some ladies tagged that "Flatteries" I know some ladies in the house can back me up on that!

It is mere flattery when it's done too much,but candid compliment when it's done seldomly. A lady likes it when u appreciate her.

THIS WRITE UP DOES NOT APPLY TO OUR COUNTRY NIGERIA OOOOO ..... JUST CARRY ANY OF THE CARS BELOW AND APPROACH A NAIJA BABE OR GIVE HER THE COMPLIMENTARY CARD OF THE BANK BELOW INDICATING THAT YOU WORK THERE.... YOU DON'T EVEN NEED TO TALK AGAIN NOR TRY TO GET THEIR ATTENTION. YOU WILL EXPERIENCE "ACTION SPEAKING LOUDER THAN WORDS" "THE POWER OF MONEY"

BTW, IF A GIRL LIKE YOU, SHE DON LIKE YOU KPATAKPATA.... IF A GIRL NO LIKE YOU, IF YOU WANT, APPLY ALL THE RULES IN THE BIBLE OR ENCYCLOPAEDIA BOTH KNOWN AND UNKNOWN... YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TYME.... SHE GO JUST USE YOU AS THE HEAD OFFICE OF HER BANK ACCOUNT OR ATM MACHINE

And the usual...show her u've got money. Trust me, u'll attract all kinds of girls .

Naija men don't need a how to brochure when it comes to women! For all they know its one rule apply to all.

Afam4eva: I've read articles that state the exact opposite about women. I think people who write these articles should just shut up and let human beings live their lives like it's supposed to be.

I guess they 've got the right to their opinion, i don't think urging them to shut up is the right language.

my money speaks for me


#No time 4 longthing#

pastie: my money speaks for me


#No time 4 longthing#

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lol.

Freiburger:
I guess they 've got the right to their opinion, i don't think urging them to shut up is the right language.

Don't i have a right to my own opinion?

Nice! But I think da best way to talk to a woman is by flirting with her. Also tease, comlpement and joke with them.Never show you are desperate! This will keep da conversation floating.

Studies shows that trying to understand women increase the chances of gray hair B4 the age of 40 in men and make men go insane. #complicatedbeings.

nawa oo...see rules..i rada remain single...when i don hamma, i will be the one giving them rules on..10 ways to get my attention...

Afam4eva:
Don't i have a right to my own opinion?

What's your opinion? A complete opposite of the the above listed tips?

good point....some of it contradict buh good point sir

Freiburger:
What's your opinion? A complete opposite of the the above listed tips?

My opinion is in my first post.

trust me all the 15 points work like magic just commit them to hearts guys and pray for MONEY because that makes everything worthwhile

NONSENSE!

Stup1d and nonsense. Who get time for this trash? Abeg give us tips on how to make money not woman. H.I.V AIDS dey for town. Getting rich mood in my mind. F**K YOU AND YOUR 15 TIPS.

Afam4eva:
My opinion is in my first post.

Good, so let those who wish to benefit from those tips do so, based also on their opinion.

Every lady likes a sucessful man, get money first and ladies will follow, na u go dey choose which one to sample !

Freiburger:
Good, so let those who wish to benefit from those tips do so, based also on their opinion.

I'm not forcing anything down anyone's throat cos it's my personal opinion. I'm speak for myself and not for anyone else.