Hummingbird: ....tnk u xo much..u cnt begin wat a reliev dis hs brot in2 ma troubld @...as a mata of fact,m flowin wel wit ma mum nw...sinc xtadai,d tot of bin a grandma soon is evn makin ha ovajoyous...we r jst 2 u kmw,jst me n ma sister....mariag is d last tin on ma mind nw...i jrt want ma baby to grw wit a complete family...al d same..i apricia8 it...God bles u

Dnt worry ur baby wil grow up wit a complete family but for now u & ur family r d relations she/he has. Dont worry a man dat is urs wil come & accept dat child and ur child wil grow up wit a complete family.
Thank God u r back wit ur mum. Am telling u be4 u know it, dat guy wil be out of ur pix soonest! ur focus shld be on ur baby now. Start making plans for her, save towards her arrival.
Pls dnt rush into any rship 4now cos u dnt need 1.
I like ur courage dat abortion is a no no! i took d same decision 2yrs ago and i am proud of it and i continue to thank God that i ddnt take dat step. my baby father has not contacted me since he left till now and i was so proud of her wn i celebrated her 1st birthday wit family & friends. To make matter worse, he didnt gav d child any name wn i called him dat i put to be and dat he shld send her name. you can now imagine wot i went thru.
SO like i told u previously, u hav to be very strong an prepare for the worse wit ds guy.

All will be well and make sure u lean on God for everythg. He will not put u to shame.

women!!!
God bless us

Dyt: women!!!
God bless us

amen

pheyikemi: I seem not to get u again madam hummingbird, at 1st u sed u grew up wtout a father bt u want ur growin embryo to knw its father so u told d guy jez in case, now ur mum wasn't thr 4u but ur parents r supportive of u sinz u told 'em u r pregnant. If u dnt mind o, hu r these parents of urs? How many parents do u av?

I grew up witout ma mum..dts wat I meant by sayin I grew up witout a complete family

Hummingbird: I grew up witout ma mum..dts wat I meant by sayin I grew up witout a complete family

. I c, now I undastnd u

pheyikemi: . I c, now I undastnd u

aite...I jst want a complete family for ma bby

3 abortions?? mehn, me dey fear o. God plz direct my future wife wherever she is
OP, kpele.. May God strenghten u. Remain positive. Better dayz ahead.

@op,i feel your pain girl, happy for the courage you displayed. Its nt easy now,but belv me it will surely get better

Nna eh stories like this one dey annoy me I swear.

How can you get pregnant 3 times for a man you are not married to? Even abort it thrice, na wa oo.

Hummingbird: Xriously abortion is the last tin on ma mind..av ad 3 for I'm in d past..n I dnt wana tie I'm dwn with d baby or make I'm marry me out of pity...I just finishd twkn to him..he wsnt even moved wit al ma cries n pleas..its lyk my lyf is crashin ryt in front of me lyk a pack of card

3 girl are u mad ni?

Hummingbird: m in ma early twenties,ma parent are very very ok,at least above d average nigerian..n dey are into dis wit me..eva since I told dem,dev bin suportiv

Am so happy you have family support. You are about to open a new chapter of your life, you will have to be tougher on yourself than others right now you have to forget the man and learn to love yourself and that child you will bring to this world. This is an experience you should learn from, many men are full of hot air. Your future is not destroyed because of this and remember never to treat the child like a problem. The child is priority.

You are still young and have so much to live for, am sure there are so many things you could not do because you were so committed to your relationship but now accept its over. Acceptance is very important here as it will enable you to move on, you are allowed to weep if it brings you relief but don't you dare look down on yourself, sometimes you will feel down its still ok those are the healing moments. Meanwhile keep working on yourself. All those things you wanted to do go do them.

Choose not to hate the father of the child just let him go.

freecocoa: Nna eh stories like this one dey annoy me I swear.

How can you get pregnant 3 times for a man you are not married to? Even abort it thrice, na wa oo.

A lot of girls/ladies need to use that grey/white matter in their skull and stop thinking what is on their chest is what makes them women.

[quote author=thorpido]A lot of girls/ladies need to use that grey/white matter in their skull and stop thinking what is on their chest is what makes them women.[/quotehmmmmmm]

thorpido: A lot of girls/ladies need to use that grey/white matter in their skull and stop thinking what is on their chest is what makes them women.

As in eh, I get really pissed reading stuffs like this I swear.

Okay see now she's here looking for sympathy, person give you belle the 1st time, you abort, abort 2nd one e no still do, till the 3rd, didn't that tell her something?

I don't pity girls like this at all cos this one don pass stupidity, rubbish .

Cocoa, she's nt ere sorting for any1s pity

Why u all condemning her act, it cld happen to any1, am glad she learnt already

Dyt: Cocoa, she's nt ere sorting for any1s pity

Why u all condemning her act, it cld happen to any1, am glad she learnt already

What is she looking for then?

Sweetheart, it cannot happen to just anybody, it can only happen to people who refuse to be wise, for feck's sakes why should a girl get pregnant for one guy 3 times and abort it?

Abeg it can NEVER, I say NEVER EVER happen to me, even if na jazz sef, my people go slap am comot from my eyes, haba.

Dats u gal
I had dis frnd ehn, on her intro day, she wz preg and d guy asked her abort it
Ofcus she did
And dat wz makin it d 4th time
A very sociable babe o
So wat are we talkin

nikkykay

why would you even deign to pay any form of respect to the father that he shd name the child
He is a bast*rd for all i care

I pray he needs some form of marrow transplant and it is that child he has rejected that will be his saving grace
i hope the child is in another country that he cant get the visa to reach
Amin

Bloody scum

Hummingbird: Xriously abortion is the last tin on ma mind..av ad 3 for I'm in d past..n I dnt wana tie I'm dwn with d baby or make I'm marry me out of pity...I just finishd twkn to him..he wsnt even moved wit al ma cries n pleas..its lyk my lyf is crashin ryt in front of me lyk a pack of card

omg! dis geh dey craze o! u've done 3 abortions? and u still went ahead knacking without condom? geh, u is some stupid azz. piss off mehn! msteeew!

Dyt: Cocoa, she's nt ere sorting for any1s pity

Why u all condemning her act, it cld happen to any1, am glad she learnt already

dyt, 3 abortionsssssss o! not 1. btwn, am preety sure if d bofy takes her bck and tells her to get rid of this pregnancy, she'll do it. dis chick is sick

Dyt: Dats u gal
I had dis frnd ehn, on her intro day, she wz preg and d guy asked her abort it
Ofcus she did
And dat wz makin it d 4th time
A very sociable babe o
So wat are we talkin

That's d stupidity we're talking about.Being sociable is not about wearing brazilian hair.It's about using dat white/grey matter in d headbone under the hair.

Giggling . . . . . .
These are part of d things desperation can cause, nt sayin she wz desperate o
Bt she loved him way too much
Wen u so in love sometimes, u 4get whom u are

Enuf of d name calling pls
Nt helpin matters

Please ladies we dont hv 2 condemn her for having 3 abortions for a guy. Do u know how many some have done wit different guys. For the fact dat she decided to spread her dirty linen outside here doesnt mean we shld condemn her.
Now that she has come to her senses, she has decided to keep ds one cos she knw what she had lost in d past and wot d repercussion culd ne if she tried to abort ds one again.
We are all guilty of one sin or the other so we shldnt just throw stones anyhow.
1 , 2 ,3,4,etc is all sin and it culd even happen whn dey were in school
And now dat she is independent and now that she can afford to take care of the child, she decided to keep it.
Do u know hw fertile she is? some ladies can go a yr without protection and dey wil not get pregnant while some can get 2ice in a month. I used to hv a friend like dat. We called her pig

@ biolabee
Thanks jare! I got in touch wit him dn cos my family said i shld let him know d child had been born but ds didnt change him at all.
My prayer is dat we shldnt meet him again in life. I dont pray he needs our help for anythg. I

Dyt: Giggling . . . . . .
These are part of d things desperation can cause, nt sayin she wz desperate o
Bt she loved him way too much
Wen u so in love sometimes, u 4get whom u are

Enuf of d name calling pls
Nt helpin matters

tnk u

nikkykay: @ biolabee
Thanks jare! I got in touch wit him dn cos my family said i shld let him know d child had been born but ds didnt change him at all.
My prayer is dat we shldnt meet him again in life. I dont pray he needs our help for anythg. I

If you dont want to marry a girl no p
but mehn you dont know what that child is gonna be in life

Look at Obama
I hate pple that neglect their kids

It is well wit u ma

Well Dyt, I thank God for how he made me but no matter what or how you try to paint it, any lady that aborts 3 babies whether for the same man or different ones o, is a useless shediot with no brains, excuse my language o but gone are the days for blaming f00lishness on love, abegi.

nikkykay: Please ladies we dont hv 2 condemn her for having 3 abortions for a guy. Do u know how many some have done wit different guys. For the fact dat she decided to spread her dirty linen outside here doesnt mean we shld condemn her.
Now that she has come to her senses, she has decided to keep ds one cos she knw what she had lost in d past and wot d repercussion culd ne if she tried to abort ds one again.
We are all guilty of one sin or the other so we shldnt just throw stones anyhow.
1 , 2 ,3,4,etc is all sin and it culd even happen whn dey were in school
And now dat she is independent and now that she can afford to take care of the child, she decided to keep it.
Do u know hw fertile she is? some ladies can go a yr without protection and dey wil not get pregnant while some can get 2ice in a month. I used to hv a friend like dat. We called her pig

@ biolabee
Thanks jare! I got in touch wit him dn cos my family said i shld let him know d child had been born but ds didnt change him at all.
My prayer is dat we shldnt meet him again in life. I dont pray he needs our help for anythg. I

for me comin hia n askin for advic ws a rily hard for me to do..I knw sm pple wil condemn,som wil even mock me..jst lyk u've said let he wu is witout sin be d first to cast d stone..al wat I nid isn't pity or insults..we al av skeletons in our cupboards too..m nt proud of wat I did in d past bt d only reason y I cam hia is becos I wnt pple to advis me,I dnt want to mak anoda mistak,even nw dat m bringin in an innocent soul into d scene..tnk u

nikkykay: Please ladies we dont hv 2 condemn her for having 3 abortions for a guy. Do u know how many some have done wit different guys. For the fact dat she decided to spread her dirty linen outside here doesnt mean we shld condemn her.
Now that she has come to her senses, she has decided to keep ds one cos she knw what she had lost in d past and wot d repercussion culd ne if she tried to abort ds one again.
We are all guilty of one sin or the other so we shldnt just throw stones anyhow.
1 , 2 ,3,4,etc is all sin and it culd even happen whn dey were in school
And now dat she is independent and now that she can afford to take care of the child, she decided to keep it.
Do u know hw fertile she is? some ladies can go a yr without protection and dey wil not get pregnant while some can get 2ice in a month. I used to hv a friend like dat. We called her pig

@ biolabee
Thanks jare! I got in touch wit him dn cos my family said i shld let him know d child had been born but ds didnt change him at all.
My prayer is dat we shldnt meet him again in life. I dont pray he needs our help for anythg. I

for me comin hia n askin for advic ws a rily hard for me to do..I knw sm pple wil condemn,som wil even mock me..jst lyk u've said let he wu is witout sin be d first to cast d stone..al wat I nid isn't pity or insults..we al av skeletons in our cupboards too..m nt proud of wat I did in d past bt d only reason y I cam hia is becos I wnt pple to advis me,I dnt want to mak anoda mistak,even nw dat m bringin in an innocent soul into d scene.d truth is m a real pig..tnk u

Idowuogbo:
omg! dis geh dey craze o! u've done 3 abortions? and u still went ahead knacking without condom? geh, u is some stupid azz. piss off mehn! msteeew!

wen we first met,he ws using protection bt d lubricant ws irritatin me..so I later opted for contraceptives..bt it kept failing me..d kind of person I am,even a smal drop maks me pregnant..

Hav bn foolish too sometimes
So is every other person
Jst dat our foolishness differs

Op, d Lord is ur strength

Dear Hummingbird

I can only just imagine how fragile your heart must be for u to have chosen this moniker

However you have to be hard from now

If you are Pregnant
Steel your mind aand prepare for the worst case scenario

Labelled a slut or viewed as a ho for getting pregnant, various deprivations of job, career opportunities, potential husbands who cant be a father to another mans child and then the child will want to seek out his nonsense father
People i know have lost out on interviews because they had to be with children

Best case scenario: the sky is the limit, your support system will help you throughout this time and you will obtain sufficient economic empowerment so you will be a liability to no one (Amen).
Also when a single mum is ok financially, its not such a far flung idea to actually get a husnabd.. we guys are madt sha

Note i use the worst case scenario so u can see what is ahead of you



if you are not pregnant, break off the bloody scum and go an sin no more

it is well with you

biolabee: Dear Hummingbird

I can only just imagine how fragile your heart must be for u to have chosen this moniker

However you have to be hard from now

If you are Pregnant
Steel your mind aand prepare for the worst case scenario

Labelled a slut or viewed as a ho for getting pregnant, various deprivations of job, career opportunities, potential husbands who cant be a father to another mans child and then the child will want to seek out his nonsense father
People i know have lost out on interviews because they had to be with children

Best case scenario: the sky is the limit, your support system will help you throughout this time and you will obtain sufficient economic empowerment so you will be a liability to no one (Amen).
Also when a single mum is ok financially, its not such a far flung idea to actually get a husnabd.. we guys are madt sha

Note i use the worst case scenario so u can see what is ahead of you



if you are not pregnant, break off the bloody scum and go an sin no more

it is well with you

amen..thank you very much..I knw I av a crious task ahead of me..dats so sure