Hi Guy, Something have been bothering my mind since concerning my Former girlfriend of 6 years before we parted ways and got married to our various partners.

The fact is, we were very good friends apart from being into a relationship and when we parted ways because our parents were opposed to our getting married, we parted peacefully with much understanding.

What astonishes me now is that for d past 3 years we have never seen nor spoken to each other but only on facebook. We look like enemies to ourselves. I don't keep much friends but I cherish the little I have.

I understand both of us are married but what I just want is hello once in a while like normal friends and nothing more.

Am using this medium to ask now if it is a crime to keep ordinary friendship with your EX.

Your contributions is highly needed

No u can't keep been friends with an ex

Aren't there other women out there

i doubt if you have gotten over the ex, looks like you haven't

@ baibijay-u don't seem to understand my post, we were very close friends before and during the relationship. So, does ending the relationship means ending hello friends too?

helpmeohgod: @ baibijay-u don't seem to understand my post, we were very close friends before and during the relationship. So, does ending the relationship means ending hello friends too?

just leave your ex alone and focus on your partner,,,i think you are not happy with your new whatever,because if you are,i don`t think u will be chassing after ur ex like dog chassing a car...what if your partner is still in contact with the ex for no matter what,how would you feel,,,,,just grow up and forget your excusess

helpmeohgod: @ baibijay-u don't seem to understand my post, we were very close friends before and during the relationship. So, does ending the relationship means ending hello friends too?

yes. leave her alone,whats your own sef?

Funny.

If you exchange greetings once a while on facebook, that is enough na. At least that means you are not enemies. No matter how close you were in your relationship, you cannot have a normal relationship with your ex once you are married. Since you like her so much, you should have fought your parents and married her. But you did not, and the past is the past. Face your wife and be content.

IMO, it all depends on how the relationship ended. But I think in most cases, it just doesn't work.

No

@ OP