What does it mean when a guy gives you a key to his apartment? Do you still have to worry about him cheating, or are you pretty secure at this point?

He gave you the key. , ,

So u can keep cleaning and cooking for him.

Live-in Housegirl/lover/maid type-o-thingy

Gamine:

He gave you the key. , ,

So u can keep cleaning and cooking for him.

Live-in Housegirl/lover/maid type-o-thingy

lol

Gamine - Omoge na wa 4 u oh . . .LOL!

LOL -

But actually, I dont do those things. He is very self sufficient, thank you very much. This is not to say that I wouldn't do it if I had to. Maybe he wants me to start

No wahala, but?

did he give you key to all the hotel rooms around?

Question!!

what are you waiting for? oya tie that apron, fast fast, or he'll collect it back soon

buzzgonz:

Question!!

hnmm

@poster

Do u also have the key to his heart? that is  more important
Well, we cant really understand some guys even when we think we kwn them too well
Thats why its been said that  the heart of a man is desperately wicked and no one can tell of it.

My dear, it could mean a way of commitment on his own side
It could  mean a ploy to lure u over completely
Just kwn that having d key to his apt is not a ticket to marriage

Shine ur eyes at all time girl
and dont be over too relax, the worse could happen but i dont wish u dat, enjoy it while it last.

Thank you!~

Maybe it means, he trusts you.

To me, giving someone a key is a big deal. I'm saying, I trust you in my space whether I'm home or not.

So maybe he trusts you in his personal space OR he wants a maid like the others said.

nalijah07:

Do you still have to worry about him cheating

Men will always cheat

nalijah07:

What does it mean when a guy gives you a key to his apartment? Do you still have to worry about him cheating, or are you pretty secure at this point?

You're not secure at all. He could always go and do his business in other girls home or he might even have another crib u dont kw bout. But if he's nt given u any reason to doubt him then maybe he's trying to show you he really trusts u and he probably like u 2 trust him also

he gave you the keys just to quicken your journey to his bedroom and to accelerate his journey in between your laps its another way of employing you as his cook,househelp,live in lover live in foka and lots more.

@poster

make a copy of d key he will soon ask for it back



it just shows he trusts u for now,
and has no immediate plans to cheat on u
play it cool, calm and matured


life is too short, for tins to stay d same

It can only mean you are the ONE for him.

I appreciate all the comments, even the funny ones O. I'm glad I asked, because I never thought about the housegirl/maid theory. See how we can all learn from each other. This site is GREAT!!

Seriously,

Him giving you his key is just a screensaver.

He can still do anything he wants, dont you watch Cheaters?

He probably wants u to have easy access to his home.

Maybe when u wanna visit and he isnt there or whatever.

What am saying is that it isnt a sure sign for anything - just take the key and even take permission before u go round sha.

@ poster,
i can only deduce something from your question:
1.HE INTENDS TO TAKE YOU SERIOUS. i gave the keys to my apartment to my girlfriend when it was clear i intend to settle down with her, do you know what it means, yes , you could prepare meals for him in absentia, do you know what it means to eat what a lady has prepared, you NEVER can tell, every is possible,
2.he would hardly consider the option of bringing another lady home because you can be there at any time, well for me, simply means you ve won his heart.
3.i can say to a resaonable extent he's got some level of trust for you.

@poster

I share the same views with ZHEROS.

A guy giving you the keys to his apartment only shows that you are special, he's crazy over you and he really loves you.

Forget the house maid theory. You can be a maid in your boyfriends apartment without necessary having the keys.

Ignore what someone said that he will turn you into his sex machine.

How many ladies actually lost their virginity to the man who gave them the spare keys to his apartment? Huh?

funkybaby:

Ignore what someone said that he will turn you into his sex machine.

How many ladies actually lost their virginity to the man who gave them the spare keys to his apartment? Huh?

True talk.
At least u know that he has some level of trust in u - and u can only be a house girl if u want to.

adeboo:

He probably wants u to have easy access to his home.

Maybe when u want to visit and he isnt there or whatever.

What am saying is that it isnt a sure sign for anything - just take the key and even take permission before u go round sha.

word !
it means nuffin !

[color=#000099]baby, i think u have his heart like 70%
it aint a guarantee but it's a good sign[/color]

i will like to add that its a great plus for you if the guy is in his late twenties or early thirties, what i mean here is he shouldnt be a student , from my experience if he isnt responsible to himself it means nothing but good time for sex, if he works amd isnt depending on anyone for sustenance, my sister just put your heads down , your prayers are almost answered.

its an old trick of the love book.
its meant to make u beleive u can come and go as u please
all na lie.
do u know how many other ladies have that key?
key cutting is very cheap ooo.
na today
we don do that one far tey

bennygee:

its an old trick of the love book.
its meant to make u beleive u can come and go as u please
all na lie.
do u know how many other ladies have that key?
key cutting is very cheap ooo.
na today
we don do that one far tey

i guess its only a stupid and irresponsible guy that will give 20 keys to 20 girls, afterall she never asked for it, he did it willingly.

ZHEROES you are right again.

@poster
I have been through this situation and if your guy is in the same circumstances as zheroes has mentioned(over 30, independent), you might have a marriage proposal coming soon.

No RIGHT thinking man would give his keys to several ladies. Players dont act that way. He will spend more time settling fights than screwing which his is original intention.

An average guy can bed as many cheap ladies as possible without even showing the way to his crib to them how much more giving them spare keys.

zheroes:

i guess its only a stupid and irresponsible guy that will give 20 keys to 20 girls, afterall she never asked for it, he did it willingly.

beats me!

An average guy can bed as many cheap ladies as possible without even showing the way to his crib to them how much more giving them spare keys.

true talk

@POSTER
Don't be fooled,cus i can decide to change my locks anytime !