Jan8: Don't kiss?!!! Wtf!!! All these rules sef don tire me...
Majority who don't follow most of them are doing well and you're here...
I'm not condemning the post tho. Nicely written

SLIDE waxie: Why u come spoil everytn with number 10 na?
Dnt brainwash people here o. I no fit convert to masturbatee o!

jhydebaba: Make I clap for OP Bad market why I go court girl, she'll tell me she's sticking to #10 and I go continue, I be Priest
No wonder una dey sleep for church dey pray for husband at 45

esere826: ^^^

Ok. u've had your moment in the spotlight
how about you and i break some of your rules together dearie

GraceBestowed: Hey, Duality. There's a difference between being eager and being enthusiastic, the former can come off as irritating. Being eager breeds impatience, and that's not cute. :-)

Mavor: There are women and there is a virtuos woman.

Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price [is] far above rubies

Pro 12:4 A virtuous woman [is] a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed [is] as rottenness in his bones.
The difficulty of meeting with such a one: Where can he find her? This implies that good women are very scarce, and many that seem to be so do not prove so. He that thought he had found a virtuous woman was deceived, see, it was Leah, and not the Rachel he expected. He that plans to marry ought to seek diligently for such a one, to have this principally in his eye, in all his enquires, and to take heed that he be not confused by beauty or gaiety or lustful desires, wealth or parentage, dressing well or partying well. For she may very well have all these attractions and yet not be a virtuous woman, at all, as these advantages are no certain recommendation of a good wife.

Pro 18:22 [Whoso] findeth a wife findeth a good [thing], and obtaineth favour of the LORD.
The essential qualities for a good woman (wife) is that she be a virtuous woman an able woman (the word includes strength), it is the same word that is used in the character of good judges (Exodus 18:21), that they are able men, men qualified for the business to which they are called, men of truth, fearing God. So it follows, a virtuous woman is a woman of spirit, a woman that is able, who has the command of her own spirit, though the weaker vessel, yet she is made strong by wisdom and grace, and the fear of God, one that is pious and industrious and a help meet for a man. In opposition to this strength, we read of the weakness of the heart of an imperious whorish woman, (Ezekiel 16:30). A virtuous woman is a woman of resolution, who, having espoused good principles, is firm and steady to them, and will not be frightened with winds and clouds from any part of her duty, for her security rests in the fear of God and the covering of her husband.

Pro 19:14 House and riches [are] the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife [is] from the LORD.
The unspeakable worth of such a wife, and the value which he that has such a wife ought to put upon her, showing it by his thankfulness to God and his kindness and respect to her, whom he must never think he can do too much for. Her price is far above rubies, and above all the rich ornaments with which vain women adorn themselves. Here she is compared to the worth of wisdom:

Pro 3:15 She [is] more precious than rubies: and all the things thou canst desire are not to be compared unto her.
The more rare such good wives are the more they are to be valued as shown by the respect given to Ruth:
Ruth 3:11 And now, my daughter, fear not; I will do to thee all that thou requirest: for all the city of my people doth know that thou [art] a virtuous woman.

Jan8:
pls sir, what are you trying to say in summary

Jan8:
pls sir, what are you trying to say in summary

Mavor: I'll leave you to figure it out. You're smart ain't ya?

Jan8:
you're apparently smarter than i am, so pls spell it out. To be sincere, i don't get it really

10. GET INTIMATE - this goes without saying within a Christian courtship, but I'm saying it anyway! If you're kissing, sleeping together, or engaging in any intimate activities, then you're committing fornication - there's no two ways about it. If you can't wait, get a marriage blessing!

Opytim: All those who are against #10 are mostly guys.....why? You've got nothing to lose frm it....the consequences are suffered mostly by ladies. As a lady, when u keep ur self pure frm all these, u won't have to worry about buying contraceptives, you won't be panicking when your period is late because u knw u have nt done anytin that would nt make it come, and also u wil have a free conscience when u hear someone preachn against fornication......all these and many more are the benefits of #10 to ladies.

Pennywise:

He is a player. The type who gets ladies attention by sounding biblical (no matter how irrelevant)

Jan8:
pls sir, what are you trying to say in summary

Opytim: All those who are against #10 are mostly guys.....why? You've got nothing to lose frm it....the consequences are suffered mostly by ladies. As a lady, when u keep ur self pure frm all these, u won't have to worry about buying contraceptives, you won't be panicking when your period is late because u knw u have nt done anytin that would nt make it come, and also u wil have a free conscience when u hear someone preachn against fornication......all these and many more are the benefits of #10 to ladies.

AVWENAGHA: must u quote

Pennywise:

He is a player. The type who gets ladies attention by sounding biblical (no matter how irrelevant)

Jan8:
i'm thinking the same thing but nonetheless, i want him to be explain himself witnout mincing words so i can know if he himself understands what he is saying.

Dazl: Op...does a court marriage wit jes ur frends as witnesses witout parental knowledge count as marriage blessings??
Sex in such a union is it a sin

Dazl: Op...does a court marriage wit jes ur frends as witnesses witout parental knowledge count as marriage blessings??
Sex in such a union is it a sin

Mavor: You are very funny. If you can't read and understand, too bad.

GraceBestowed: ^^ Thank you for looking at it from such a positive angle! Truth be told, I'm no better than the next woman, but am willing to share information on what I've seen to be the foundation of a solid relationship!! Thanks again! :-) ^^