taryour: I tire for you o Op, is this supposed to b a question u are asking How old are you? U arranged meeting with ur first love wen u are goin to be putting to bed soon,meeting for what? To make up for old times and marry him with another man baby?? Someone u avnt seen in 5years. U add better dust ur slippers and find means for ur parents to accept the man that impregnated u. after all u knew of ur religious differences before u got pregnant. God help u o

taiwokehin: I'm pregnant for a muslim guy and I'm from a strong christian home.although my parenyts are aware of the pregnancy and the guy I'm pregnant for.his parents and other family members are also aware and they want to legalize the union,but my parents have refused any form of contact with them.now,my very first boyfriend who is a very strong christian wants me back but he does not know I'm pregnant and I'm almost due.he called and we set up a meeting for december in which he said we would start planning the wedding.I still want to believe he is joking cuz we haven't seen in the last five years.Do I tell him about my current situation or should I wait?matured opinions pls

greatgod2012: @op, u knew u made a great mistake when you decided to follow a guy from another religion, well, d deed has been done, 1st, let your other lover know that, marrying you could only be in a dream, dont waste his time, let him know that you are already carrying a baby, that will enable him to be convinced that, you are not just trying to chase him away.
2ndly, prepare to have your baby, since your inlaws to be are aware of your pregnancy, have d baby, dance to their tune for a while, if along d line, d father of d baby show interest again and now want you to be his wife, then you can go on and legalise your marriage, but, if on d other hand, he doesnt look your side, plead with his pple (family) to release you so that you can gather yourself up again, and open d door of second chance for yourself, and along d line, do not forget to learn from your previous mistake.
May God help us all.

greatgod2012: @op, u knew u made a great mistake when you decided to follow a guy from another religion, well, d deed has been done, 1st, let your other lover know that, marrying you could only be in a dream, dont waste his time, let him know that you are already carrying a baby, that will enable him to be convinced that, you are not just trying to chase him away.
2ndly, prepare to have your baby, since your inlaws to be are aware of your pregnancy, have d baby, dance to their tune for a while, if along d line, d father of d baby show interest again and now want you to be his wife, then you can go on and legalise your marriage, but, if on d other hand, he doesnt look your side, plead with his pple (family) to release you so that you can gather yourself up again, and open d door of second chance for yourself, and along d line, do not forget to learn from your previous mistake.
May God help us all.

andromida:

Why does she have to plead with his family to release her? is she sold as a slave to them.

greatgod2012:

saying pleading to them does not means she is sold as a slave to them but to try and enlighten them why they should release her, to live without them interfering in her affairs, either by taking care of their child by themselves or by sending in their child support with which she can take care of their child.
So, try to understand my words, she is not a slave, but she had already made a mistake that will make them treat her d way she may not like.....gerrit?
May God help us all.

baby_123: Orisirisi. OP, o ma ga o. Are you a doll baby that your family is throwing up and down? You better marry the muslim guy and close the book. What is the assurance the christian guy will accept you and your baggage? Or even treat your child right. If the muslim guy is a good guy, marry him abeg. If your family don't agree, go to court. One life to live. Don't be too easily controlled by anyone. Make the best decision for you and your child. Don't waste time abeg. Just go to court, you made the decision for yourself when you got pregnant for him knowing how your family feels about marrying muslims. There are good marriages with this mix. What matters is your happiness. You know the muslim guy, the christian guy may have become something else. I know christian fanatics that cheat and beat their wives. See foluke daramola's husband now. Abeg shine your eyes o, make e red. Serious christian no follow these days.

andromida:

This is good advice except she say the guy don change.As in maybe he is doing the running man plus he no send her again which is why she is considering the Christian man.

taiwokehin: I understand u perfectly.I knew he was a muslim when we started dating,but he converted @ a point.he started going to church,reading the bible and all but immediately we found out I was pregnant,he totally kicked against an abortion.not so long after he changed.Now I have no choice,rather than to accept my fate of shaving my lil new born's head,giving her a name I can never approve of and finally living a life that I'm so sure of unhappines..when I feel there is a chance of making things better with someone else

baby_123:

The guy don change, because she was so obsessed with the christian fanatic aspect of converting the guy, instead of the relationship. She was busy trying to change the guy by force, instead of accepting him for who he was when they started dating. If she was such a good christian, and a converter for christ. She shouldnt be having pre-marital sex and getting pregnant before marriage. Her hypocrisy stinks to high heavens, so really she shouldnt be the one now trying to hide under the shade of her "christian family". Na her choice sha, make she gamble with the christian guy now. A bird in hand, is worth two in the bush. She is a very dishonest person, the christian guy doesnt even know she is pregnant. What next? She will pass her child off as her cousin to marry the christian guy?