Mynd_44:
Reminds me of one man for this village. His wife came home late from work and cos he was hungry, he took it out on her and started beating her. When people were separating them, the husband hit one of the men and the guy started fighting the husband....

Guess what the wife said?
"wetin concern una? He is my husband and he has the right to correct me when I dey wrong"

na since then I don dey buy pop-corn keep for my appartment.

True story oooo

Lmaooo! Correct! Her name na Oluwasubmissive she?

LMAO...

Idowuogbo:
Lmaooo! Correct! Her name na Oluwasubmissive she?

More like oluwamentalsickness omogo

Mynd_44:
More like oluwamentalsickness omogo

Lwkmd! Mynd don mayan o!

Killz!

But we should realise that abuse is not limited to physical violence ooo. Chai some girls don suffer when it comes to emotional and oral abuse.

If some guys talk to their BF and you hear eh....you would think they are having an e-fight on NL.......

And still after the insults, the woman girl will say
"he is just showing his love. He does not keep things inside and as he has said it, it has finished inside him"

Mynd_44: But we should realise that abuse is not limited to physical violence ooo. Chai some girls don suffer when it comes to emotional and oral abuse.

If some guys talk to their BF and you hear eh....you would think they are having an e-fight on NL.......

And still after the insults, the woman girl will say
"he is just showing his love. He does not keep things inside and as he has said it, it has finished inside him"

Does ones na Elstup!do aka Odewengers,

Idowuogbo:
Does ones na Elstup!do aka Odewengers,

Lmao

Caracta: He beats you black and blue, yet you stick with him like your life depends on it.

Is it love or another definition of endurance/tolerance? Or being beaten turns you on? Or is it the practise of "for better for worse" thingy?

Please make me understand. Why do you put up with a violent boyfriend? Or why do girls put up with boyfriends who practise Bruce Lee on them...Kung Fu things?

dnt impersonate like d other Americana that placed a strange tag on naija men. Tell us something real abt it. U cnt just ask hide under a general situation to get or solve a personal situation. If av sumtin real abt it, tel us if u dnt, then na derailing e go be.

A perfect example of emotional abuse will be a BF sharing nûde pictures of the girl with his friends and they have a good laugh about it even to the point of sharing it on the internet......

I wonder what will make the girl go back to the guy just because he appologises.

Chukskalidon:
dnt impersonate like d other Americana that placed a strange tag on naija men. Tell us something real abt it. U cnt just ask hide under a general situation to get or solve a personal situation. If av sumtin real abt it, tel us if u dnt, then na derailing e go be.

U say wetin?

Chukskalidon:
dnt impersonate like d other Americana that placed a strange tag on naija men. Tell us something real abt it. U cnt just ask hide under a general situation to get or solve a personal situation. If av sumtin real abt it, tel us if u dnt, then na derailing e go be.

What sayest thou

Mynd_44: A perfect example of emotional abuse will be a BF sharing nûde pictures of the girl with his friends and they have a good laugh about it even to the point of sharing it on the internet......

I wonder what will make the girl go back to the guy just because he appologises.

He's d best thing after slice bread. A few touches in d right arena, she'll b bck to d Bonnie and Clyde status.

Idowuogbo:
He's d best thing after slice bread. A few touches in d right arena, she'll b bck to d Bonnie and Clyde status.

And the guy will get back to his "Photographer status" na

Caracta:
What sayest thou

tell us that ur bf is abusive on you lets get on it.

Chukskalidon:
tell us that ur bf is abusive on you lets get on it.

Smh...i refuse to get on the same level with you. Lai lai.

Caracta:
Smh...i refuse to get on the same level with you. Lai lai.

what sayest thou? Am tired of all these imaginary general situation on this section. Nobody, wants to make her/his thread real anymore. What do u want people to comment abt this. The same tin ova and ova again. You didn't even tel us d reasn 4 d thread. Na 2day abusive relationship dey exist?

^^^
Then feel free to ignore the thread and move on. Thank you.

Lyk criously, it baffles me....

There is more to it dat meet d eyes sha....it cud be money, sex, d guy's personality, e.t.c....sum stay 'cos it d guy dat got them disvirgined....

some of us were brought up in a broken home life..alot of women find comfort in a man that takes over.it feels like someone cares enough.which isnt true,we lose are self respect.Alot of parents need to speak up!! A women doesnt need to be controled in order to feel wanted.some stay because there made to feel like they can not support themselfs financially & start to doubt if they can reallly make it on there own.We need to bult self esteeme into our girls.Women can do anything a man can do.

I think itz because some ladies are so desperate to get married that they tolerate such. But they fail to realise that they are putting their life & happiness @ risk.
No man has any right to hit a woman....... No matter what!

There are a lot of reasons people tolerate abusive relationships, the most common is denial, read this post


http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/signs-of-abusive-relationship.html

RIHANNA & CHRIS BROWN SUMTIN SUMTIN 4 SHIZZY... E lu irayin pa, ife l'o n soro

Some dont have choice

Mynd_44: Low self esteem...

as in VERY LOW SELF ESTEEM

ifihearam:

Am laffing in zulu,men are scarce ooo. Nor go there!

You are right.15 worthless men who will not pick ur bills are all over the place.

Becuz many gals love dating bad guyz. . . .and call nice guyz 'mumu' #Irony

5 reasons,i can think of!
1. She's put in so much (time,energy,resources,her body-3 abortions) to leave.
2. The believe that they'll never find another to "love" them. (self worth =0)
3. They see abuse as show of "affection". Believe me, there are some "demon possessed" ladies who believes a man doesn't love them until he's beating them up.(attention=affection, right?)
4. The believe that they can "save" him. (Only Jesus can save. So dump the id¡ot).
5. Her father abused her mother,so she thinks its norm. (most Girls like men who are like their fathers).

Being who i am, i would rather spoil a lady's lipstick,than her mascara!

Love, hope or desperation!

Caracta: He beats you black and blue, yet you stick with him like your life depends on it.

Is it love or another definition of endurance/tolerance? Or being beaten turns you on? Or is it the practise of "for better for worse" thingy?

Please make me understand. Why do you put up with a violent boyfriend? Or why do girls put up with boyfriends who practise Bruce Lee on them...Kung Fu things?

The act or attempt of hitting/beating shouldn't be tolerated from a boyfriend, husband, brother, uncle, etc. It is accepted by some girls/women partly because of low self-esteem and some may have been brought up in an abusive home to think it is okay to hit or beat up a woman. The same goes for men. Some of our brothers/men have witness their dads using their mothers as punching bag and think they have to do the same to any woman they are with. Although, not all men that witness their dads doing this follow in their footsteps. Our society and laws also need beefing up to protect women...currently a work in progress.

dazz661: I think itz because some ladies are so desperate to get married that they tolerate such. But they fail to realise that they are putting their life & happiness @ risk.
No man has any right to hit a woman....... No matter what!

Na wetin I nor dey like hear be this.
Says who? But a woman has right to hit a man abi?(Thunder fire that womanif she tries it on me)
For the fact that some men like me are gentlemanly and doesn't hit women doesn't mean we don't have right ooo
If I take ur case seriously I will discover that even ur bf beats ur every other day sef