The answers u will provide will help single men find their true love. I understand that every woman is diffrent but lets see what u have to say

They (we) wont tell u what you should do to get us. WORK UR ASS OUT, and find out urself.

hot-angel:

They (we) wont tell u what you should do to get us. WORK UR ASS OUT, and find out yourself.

I would normally agree with this one but then I have to remember that in situations where I am trying to get that special guy, I pray for some advice that will direct me and minimize the difficulty in achieving the prize. 

Therefore, my two-sense is this:  honesty and romance.  There is nothing more appealing than a man who is honest.  However, there is a distinction between being cruel-honest and being kind-honest.  In that I mean, cruel-honesty is where you don't care whose feelings you hurt when stating the truth.  While on the other hand, kind-honest is stating the truth but stating it in a manner that is considerate of the recipient's feelings.  The kind-honesty is truly appealing. 

Furthermore, romance.  Every woman loves a bit of romance; however, the question becomes as to what extent she desires it.  I personally prefer the simple type: phone calls just to say "hi," sweet emails here and there, and little spontaneous things.  No need to do extravegant things. 

All in all, I believe simply that any woman just wants to feel that she is wanted--truly and genuinely wanted--not lusted!

mokwuosa:

I would normally agree with this one but then I have to remember that in situations where I am trying to get that special guy, I pray for some advice that will direct me and minimize the difficulty in achieving the prize.

Therefore, my two-sense is this: honesty and romance. There is nothing more appealing than a man who is honest. However, there is a distinction between being cruel-honest and being kind-honest. In that I mean, cruel-honesty is where you don't care whose feelings you hurt when stating the truth. While on the other hand, kind-honest is stating the truth but stating it in a manner that is considerate of the recipient's feelings. The kind-honesty is truly appealing.

Furthermore, romance. Every woman loves a bit of romance; however, the question becomes as to what extent she desires it. I personally prefer the simple type: phone calls just to say "hi," sweet emails here and there, and little spontaneous things. No need to do extravegant things.

All in all, I believe simply that any woman just wants to feel that she is wanted--truly and genuinely wanted--not lusted!

I am glad for your sincerelity. I c u r wearing ur graduation dress, when did u graduate?

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They (we) wont tell u what you should do to get us. WORK UR ASS OUT, and find out yourself.

hmm hotangel well like my post said, women are diffrent, the second person responding just proved u wrong, So what i understand from ur comment is that u do rather prefer the man to discover what u like, well if that works for u then that is ur preference, I like mokuwsa's comment better, it will help her find her true match,

@ larger_20, I graduated from undergrad about 4 years ago. I just couldn't find a more random pic to post. I really need to scan more pictures.

mokwuosa:

@ larger_20, I graduated from undergrad about 4 years ago. I just couldn't find a more random pic to post. I really need to scan more pictures.

thats kool,

KNOW WHAT YOU WANT before you set out to get her. B/c if you don't you'll blow hot & cold and she'll think you're "playing games" when if fact you were trying to make a decision on how much time to invest etc. etc. Also, express your sincerity in a way that she can appreciate.

@mokwuosa
Thnx for tha lectures

iice, long time no see.

sammyjl:

Be yourself, do small things, like sweet sms and calls and be romantic. You don't have to go out of your mind to please a woman. Look at her signs, does she also want you.

Go ahead and tell her. Disappointments are everywhere, so be prepared.

yea, its a game that must be played