hardbody: If you believe in prayers, just keep at it. Try not to aggravate him whenever he seems to have made those calls, let him be until he gets back to his senses. If you make an issue of it, you will be creating a greater chasm and that is the least room you want to give him.

Try and go out a lot with him, find out some of the things the other lady did and try to replicate those things while introducing new dimensions to it. At the end of the day, whether you get him completely out of that mould remains in your hands, all the best.

tpia@:
i wonder if all the exes of people need to get together over poundy and maltina, and thoroughly discuss their ex intoto.

maybe this will help them remove the rose coloured glasses [at least in the case of the women, dem sabi use mouth trash/finish somebody].

i saw something like that on tv albeit a fictional situation.

for example, say 20 to 38 ex girlfriends of orikinla or someone, meet up at some club and get him out of their systems over a few glasses of palmwine and local gin.

guys, how would you feel if you came across all your exes discussing you?

spiritchild: had the same issue when I got married. I confided in an older married friend, a man. His advice from a man's perspective was priceless and it worked! His advice? Let him feel there's competition, choose a partner in crime, a male, who would call u @ odd times especially when he's around. In my case I used a male cousin ma hubby had never met or heard about. It worked like magic cos he soon started policing my phone, demanding to know who called and even began snapping @ his ex when she calls. We have been together 7years now. I hope it works for u.

spiritchild: had the same issue when I got married. I confided in an older married friend, a man. His advice from a man's perspective was priceless and it worked! His advice? Let him feel there's competition, choose a partner in crime, a male, who would call u @ odd times especially when he's around. In my case I used a male cousin ma hubby had never met or heard about. It worked like magic cos he soon started policing my phone, demanding to know who called and even began snapping @ his ex when she calls. We have been together 7years now. I hope it works for u.