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Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Uch74(m): 7:54pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
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Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Petebaba: 5:32pm On Apr 20, 2013 |
This is a very interesting and debatable issue. I’m a nice guy and I understand what the writer meant but the way he tainted it got me thinking. He described Nice Guys as kinda Misfits in relationships. Nice guys are NATURALLY nice and they can’t just help it. It is in their blood to be courteous, simple, generous (especially toward their lovers), and kind. As a way of introduction very few ladies may become close to a Nice Guy in a romantic relationship, but those that do will find themselves with a fiercely loyal and faithful lover. Yes, Nice Guys may be distrustful and may simply avoid entering into close relationships in order to avoid possible future pain. On the surface they appear to be cold and guarded, but in truth, they can be tender-hearting and caring if you don’t mess with them. So if you find one, keep him and be faithful to him. You will NEVER regret it. Nice guys are the best guys any lady can date and let me correct some of the MYTHS this writer has elucidated: NICE GUYS ARE INSECURE: Oh that is NOT true. Nice Guys are NOT usually insecure at the start of a relationship. They only get insecure when you begin to take them for granted. They give you their loyalty and you are paying them with something else, so they get uncertain about you. So it is the responsibility of a lady not to play pranks with them. NICE GUYS ARE CLINGY: Yes, when you are faithful to someone and you give them your best, you tend to be clingy. It’s normal. It may be irritating, though, if in excess. A clingy guy will not likely be unfaithful in a relationship. However, everything has to be moderate. NICE GUYS GO OVER BOARD…..: You need to understand that it is the nature of nice guys to give. They are not doing it because of insecurity. You’ll even notice that they are kind to their casual friends too, not to talk of their own lover and this is not a bad attitude. NICE GUYS RARELY SPEAK UP WHEN SOMETHING BOTHERS THEM, AND RARELY STATE CLEARLY WHAT IT IS THEY WANT, NEED AND EXPECT: I want to state here that Nice Guys are peace lovers. They always try hard to avoid conflict in a relationship and they tend not to say things that will hurt the feelings of their partners. If they do, they would not hesitate to apologize. I think this will be appreciated by ladies who want peace too. However, not all Nice Guys keep mute when things go wrong. A mature Nice Guy is very open and he tells you when anything bothers him, especially when you encourage him to speak up. NICE GUYS DON’T LIKE THEMSELVES: I disagree with this statement. Nice guys like themselves but they go all the way to make you happy. They want to satisfy you and always see you smiling, not feeling hurt. I think this is a plus for them. All in all, I think some ladies who have had terrible experiences with bad guys will prefer to end up with the nice ones. 1 Like |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 5:54am On Oct 21, 2013 |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Nobody: 7:40am On Oct 21, 2013 |
cronsberg: listen guys,this is my field since am a perfect leykis 101 student here it goes... Your way of reasoning is very sad and simplistic. First of all, not every young girl is into "bad boys". I am convinced that ONLY those girls / women who have psychological issues are into bad boys. Any girl / woman who loves herself will not end up with someone who doesn't treat her the way she deserves. My own experience and psychological research prove that. Secondly, when a woman turns 30 and changes her preference from bad guys to nice guys then it doesn't mean that she is scared of remaining alone because first wrinkles show up BUT it could as well be that she has wisend up AND healed! 'Cause no lady with a healthy self-image and love for herself will aspire to be with an a.s.s.ho.le. Only psychologically challenged women make the decision to start a relationship or even worse a family with a person who could as well be their enemy. Thirdly, I'm so happy NOT to have to live in Nigeria because in the place where I live it is perfectly NORMAL that EDUCATED women start thinking of marriage at the end of their 20s and later and nobody cares or calls them desperate. Fourthly, men like you will never have happy homes. You will take this bad Boy attitude into your home and produce an unhappy mother, which will also affect your children, most of all your daughters, who will end up with a man similar to you ... and the circle goes on and on. Last but not least, like SOME (psychologically challenged) ladies are into bad boys, SOME men like to be treated BAD too. They are motivated when you treat them like a doormat. I have seen the so called "bad boys" turning into doormats once they met a girl who was even worse than them. I remember a girlfriend telling me: the secret to making a men do whatever you wanthim to is to not be too nice to him. Be good in bed but bad to him, don't commit. |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by toshmann(m): 7:19pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
Women like hot-headed bad boys. FACT and this is understandable bc bad guys know how to make a girl feel nice about herself, get what they want and vanish. Infact some women even like men that beat them ( this is the one I don't understand) but it's unbelievably true. Also, men like bad girls, not for marriage but for banging. Infact I know many guys who the the sight of virgins. Me, I like pretty girls Good girl, Bad girl, Neutral girl, Just be pretty and I'm game |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by sweetpoison(m): 9:04pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
D op is frustrated |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by toshmann(m): 9:21pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
sweetpoison: D op is frustratedLol |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Sam32(m): 11:06pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
pompori king: When you're older and smarter you would keep wondering why those same women keep marrying the nice guys Sure the nice guyz r patient enough to wait till when she ready to get married *niceguyrule #4: always respect a woman's choices no matter how it affects u Sucks |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Sam32(m): 11:23pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
Nice guys treat ladies too nice. Lets face it wen someones treats u more dan u deserve u get spooked! In a gurls world u place undeserved worth upon her, wich means she gets d burden of giving back high quality returns. We r all imperfect humans! I av a female account on a social ntwk( long story), nd d way most guyz(yes nice guys) work tinz out wit ladies its out of proportion nd too demanding if u r to reciprocate Facts nice guys shld remain nice guys bt d qualities of 'bad boiz' shld b adapted in d dating field Quit bangin ur head on d wall!! |
Re: Why Women Dislike Nice Guys by Sexbadoo(m): 10:38pm On Dec 04, 2013 |
i cnt change 4rm who i am just coz i wanna get laid...am naturally nice nd get along wt gurlz too 2 Likes |
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